My first and by now only DRE was about a couple of years ago, so I was like 26.
I noticed I had hemorrhoids, which appeared when I would bear down. I didn't want it to get worse, so after some time I decided to have it checked.
I called the clinic to make an appointment with proctologist first thing in the morning. They had surgeons who dealt with procto issues, so I had my visit scheduled. I could see the doctor info and pics on the website, so I knew who I was going to see...
I was told on the phone to do a fleet enema before the visit. But instead I used the regular enema bag.
So the day came, and I entered the exam room. There was the doc and a nurse who was preparing some instruments, but soon she left, and it was me and the doc. It's not common here to have chaperones.
After we talked about what brought me there, he told me to take off my shoes and jeans and come up to the exam table. He then said "Lie on your right side, panties down to your knees, knees up". I thinks it was right instead of left side because of the table positioning, and also maybe he was left-handed.
I slid the panties just below my buttocks, and he slid them further himself - so embarrassing... He then parted my buttocks doing the visual check and also touching around. And speaking to me at the same time, like "yeah, I see some minor hemorroids"... He was literally talking to my ass, I didn't know how to react! So I mumbled something like uh-huh.
And then without any warning and even without a pause, he slid his finger inside! He didn't even take time to lubricate the finger - maybe he did it in advance, I didn't see...
He started feeling around, and it felt strange. Like something soft and moving inside my ass... I tried to stay relaxed, but must have tensed at some point, and he said "Relax". It was over in less than a minute I think. He said I had no internal hemorroids - maybe this is why he skipped anoscopy, which I was expecting with both dread and excitement. He told me I could get dressed, which I did very fast.
Then another embarrassing part was discussing the treatment... He told me to come back in five days, but I didn't show up...