Who in your life knows of your enema fetish? Who have you told?

Before I married my wife, I wasted no time explaining my love of enemas. I did not change her mind, but when I am planning an enema session I'll just say, "Hon, I'll be using the bathroom for awhile". That's it, no questions asked.

Let the good times FLOW.w/m73yrs/Western Ma

There are no secrets I keep from my wife. She doesnt like enemas, but knows I do them and sometimes she will watch. I just cant get her to join in. I do have secret from everyone else.

I wish all spouses would find some way to participate with their significant others even if it is to just snuggle up with them (fully dressed). Then you all wouldn't have to do your enemas alone or in such secret ways.

I say tell her you enjoy enemas you have been married 20 yrs. Then get yourself some good equipment bags, bulbs and nozzles and enjoy even more. That's my suggestion for what it's worth.

What's wrong with those who choose not to engage. Maybe they need a Viagra IV. :😃

I got tested for my lack of sex drive once. Turns out my testosterone was so low I didn't care about sex or enemas, with or without my wife. My wife don't deserve that . No women should live like that. It is easy to do, so get tested. One dose per month, and my testosterone is back up. You ladies deserve this and it should not be a secret.

My wife knows about my enemas but does not want any part of it. I do keep it a secret from others. When I go on the road I use a shaving kit to keep my enema stuff in. That way I don't have to worry about my suite case breaking and spilling contents. I don't know how many night I have spent in motels enjoying enemas, with nobody to bother me.

In the very early 1970's, I was doing a fair number of overnight trips as part of my job. Since they were for only one night, I'd put a change of underwear and socks and a toilet kit and in my Samsonite hard sided briefcase, and carry it on the plane. Of course, into top, in a big manila envelope, would be a rubber enema bag, complete with colon tube.

Imagine the first time it went through a security x-ray! The radiopaque colon tube stood out big and clear. I think the only thing more obvious in the whole airport was my flaming red face as I explained what it was to the cretin security weenie!

Needless to say, that was the end of carrying my toys on the plane with me! Oh for the "good old days"!!!

Hello Mr. Waters: welcome to thiis site:

I enjoyed your story - what a neat solution you have devised for your 'problem'.

When I travel, I only pack some KY Jelly and a length of plastic tubing. Much easier to explain if my bag gets opened. At the destination I purchase a 2 - 3 litre plastic bottle of Fruit Juice, consume the contents, and keep the bootle for use when measuring out the liquid for my enema.

Regards from sunny Australia,

Pukelover

The moral of the story is really simple: dont get married before exploring various angles of ur partner sexuality....

I served 25+ years in the military and I have been to many foreign countries. When traveling on short TDYs, I would always look for enema equipment in the local stores. I would then have to dispose of the equipment prior to returning home... what a waste. In the late eighties, it became more difficult to find enema equipment and I had to switch to using unconventional enema equipment. I had the best luck with the portable hand held shower heads that attach to faucets. All I had to do was remove the head and I had an enema setup. When going through airport security, it was easy to view for what it was. No problems encountered. I was able to keep my enema secret throughout my military career. 😉

I too live in a small rural community, but have found "where there's a will there's a way". Occasionally travel which makes "hook-ups" much easier. :😃

I would never say never, if that right person came along, but that's me. Keeping that secret is hard to do. There are some very nice people on this forum that would be hard to turn down. We all have secrets to keep. And that is the best part of this site,w don't have to keep a secret, we think the same!!!

You are quite inventive. However, you could save yourself a lot of work and possible accidents if you purchased a disposable high volume enema kit, available in Hospital Supply Stores. It is a translucent 2000ml bag and the hose is welded to the bag and acts as a colon tube. No need for a nozzle as the end is rounded off and lubricated for easy insertion. It comes with a bag of liquid soap, shut off clip a pad and the pouch is very small and easy to conceal. It only costs $ 3-5 and can be re-used several times.

Good luck

There's a difference between private and secret!

I DO take all enemas in private.

I was raised by my Father, and I do not know if my mother is even alive!

My father had a mom who was strongly anti-enema. She never even considered giving him one, and insisted only sick people need them. As a result, he had to take all his enemas behind his mother's back. When he got custody of me, he made up his mind that, if I liked enemas, I was never going to have to do them behind his back! We DID, however vow early to respect each others privacy, and avoid intentionally embarrassing each other. As a result, from the time I started to self-administer, he actually wanted me to tell him, and keep both the bedroom and the bathroom door open, so I could call for help if I ever needed to! He wanted to make sure I knew about safety, and was not bulimic! Since I've been married, my husband knows about every enema I take! The only ones he actually gives me are sexual foreplay enemas, which I want to say happen about every 5th or 6th time we have sex! On all others, he knows what is going on, but is usually not home! He knows not to call during that time unless it's a real emergency!

I always pack my enema bag when travelling. When I get to the motel room and take an enema, I hang the bag where it can dry. So far that works, but when I'm staying two or more days, there is a good chance for the cleaning crew to see the bag. I am still careful about discretion, but it might be an embarrassing opportunity for enema users to meet.

Has anybody had any similar situations?

Through my work people tell me private things. Recently, a woman complained that her husband had changed since his retirement. He retired from the county police department, and since stopped shaving, laid around all day, and had lost interest in sex. Tears came to her eyes as she told the story. She obviously enjoyed sex. I told her she should get a good vibrator, and that it might do a better job than he ever did. Strangely, she had not heard of the use of vibrators for women and said that she would check it out at work (she works at a school as an aid) with the other women. When I saw he next I asked her about what she learned, and she said that she did not bring it up at work for fear of 'sexual harassment'.

In another conversation (at work) with a man over about male sexual performance, I marveled at how on the porn movies the male could keep hard seemingly forever, while when I was in my prime, my problem was premature ejaculation. When older, the problem is obtaining a hard enough erection for penetration. He said the MDs today suggest either viagra or cialis. If one don't work, try the other.

As far as there being interest/lack of interest in sex, that might be a harder nut to crack than performance. Normally, I do not think testosterone levels are part of the panel of tests an MD orders. They do not seem to care if you have any testosterone unless you ask them to check, and it is embarrassing to have to do so.

This thread has been extremely interesting to read and should required reading for everyone on this board. I don't think a single thought that has been expressed isn't one that most of us haven't experienced in some form or another. Most of us have concerns about society accepting our "quirk" and for reasons ranging from getting us in trouble at work or having a spouse that might walk on us because we are "weird" or "perverts". We are wired the way we are and in the safety of this group can share our intimate thoughts and experiences openly. After all that is why we are here.

Bottom line (pun intended) for most of us an enema is a way to "keep us moving!" for whatever the reason. And we love it!!

My wife and I both have an enema fetish. My mother passed away before I was will to come out about my activity. My wife and I have discussed the use with my Aunt Mary.

Some years ago i talked to my cousin Bev about my enjoyment. She never brought up the issue. I do not think she cared.

My wife is the only one who knows. She uses enemas, but gets no pleasure in them.

No one at all knows except for all you peeps now.

Quite a few of my female friends and ex lovers know about my fetish.i have introduced quite a few to the pleasure of enemas. none of my male friends know and probably never will do to the fact that it is such a personal thing. i have always been able to open up more to females than to males.....dont know why.

Besides my husband, who's a member here as well, and another friend who's into bdsm there is no one I can physically talk to about enemas or any of our kinks. (Some in our family are very religious and wouldn't look too highly on our lusty love.) So it's best to only share with those friends here on the site and in the chat. That seems to be enough to be able to talk openly about it. Thank you for letting me have that place to be free.

I bet they're lustier than you, which is pretty lusty!!! 😁 😁 😁 😁

Those super religious people aren't what they say they are once they are behind closed doors. Most super religious people are hypocrites.

I don't have anyone IRL to discuss with. What I'll do though, is make smart-assed cracks that are enema related in my conversations with friends or coworkers about obnoxious people. For instance, a supervisor is being particularly annoying. I'll tell a coworker, "There's nothing wrong with So-and-So that two quarts of warm, soapy water wouldn't cure. Sometimes I'll get a snicker and grin in response. Sometimes the reference goes right over their head.

For many years I kept my desire and my equipment stashed away. I gradually came out, first with some anal play and then with "medical" enemas. My wife was a grudging giver, but always marveled at the ensuing erections. To say she enjoys giving would be overstating things, but she now initiates and suggests. She has no desire to receive other than for constipation, but is great at giving, knowing when to twist the nozzle, use the Higginson pump and other delights. It has made a world of difference to our sex lives and she's happy about that, and I'm happier.

I make no effort to hide my enema passion to my family or relatives. In addition to my wife, my three sons, stepson, my brother-inlaws also know. I only wish I could convince my relatives to give a warm soapy enema a try, they sure could use one or two.

Obviously, my husband. Also my father, possibly my mother. I was masturbating and giving myself enemas all night long when I was a junior in high school. I was late coming down for breakfast. My parents were calling me, but I was drying my hair with the hair dryer and didn't hear them. My father came upstairs and found me in my bathroom wearing a robe, drying my hair and saw my Sherema bag and colon tube (which I purchased "mail order" in the old days) hanging on the towel rack. My father asked if I was alright, (which I was--in fact, I was wonderful!) and neither he nor my mother ever mentioned it again to me.

None, having said that a number of friends do know but not to what extent. I leave my bags in the shower to dry after an enema and sometimes there may be as many as three bags there. I someone uses the toilet or if we are showing somebody our place for the first time then they are bound to see the bags. So far nobody has commented. 😃

None, having said that a number of friends do know but not to what extent. I leave my bags in the shower to dry after an enema and sometimes there may be as many as three bags there. I someone uses the toilet or if we are showing somebody our place for the first time then they are bound to see the bags. So far nobody has commented. 😃

I think if somebody saw THREE BAGS they would have a pretty good idea of the extent of your enema involvement!

I'm not sure how I would go about bringing up the subject to anyone, My wife brought up the idea when we were first dating, she is now the giver and I the receiver. It did not start out that way, we were quite experimental in the beginning, since our third child, and her problems we have gone to the giver and receiver. I enjoy it and when she calls, I very rarely say no, its just not quite as often as I might like. As to others I have often thought to ask others, but lack the courage. I have hoped that my wife would befriend another woman to give, I would be more than willing to receive. Any takers