Age during first rectal exam

If you met such a doctor once, I'm sure many here would like to hear some more details and specifics, to hear what happened to make you think so.

A nurse actually, she's now retired so a lot of her career was 70/s,80/s. And I didn't encounter her in a medical setting, so it wasn't "encounter" so much as "open talking".

I shouldn't say here though, even without a name being attached. Some things aren't told with the intent of public disclosure, even anonymously. It's VERY taboo for them to talk about in the first place - medical workers have to pretend it never happens. So no offense but I don't want to put here what we talked about 😢.

Except just to say it DOES exist. Dun know how much. Probably rare? That much I believe. But some medical workers do find parts of their job sexual sometimes. To be fair they also put up with all kinds of nasty shit, mean patients, gross things, etc. They see it all, the good and the bad.

My first rectal exam was when I got my first barium enema at age 24. The technologist explained to me why she needed to do a brief digital rectal exam before inserting the nozzle. It totally caught me off guard, as I was already dreading the nozzle. I felt her slippery gloved finger at my anus, it was a little cold from the K-Y. She pressed the pad of her digit back there for a few seconds, then slid it inside me all the way in one gentle push. I clinched my cheeks because it felt awkward having something up there. She told me to try to relax, and the 10 or so seconds she was inside me, I felt new sensations I'd never experienced before. She rotated her finger side to side, and pressed gently on my prostate. That felt really intense, then she pulled out, and I quickly felt the nozzle slide right in. It went it easy, which I feared it wouldn't. I'm glad she examined me like that. It sort of broke the ice of having a young female perform an embarrassing procedure on me, and it prepared my butt for that huge nozzle.

I did not get my first rectal exam until I was 21 as part of my physical for starting my first job out of college. It was also the first time I was examined by a female doctor. First she examined my testicles and penis and then had me bend over to take a fecal sample, but she did not give me a prostate exam.. It was the first time any object had been inserted in the my rectum other than a thermometer and it was a bit of a shock when her finger went in.

If you haven't heard of a rectal exam before you get one, the first one is a shock. My first was definitely unexpected and so uncomfortable that I left the doctor's office feeling like something really strange had just happened.

I've only had the occasional prostate exam done rectally since I turned 45. I get an annual physical, sometimes performed by the family physician and on occasion done by his PA, a women in her fifties. Although I am always nervous for this part of the exam I find it very titilating, especially when she does it. The last time, a couple of years ago she had me get completely naked. I laid on the table while she performed an exam of my abdomen then she worked her way down to my genitals and did a complete exam. She had me stand in front of her while she sat on the stool, continued the exam of my genitals then asked to bend over the table and spread my legs. She inspected my anus, lubed her gloved finger and performed a prostate exam much more thoroughly then the physician had in the past. I felt my penis getting erect and really had to focus to stop it so that I wasn't fully erect when I turned back around to face her. She handed me dry towels to wipe up the KY and told me that I could get dressed.

When the physician does my physical I usually have my underwear on until he asks me to bend over the table and drop them for the exam. Last year he didn't complete a prostate exam because he said that with no family history or prior issues we could wait until I was in my fifties. I was a little disappointed to say the least.

I turn fifty next year and am looking forward to the next exam. However, I also know that at that age I will start to have annual colonoscopies which I think will be fun as well. I have wondered if during these exams, sedation is optional? I routinely enjoy enemas and large anal penetration and do not think I need to be sedated for the exam. In fact, I believe that I would enjoy it if I were not sedated. Has anyone ever forgone sedation during a colonoscopy? Was it optional or did you just request no sedation? Was it painful or did you enjoy the experience?

I was in my 40s and went to see my doctor about a stomach pain. I wasn't expecting it, but he examined my genitals and then stuck his finger in my anus,

When I had just started high school, I got a really bad stomach infection and ended up in the emergency room. They had me strip down and put on a gown. The nurse came in and took vital signs and the next thing I knew she was putting on a glove and telling me to roll over on my side and bend my leg up. Then she gave me rectal exam that I thought would last forever. Then two other doctors took turns giving me the same exam. I learned later they were checking for appendicitis but didn't know it then. I felt do bad I didn't much care at the time. They gave me a shot for vomiting and another one with an antibiotic. Went home with a sore butt.

I was 24, and it was for a pre-employment physical. I knew it was coming, because I saw it on the form the doctor fills out, while I was waiting in the waiting room. I bent over the end of the table for it.

Spanking Master, if you 23 years old and you joined this site 3 months ago, then why does your profile say you are 18? You are probably a guy too.

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Mboyd77, what was the reason that you were given rectals in two different positions, one right after another?

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Mboyd77, what was the reason that you were given rectals in two different positions, one right after another?

I sent you back a private message...but to since you posted here...I will also reply here as well. To answer your question....I have no clue why...personally I believe and in my opinion the doctor was pedophile. I don't know why any doctor would give a prostate and/or anal exam to a 13 year old and then again at age 16. I know he felt and massaged my prostate. At age 16, I remember pre-cum oozing out of my piss slit and then when he turned me over and held the base of my penis while inserting again...I came.

Never had one at a real doctor. In a play exam I was 20.

I had my first rectal exam at thirteen. I had contracted mononucleosis and had bad right lower quadrant abdominal pain. The doctor was trying to see if I had appendicitis. I didn't but did have it later. Rectal exams to diagnose appendicitis have gone out of favor. There are a lot of false positives and why traumatize someone who's in pain? Go to an ultrasound or CT scan instead. I think it would be highly inappropriate to do a prostate exam on a 13 year old.

I had my first at 18 years old. It was my first appointment with a new doctor for my college physical exam. I was in my underwear for the physical exam and when the time came for the genital exam he told me to stand up and remove my shorts. He did the testicular and hernia exams and then told me to turn around and rest my chest on the exam table. Next thing he was inserting his lubricated finger in my butt. Big fingers for a first time! I saw him for a few years and since I've mostly had female doctors.

I was around 27 went to the doc with a sharp stomach pain. The nurse listened to my belly with a stethoscope and just left the room not saying a word. Doc came rite back in and had a listen said "your bowls had shut down" had me bent over the table and pull my pants down. He said "I am sorry I gotta check up your bottom" he did, didn't hurt at all. So to this day I don't know what he was looking for. He just said "I think it's your appendix" so off to the hospital...

It's an outdated exam for appendicitis. Now they rely on technology - blood tests that come back in minutes, ultrasound and CAT scans.

12. Showing signs of appendicitis. The Ped. did a DRE and pressed on all 4 sides of my rectum, checking for pain in each area. I eventually went to Children's E.R., where 5 different residents did the same thing, before I was taken to the O.R. for appendectomy.

Jimmy, five residents were way too many. That wasn't very kind. We got very specific instructions about doing redundant painful exams.

I was about 9 female doctor and really bad stomach cramps,

I was in my early 40's during an annual exam at work. I guess when they read my family history & saw that my dad died from prostate cancer when he was 62, they thought i should be checked earlier than 50. My mom died from colon cancer & they started trying to persuade me to go for colonoscopies since I was 33, I finally went when i was 38.It does not arouse me. I usually wince in pain from that feeling of being stretched to the point where I feel like I might start bleeding

My first one as an adult was almost identical, except for the reason.

18 - at the same time as I got my first smear.

My first rectal exam was when I was 26 when I switched doctors. He did a complete exam to assess my general health

I had my first and only one when I was 18 and in the hospital with a bout of pericarditis.

I am 28 and when I saw my gynecologist he said a rectal exam should not be needed until I am over 40.

17, at a Military induction physical. Those Doctors make you bend over and spread your cheeks then pop a finger right in.

Late twenties and have not had one. Is there a way to ask about it at my next physical without it being too weird?

I first received a DRE in my late 20s from a gastroenterologist due to an issue I had been experiencing.

I'm also thinking about this question for my med-fet patients. Here are some potentially interesting stats:

* Three had previously had a rectal by a real doctor. Two were in their 30s, and one in her 50s.

* Three had previously had a rectal only in med-fet play. All were in their 20s.

* Four had never had a rectal exam at all. (Naturally, we remedied that!) Two were in their 20s, and two in their 30s.

On the previous poster's question of how to elicit a rectal exam at the doctor's office, I definitely wouldn't mention bogus problems. That wastes the doctor's time by creating nonexistent problems for him/her to solve. (You might even end up getting referred for some expensive, unnecessary tests.) If you want, you could just ask if he/she does a prostate exam as part of a physical. Or if you're female, ask if your gynecologist does a rectovaginal exam, and explain that you read that was part of the typical gyn exam.

Please don't waste my time by making up bogus complaints. You have no idea how enraged and resentful I would be. I have little enough time to spare attending to real complaints. If I were to find out that a patient had conned me that way I would throw them out immediately. I have had patients try to get me to do digital fecal impaction removals. When I refused they became unpleasant. Security threw them out and they were not allowed to return. If you want a DRE just say you're concerned about your prostate and I'll examine it. If I suspect that you're doing it for fun though, you're going to provide a lot of laughter for the nurses in the back room.

I wasn't meaning I wanted it for kicks. I was just concerned that it was left out of my physical.

I wouldn't make something up, I guess I just have trouble being forward enough to say that I wanted my prostate examined because I'd be afraid it'd be misconstrued exactly like it was here.