Cervical Play ?

This part of a woman is sadly neglected. Does anyone have any suggestions?

Yes, continue to neglect it. The area concerned is not to be interfered with by untrained ill equipped amateurs such as us playdocs. proceed beyond at the patients (and your) peril.

I would draw the line at taking a pap smear and no further.

In my opinion this is just asking for TROUBLE!!!! I like a little pain with the pleasure, but I would be afraid to try this. Hopefully you do this with an experienced medical profession.

Has anyone read about the menstrual extraction trend in the 1970's? Apparently groups of trained but not medically certified women performed a form of surgical abortion for one another with a reasonably impressive safety record. There's a lot of info up on the web, and also if you search google books for "a woman's book of choices" it gives some good info.

Sorry to be so blunt but;

You are playing with fire if you attempt it untrained.

Trained does not mean read a book let alone read on line.

Once you are beyond the cervical you are deep in the body, beyond skin barrier and directly in contact with blood supply.

If you are not 100% sterile, you risk massive infection that can kill quickly. You risk hemorrhage.

You aren't trying C sections and hysterectomies as play, don't go into the cervix.

You will find your play partner dead and you in jail for a long time.

We have tons of backup when we do it. O2, cardiac, cauterization, drugs, etc.. Even then things can go south very quickly.

I am all for having fun but first and foremost, play safe.

Dr. B.

I think this is definitely a subject that would best be left to online fantasy roleplay for those of us who are not real doctors!

What play with the cervix? You must be totally crazy.Besides the myriad of problems previously mentioned it hurts. Why not go play in traffic ?

I've never done more than quickly feeling it during vaginal fingering.

My wife does not like it if I press on it with the finger or hit it hard with my penis. So we don't do that.

I would never dare insert anything there. I mean, that's how people tried to perform amateur abortions back in the days when abortions where prohibited, and many a times it resulted in a punctured womb and a trip to the hospital, or worse.

This is one area of medfet play that should NEVER be performed in play.

As sated by Doctor B a real physician) "

Sorry to be so blunt but;

You are playing with fire if you attempt it untrained.

Trained does not mean read a book let alone read on line.

Once you are beyond the cervical you are deep in the body, beyond skin barrier and directly in contact with blood supply.

If you are not 100% sterile, you risk massive infection that can kill quickly. You risk hemorrhage.

You aren't trying C sections and hysterectomies as play, don't go into the cervix.

You will find your play partner dead and you in jail for a long time.

We have tons of backup when we do it. O2, cardiac, cauterization, drugs, etc.. Even then things can go south very quickly.

I am all for having fun but first and foremost, play safe.

Dr. B.

And liquidsky:

What play with the cervix? You must be totally crazy.Besides the myriad of problems previously mentioned it hurts. Why not go play in traffic ?

This is a dangerous and potentially fatal procedure. I seen case where medical professionals who do this often and are well trained have made mistakes which have resulted in a hysterectomy to control the bleeding from a perforation. Infections from this procedure again are life threatening.

This procedure cannot be learnt by reading a book , it takes training, supervision, skill , time and experience and expertise to safely perform. In a play setting you do not have the skill, experience or expertise as well as the medical equipment and medications to deal with any unforeseen complications. In the time it takes to get help you patient can die for exsanguination (severe loss of blood).

I cannot stress the importance of not letting any playdoctor attempt this procedure on you .

SO DO NOT LET ANYONE DO THIS TO YOU IN A PLAY SETTING !!!!!

To summarize what I have stated on this topic over the years:

The Susie-isms are:

DO NOT INSERT ANYTHING THROUGH THE CERVIX REGARDLESS OF ITS STERILITY

YOU REALLY DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU ARE DOING, you just think you do.

To paraphrase an old sage, "Just because you think you know the tricks of the trade, that doesn't mean you know the trade."

DON'T FUCK WITH THE UTERUS!!

The reasons not to do cervical dilation or penetration, in a nutshell is three fold.

1--The uterus is sterile and very susceptible to infection

2--Possible sterility--inability to have children.

3--Possible perforation, uncontrolled bleeding and DEATH.

I read about menstrual extraction and was horrified. The very real dangers of fulminate endometritis and uterine perforation make this totally hazardous. I wouldn't condone this in the slightest. I've seen uterine perforation in the ED and the outcome was hysterectomy.

Moderators, Should this thread be locked?

NO.

If it is locked, it will not get any posts and it will then fall to the bottom of the list of posts and then the information will be lost. It needs to be kept open

I agree, Susie. What's the point of hiding a stop sign behind a tree?

Or something like that.

I like that analogy.

Absolutely I agree with everyone - don't try to insert anything through a cervix, or dilate it! Don't try to put anything into a uterus.

There is though such a thing as a cervical orgasm. This article has a bit of info about it: http://orgasmicdiscourses.com/cervical-orgasm

It does not involve any attempts at penetrating or dilating the cervix, just talks about sex positions that best stimulate the cervix.

To clarify, is this post talking about penetrating the cervical os, or touching the cervix in anyway e.g. during an manual exam? Not going into the os in a play situation seems like a no-brainer, but is there potential harm otherwise?

Dr Max it hurts.

Dr Max it hurts.

Gotcha. Thanks!

Actually it depends on the female. Some do, some don't. Some are psychosomatic and some aren't.

Psychosomatic? Say what?

Are you psychosomatic because your testicles hurt when they're kicked? It's anatomy not neurosis. Besides you don't have one.

To paraphrase a great man: "This word "psychosomatic,' that you keep using, I do not think it means what you think it means."

A girlfriend and I bought a double headed dildo online once. We were shy and didn't know there was a super store in Phoenix. Anyway, it was long and thick and hurt really bad when it hit my cervix. When we found out about the super store we measured with it in us then went and bought a shorter thinner one. I don't mind my cervix touched or even wiggled with fingers a little that can be hot. That bad part is that it feels like cramps after for a few minutes.

I am with Tabitha, a very limited amount of cervix contact is okay, and can turn me on in a play setting. We have never tried nor will we ever try to penetrate the uterus. I do find the cramps to follow depending on the duration from the insuing cervix contact can temporarily my mood for sex.

I agree that a very gentle touch to the cervix can be arousing but nothing more than that . That is not a spot I want " played" with . To want to introduce anything into the cervix is insanely stupid and asking for trouble.

To add to Alex2 's post , not only do you need a dictionary but you need a brain too ! Simple idiocy.

Touching the cervix is fine. It gets hit all the time during sex with the penis and dildos.

Don't penetrate the cervical os.

It's interesting to note that everyone has come to their own conclusion without knowing what the original post was all about. Not that I'm suggesting perfroming a procedure...but this topic always goes around in circles without anyone identifying exactly what they are referring to.....in other words don't beat me up for commenting...rather... identify exactly what procedure is being referenced. If I did not have a bit of real knowledge then this whole thing would confuse the heck out of me....an informed play doctor is a much better one, and much more incapable of doing harm.....than one who is misinformed by wildly broad generalizations.

I find comments like this coming from folks claiming to be practicing physicians a bit disturbing as well --

So what does "don't go into the cervix" actually mean? .... or "things can go south very quickly" - considering that many postoperative procedures such as hysteroscopy etc rarely lead to serious infection or other complications ( though of course anything can ) I would be very fearful of having Doctor B. actually perform surgery in a real life setting..sounds like malpractice run amock.

If you are a licensed practitioner...or pretending to be one...then please be thorough and correct in your statements so folks can have a real understanding of what can be dangerous in play

Along those same lines....

The uterus is not really sterile. There has been some thought regarding immune transmission during vaginal childbirth that assumed this to be true but we have a lot better research...the uterus is more like the flora of the mouth and not at all like the vagina. That said even laminaria sticks used to induce labour are sterile...basically anything beyond a pap smear utilizes sterile instruments so you just don't want to insert anything not sterilized into the uterine cavity

Dilating the cervix is not the same as puncturing the uterus....that seems to get mixed up a lot. You need to know that there are risks aside from perforating the uterus. Cervical issues would come from improperly gripping with the tenaculum , too much force, not using tapered dilators....this is how tearing of the cervix occurs. So don't play with a tenaculum if you don't know what you are doing...and if you do then be sure to use a multi tooth instrument and know exactly where not to grasp the cervix as well as where to do so.

I do know some folks that get into cervical dilation. It's rather extreme play..but those who play safe use Pratt rather than Hegar sounds. Inserting a uterine sound can definitely perforate the uterus accidentally...perforation with a sharp instrument (why you would do that I don't know but I've heard of all kinds of things being used) would make it all the worse as far as possible damage. Ordering a set of sounds on amazon to try out is probably not a smart idea

If you are performing a realistic exam then you are going to come into contact with the cervix. If you perform a pap then you'll be entering the external cervical os. This is different than entering into the internal os...which is the entry point into the lower uterine cavity. The internal os ..where you don't want to go is much easier to penetrate during the first two weeks of the cycle. Know how the body works in order to avoid problems. Manipulating the cervix is a routine exam procedure...but it can cause pain, especially if abnormalities are present...again understand how the body works. Same with the uterus...palpation should not be painful....but pressing on large fibroids can be something that is not so fun.

Again...not suggesting anyone try anything beyond their knowledge....but you have to have some knowledge aside from "don't do that" in order to avoid exactly what you don't want to do

STAY OUT OF THE GOD DAMN OS AND DON'T USE ANY CERVICAL DILATORS

Like BigK said in the beginning of this thread, draw the line at a pap smears.

Well I'm not one to tell people what to do. If you want pain, the risk of PID and risk serious issues then knock your self out but I certainly wouldn't want a play dr inserting anything into my cervix. Examine it digitally and stare at it all day through a nice shiney speculum if you want to but that's where the fun stops.

Molly is exactly right, a cervix is not something that should be entered unless you are a medical professional.

Listen folks, god knows I play and play hard. I have been known to even cross lines I probably shouldn't for safety reasons, but I have the tools and skills to cross that line sometimes because I have the education to fix things before they are really broken. Remember, safe play is fun play. Momma always said, "better safe than sorry".

Know your limits, set boundaries and keep them. The most important thing to remember when playing and with most things is to USE COMMON SENSE! I can't stress that enough. If you think about it and use common sense, it would make you think about how our bodies are set up and why they are set up the way they are. Your heart and lungs are embedded behind strong muscles and a rib cage for a reason. That reason being so they stay protected and out of harms way as much as possible. Without them we would die. Wouldn't it stand to reason as well that a cervix is a good 6 inches deep, poorly lit and basically closed off for the same sort of reasons? A prostate as well. Without either of those things the human race would have died off.

So please people, use your head before you embark on an adventure that could harm yourself or others. Know your limits, know the law, and don't be an idiot. And remember, if a cervix was someplace to play it would come equipped with a swing set and monkey bars. Just sayin.

Mashie

And remember, if a cervix was someplace to play it would come equipped with a swing set and monkey bars. Just sayin.

Maybe some people think the cervix IS the "monkey bars" of the vagina... 😉