Who in your life knows of your enema fetish? Who have you told?

Only one of my relatives knows about my LOVE of enemas. He shares that love. He saw me in one of the Yahoo groups or enema sites and wrote to me (not knowing it was me). When I read the first letter I was pretty sure it was him because he has a medical condition that affects the digestive system and he told me about it in the letter, plus his name, age and writing style seemed to point that it was him. I responded to him without stating who I was because he's a very sweet, sensitive and sincere person and I didn't want him to freak out and think that I'd blab to the family and because he doesn't have anyone else he can talk to about enemas. It's important for us to feel we're not alone so we started a friendly chat with our letters. Then he mentioned that the medical condition was hereditary from his father I thought maybe I was wrong because I knew my uncle did not have the condition. So we talked a little more intimately.

Then I remembered that he was a child from my aunt's first marriage and figured out that I was correct in my first thinking. I had dropped hints that I thought we knew each other but not very well. His next letter was quite explicit and I didn't want him to reveal anything more without knowing who I was so I replied with a long letter letting him know we were related and soothing his mind from worry that he would be "found out." He wasn't as surprised as I thought as he'd put the clues of my name, age and details about myself and my life and thought that it could be me. I think he was a little worried at first, but we've kept each other's secrets.

He was still interested in giving each other enemas and maybe playing with each other but I didn't feel comfortable with it. On one hand, it would be playing with someone I know, trust and feel comfortable with. And it wouldn't necessarily be a sexual thing. He needs the enemas to help control his condition and when he has flare ups. But his wife thinks it's disgusting and don't like to help him with it, espcially since she knows he gets pleasure from enemas as well as the health benefits. On the other hand, if our parents or families found out they would probably disown us and his wife is a real fireball and has one hell of a temper. I realize we're both adults and wouldn't be conceiving a child together but I still couldn't get over the "ick" factor. It just kind of freaks me out.

Has anyone ever played with a relative while they were both adults or is the situation a little too strange?

Only my husband knows. unless my kids figured it out when they were young and saw the bag around, butt, i only used a douche nozzle so who knows? they have never said anything about it.

Only three know. My lady companion, the Shadow and our dog Sparky and he ain't talking.

No one! (although you never can be sure I guess)

I only have one sister and she knows that I use enemas. But I am not sure that the realize that I use them for pleasure or not. When we were very young I told her that I loved the feeling of an enema. we were home alone that afternoon and after I took an enema I asked her if she would like to try one too. She did, and took about a half a bag full, as she was four years younger than me. However she said that she did not find them all that pleasant. That was more than sixty years ago. About a year ago, I sent her a e-mail telling her that I took a soda enema that helped with loose bowels. So she knows that I do take enema redrub

I've mentioned enemas for health to my mom a few times over the years. She seems extremely opposed to it but I learned from my cousin that my grandma used to give enemas back in the day so maybe my mom suffered under her. Most of my friends know. I'm pretty much an open book. If I act like something like enemas or anal sex or whatever is perfectly normal maybe others will just accept it as such and not make a big deal over it. So anyway, most of my friends and I get into fun details of life and share most everything with each other. I'm the only interesting one, though. None of my friends are very kinky. But they don't mind that I'm a little weird. And of course, I consider the online enema community to be my family.

For years my wife thought I was weird taking enemas. Then when I went for a physical she told me to tell the doctor about my enemas which I did and the doctor had no problem with it as long as I didn't do them too often. Our doctor retired and when I went to see the new doctor wife said I should tell the new doctor about my enemas. I told her I took enemas and she said "Oh! Colon cleansing" and wrote it on my record next to the food supplements I take. Now when I tell my wife I am going to take some enemas she says fine and sometimes goes to the mall for a walk and lunch. I asked the doctor if a saline enema would add to my salt intake and she said no. 😉

Only a select number of e-friends along with colon hydrotherapists know. Many here would wish to have doctors as supportive as Bruce's to give the medical seal of approval that impress their spouses.

BruceE,

Always nice to get the Dr.s approval, then how can the wife say no. I recently started an herbal colon cleansing program which will be over in about 6 weeks. After it is done, I told the wife I'll need to do "maintenance" enemas monthly. So when she goes to art class I should be able to get in an enema series of 3 qt hot soapy water, 3 qt sea salt, a 2 qt coffee enema, followed by an implant of aloe vera juice with 4000 mg MSM mixed in. Wife totally approves of the enemas but doesn't like them herself and does not want to get involved. So, I help her pay for her art classes, and I get do do some "colon cleansing" for myself.

I keep mine secret also. I have a bag type enema from fleet. It folds up into a small box, which I keep in a cash box that I can lock and then keep that in a shoe box in the back of my closet with other box's on top of it. Not even my husband knows I have it.

I think that a lot (most) of my relatives know that I got enemas a lot as a kid, mom (of course) aunt, & sister. My grandma knew too, but she's deceased now.

As for anyone (related to me) knowing that I like enemas now, and that I'm still doing them, no!!

We have an empty nest at our house, so my wife is the only one who knows about my enema passion. However since we usually leave the enema bag hanging behind the shower curtain, I wonder if any company might discover it and wonder. We try to be discrete to conceal it if we expect visitors, but as life goes unexpected things will happen.

My mother knows about my love for enemas because she finally taught me to love them when I was 28. As a teenager I hated them and used oral laxatives. Although anal erotic I never made the connection of enemas being erotic until she gave me 2 where the second was with a douche nozzle. She had a hard time getting comfortable about telling me how she enjoyed hers and how she usually got an orgasm from them.

The only other relative who knows is a cousin who is a lesbian and about 12 years older than me. She gave me an enema when I was 12 once because my mother asked me if I wanted her to do it instead and I thought I could talk her out of it. It did not work. Then another time about 5 years ago I visited this cousin when her roommate girlfriend was away. We talked about old times and I mentioned the long ago enema. By that time I was just becoming an enema fan and she asked if I had ever got over my fear of enemas. I told her I was working on it. She said she doubted me so I told her to give me one and I would prove it. We have talked some on the phone since but enemas don't come up as a topic.

I have an Aunt that visits a few times a year and once and saw both my bag and my roommate's bag hanging to dry. I think she suspects we are Bi. She has never asks anything direcctly but gets a sly smile when she asks about my roommate.

Also, I'd say that a few friends know - 5 or 6 at most.

Hmm... I think my boyfriend knows but he has never brought it up... I keep a bag sorta hidden... and once I forgot to put it away for a few days, but who knows if he ever even saw it... I think he might think its a douche or something... I don't know if my parents know or not nor do I care... but I was frequently constipated as a kid (still am, thank you God for blessed IBS!!!!!) and once my mom found some oil in the toilet and asked me about it (I had given myself an oil enema earlier and I guess the toilet didn't flush all of it... 😢 )

For years and years I kept my enema secret from my wife. I wish I would have told her long ago because although she is not into them , she does understand. I keep trying to get her to try an enema, but not yet. Maybe someday, I will keep trying.

In a small childhood home, it was hard to keep enemas secret from the rest of the family. As an adult, a few friends with similar interests know.

I became severely dehydrated in the summer before my 13th birthday and my aunt figured that I was constipated to the point of being impacted, so instead of taking me to the doctor's office, she dragged out her fountain syringe (douche) and was in the process of getting the HHH/SS ready when an emergency at work made it necessary for her to leave. I don't clearly recall if her oldest daughter volunteered or was asked to do the honors -- I was in the process of vacating the premises after I heard that she was leaving, but my two cousins stopped me in my tracks, wrestled me to the floor and got away with my pants and underwear. I got the enema, administered with some obscene, huge, white rubber nozzle as my two cousins giggled. They later became participants, but that's another story. I hated enemas before that: to think of all that time and water wasted....

So two cousins of mine know. And to answer your question, egirlky, yes.

I hope my klismo mother never finds out. Then she'd want to talk about it. Icky.

I think my brother knows, but he's in denial. He won't talk about it. He walked in on me once when my mother was giving me one. Maybe he's on this site somewhere....

There are many reasons why a man should have his testosterone levels checked -- and God help the doctor or lab technician that snickers about it to me. A man whose testosterone is low is likely to be very depressed and have a plethora of serious health problems adjunct to his condition. Sometimes a serious medical condition can cause testosterone levels to plummet; acute pain and/or insomnia can cause cause it. Any caring woman who sees her husband become a depressed couch potato should march him at gunpoint (just kidding) or by his testicles into a doctor's office immediately. If the physician refuses to have testosterone levels checked, she should grab both by the short hairs, march them into the lab and have the MD start filling out same serious lab requests.

On a similar subject, men who are taking antidepressants are usually impotent and actually are unable to actually feel an orgasm. If that is the case with anyone whose husband/bf/significant other has lost interest in sex, talk to him about it; if necessary, contact his physician and ask if he would consider ordering a non-SSRI antidepressant; get your man by the hand and have him walk at a moderate pace for 35-45 minutes daily if the doctor will approve the exercise. Brisk walking will usually help most men with no serious underlying medical risks to begin having normal erections in a week or so, maybe even less, once they're off the SSRI antidepressant. Sometimes it's more difficult to watch a man die than it is to take matters into your own hands and seek some form of intervention.

My apology for hijacking the topic.

For those of you inventive gentleman that are clever designing their own enema gear, there are compact enema kits on the market now that even the dullest of us can disguise or conceal: the kits appear nondescript and innocuous. I have one that I carry with me when I'm traveling and haven't had it questioned by airport security even once, domestically and overseas. The name escapes me and I'll have to come back on site with the name after I find it.

I wrote yesterday:

"For those of you inventive gentleman that are clever designing their own enema gear, there are compact enema kits on the market now that even the dullest of us can disguise or conceal: the kits appear nondescript and innocuous. I have one that I carry with me when I'm traveling and haven't had it questioned by airport security even once, domestically and overseas. The name escapes me and I'll have to come back on site with the name after I find it."

I did find the information:

It is the Unisex Douche/Enema Bag, 2 liters, Item # E27110, $14.99, available from EnemaEquipment.com

I hope that this helps.

I have never kept anything from my wife in the 26 years we have been married.

I like it that way so when we are home and she is reading I can go into the bathroom if I want and just ask if she needs the bathroom that I will be in it for awhile.

As far as hotel rooms I take my travel bag with me and once left it hanging in the bathroom.

The cleaning people where really amazed with me for that week and ask if it was OK that they moved it when they cleaned and I just smiled and said yes.

She turned red when asking to, thought that was priceless.

I wonder if she wanted to try one. LOL

If his testosterone level is low he won't ever care until that deficiency is corrected....Jimbeaux

As an older married guy, my wife has zero interest in anything anal, and last many years also sex. So, I have to hide all of my equipment in several places, wait until she will be away for enough time to set up and fill up. I like the sensual sight of the equipment and would like to keep it all out in the bathroom, but its not possible.

No one really knows and I would't tell them either

The only ones who know of my taking enemas are all of you folks here. My family members would be horrified to find out, as well as my wife. So, it is a very nice feeling to share my very intimate enema joys and fetishes with all of you. I just hope you appreciate it. I am very grateful to have found this supporting community.

I hear ya Rolf.Even though everyone in my house knows of my enjoyment of enemas, my wife still gets embarassed if I say the word ENEMA too loud.

I've been into enemas for many years but my wife isn't so the equipment is well hidden. At least I hope so 😃

I have one friend who knows but he is in no way interested. No one else knows and I don't expect to be telling any of them soon! LOL

I wold like to meet someone, but that, so far, is just a fantasy.

I see no reason to carry a sign on my back that I love enemas. I can do that here and be proud. However, if my friends or family bring up the subject of enemas, I'll be glad to give them an earful.

The only person that I've ever shared this with is my present girl friend. We were walking back to a hotel one night, pretty buzzed, walked into a Rite-Aide and purchased a travel squeeze bag. I told her that I was going to wash her bottom out and she put up no protest. After we finished her comment was "That was fun." We don't do it all the time but sometimes. On a previous post I mentioned that I took a leap of faith and brought a higginson syringe to her home one evening and told her that it would work a lot better than that cheap little squeeze bag (should throw that thing away). So we use that occasionally and have some fun.

Interesting to read some of the posts here. I've heard a rare comment thrown out by someone referencing an enema. The most recent was a financial expert who was commenting on the "bitter medicine" the economy was going to have to take to get better. He said that "It's like taking an enema. It's necessary but in no way, shape or form will it be pleasant." If he only knew (LOL).