My wife tried finding it with me on my back, my legs lifted up. Her lubed finger went into my rectum, Was not sure she could find.
My wife then found it right away by using this position: I got on my knees and elbows. She sat behind me, put lube on glove . Placed pad of her lubed finger against my anus. I “beared down “/ pushed out and took slow breaths. She slowly pushed finger all the way in, “ aiming down “ towards belly button. End of my prostate in rectum about 1.5”. She said other end about 2.5” inches in. I knew when she found it! A tingling at end of penis. She confirmed is was “size of a walnut, consistency of a plum.”
She swept her finger back and forth across prostate. Pressed down gently also and palpated. Prostate fluid slowly drips out. After a few mins, it drips with a bit thinner consistency . When I squeezed , much more came out. I could feel it going thru my urethra.
After about 10 mins, she began to reach under with other hand and begin to stroke my penis.
Unbelievable feeling, I actually began to buck a bit. “ When I told her I was about to cum, she pushed down a bit more on prostate . And sped up the stroking. Prostate fluid covered her hand and made a squishing sound.
I literally began moaning loudly. Good thing had a hand towel down under me as I spurted a much higher volume of seman than normal. Best orgasm .
We do this quite often now.