Enemas & man2man anal intercourse

I feel that as a gay man, enemas between men is a very intimate bonding experience unlike any other. They take time, empathy and patience which all draw upon the real m2m sensitivities that are essential to male bonding. It would be difficult for me to conceive of a lasting relationship with another man where enemas and anal/rectal eroticism did not have a prominent place in our shared erotic life.

I found that you needed an enema to accommodate some guys cocks as they are too large to fit otherwise a good enema opens you up

Great thread going on here, I like many others here would love to know the feeling and excitement of a good butt pounding after a good enema session, along with being given a massive load up the butt.

You'll probably find that the nozzle and the sensation of the solution gave you that dominating full/penetrated feeling that can be associated with anal sex that some guys get, a very addictive feeling.

Maybe you should explore it more by getting yourself a toy so you can play afterwards and see how that go's. Nothing wrong with that!

There are companies that manufacture penis shaped nozzles, or you can find a soft skin dildo and turn it into an enema nozzle, to get the same feeling of anal penetration.

For anal sex I always liked a guy to be clean, or I myself liked to be clean. Enemas don't always lead to anal sex. Enema sessions themselves are very satisfying for me!!!

Having never had either from another, and completely unknowledgeable about enemas, I would love to receive both!

I always give myself an enema if I know that anal play with be involved. I always tell the guy that I will take an enema first and say something like, "Do you want to give me the enema or do it myself?" It opens the door to have enema play with another guy. Sometimes it can be some of the hottest sex you ever have had.

Every one grows or digresses at different rates. If you weren't curious, I would submit that that isn't normal. You merely seem to be asking the question as normal progression takes over. But be cautious. Get to know a potential partner before committing,

I think if you enjoy enemas as a sexual and erotic turn-on and are beginning to be drawn to the thought of anal intercourse then maybe you are an anal erotic person. That is how I see myself.

I started exploring and playing with enemas in my early teens and by my 20's I realized that they were a real enhancement to sexual pleasure. Eventually I bought anal sex toys and that took it a step further. My girlfriends and now my wife all have stimulated me anally with either fingers, toys or dildos and I love it. And now recently I have been thinking about what it would feel like to be penetrated by another man. I certainly don't view myself as gay and I am not really attracted to men physically certainly not like I am to women but I still have thoughts of some day trying anal with another man.

So I really don't worry about trying to classify myself sexually. I learned to watch myself evolve and possibly try new things as I have my entire adult life. If you think you want to try anal with another man allow yourself the room to possibly give it a try if all the stars line up and the opportunity presents itself.

I have had enemas with another man it was very exciting haven't had anal sex preformed on me as of yet but I think it will happen at some point as i have discovered that I am also anal erotic .

I think it's perfectly normal. I am gay, always have been and always knew I was. Some people are straight, and some bisexual. Life, and our sexual lives as well, are a journey. And on that journey your likes and dislikes can change. You might wish to purchase a dildo and play by yourself and see if you enjoy it. Straight men can be anally stimulated just as gay men are and it by NO means makes you gay!!! And don't feel ashamed of your likes, dislikes, and feelings!!!

I very much agree with BarryB1963's reply. Life is a journey not a race, and our thoughts and inclinations do change as we get older or more mature. I think that most straight men believe that anything anal is gay, but that is just not so. I think that many young straight people nowadays are probably more receptive to anal play than older types, but I also think that it does depend on your upbringing too. I believe that the Internet has opened many doors for people that may be interested in different types of sexual pleasure, because there is so much information out there, whether incorrect and rubbish or to the point and factual.

I think it's perfectly normal. I am gay, always have been and always knew I was. Some people are straight, and some bisexual. Life, and our sexual lives as well, are a journey. And on that journey your likes and dislikes can change. You might wish to purchase a dildo and play by yourself and see if you enjoy it. Straight men can be anally stimulated just as gay men are and it by NO means makes you gay!!! And don't feel ashamed of your likes, dislikes, and feelings!!!

That's precisely the point I've made before. How you play doesn't define your sexuality. How you love does.

I too have had the same thoughts, as for normal, normal is what feels right for you. I am not gay and I am not sexual attracted to men but as jimmyj57 said it will probably happen at some point.

I am reminded of a questionnaire in a decidedly male to male BDSM magazine that concerned negotiation. A very intimately oriented questionnaire about what the bottom and the dom would do for the scene. One part stuck me as rather odd at the time was about laxatives. The question was: the bottom takes, the dom takes, both take. It was a very comprehensive questionnaire. I wish I could find it, as it could apply to enemas, and might be expanded beyond what it covered in that area. It might find some application for the gay, bi or straight members.

Before someone jumps up and says that they don't do BDSM I must remind you that those 4 letters cover a lot of possibilities. Also, since it is very inclusive, it even included the possibility in all the activities: Like, Don't like, Will not do. So that fits everything. I am of course referring to the notion that Dominance and Submission are in fact the category that enemas fall under.

I will always give myself an enema before doing anal intercourse. I have never given one or had someone other then a nurse or nanny give me one.

Are you doing plain water or a soapy. take a soapy it will come out fast.

My thoughts. Any sexual activity between 2 consenting adults is fine by me. Sex is supposed to be fun as well as stimulating and loving. If you want to try anal sex with a another guy go it . Life is short. Don't make me show up at your house! lol

For me, the best feeling in the world is a long enema, then having a friend slide his cock into me and take his time. Try it…..you'll most likely like it, and there is nothing wrong with that.

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For me the wal-mart enema bag is great...they are always red, a reminder of my childhood enemas. Having the warm water rush into me and fill me up is a marvelous feeling. I love to jack off while I am full of a good enema.

For me enemas do lead to anal sex with a male or female, I am very much into cleanliness, I would never let anybody near me without doing my routine which takes at least 24 hrs, I take a oral colon cleaner, either bought or home made with Epson salts, then I will not eat for 24 hrs before the date, after 18hrs I will constantly flush using lots of flowing water, I have never had a ooops sorry moment

bareback is a amazing feeling, but I do not advise with a online stranger these days, sex with a condom feels kind of dull

best anal experience was with my mistress, we had a double ended strapon custom fitted in a store in Frankfurt Germany, she is a gentle lover until her orgasam is near, then she pounds just as hard and fast as any male, amazing feeling, so my advice is find yourself a open minded lady

I also started to fantasize about having anal sex after giving myself a few enemas. I thought it was wierd at first, but later i found out i'm not the only one, i even bought a dildo to experiment.

What I have learned.

I love enemas I have for most of my life.

I love anal sex and I have had it both as the fucker and the fuckee with both sexes.

I would like to find somebody to play with who really loves giving and receiving enemas, toys, and/or anal sex.

The gender of that somebody is totally irrelevant.

I don't want a romantic relationship with either sex at this point in my life.

I'm 67 years old. I don't feel like it I feel much younger.

I am 5 feet 10 inches tall and I weigh 175.

I might be full of shit (I doubt it though) but I believe that my lifelong generous use of enemas has preserved my health.

I have found all of this to be easier with men than with women but I enjoy both genders.

After reading many of these posts, I am sure that I would do a M2M enema session and then see where it ends up.

I once had an experience where a guy and I took an enema together on the bed then held it and had sex---kissing, sucking and even flip fucking with the enemas in us. Both the humping and the dick up the butt made the enema feel great. We went at it for a very long time.

Over the past few years, I've given and received from one Zity member and thoroughly enjoyed the experience. This man is well educated and I think he enjoyed his time without guilt feeling, as did I.

I've also received from another Zity member and would have enjoyed returning the favor if time hadn't run out on my visit due to a work call-back.

Being a true anal erotic, I don't even think about society's labels or gender slants. I tend to enjoy the time I have left on this rock and hope everyone can do the same without hang-ups.

I'm NEW here but NOT New to ENEMAS!! I've been into ENEMAS since my childhood and still Enjoy them today! I'm also a NOVICE BI-SEXUAL M/W/M who has given ANAL SEX with another Bi-Male and Loved It!! However I have fantasized about Receiving ANAL SEX from the Right Bi-Male for many years now but have not met a Bi-Male Switch with a Average to Slim COCK for my Smooth/TIGHT "VIRGIN ASS"!! One day I hope to get lucky and experience a REAL COCK Eased in Slow/Easy into my CLEAN HOT ASS "Balls Deep" for a SENSUOUS Experience that will be All that i've have hoped for??

First of all, NORMAL is a setting on your washing machine.

Second, this is one of those 'Just do it' fantasies. Nobody's getting hurt, and it's not illegal. Wanna try anal with a guy...go for it!

I can understand your desire to see how it feels to receive a man's penis in your rectum. I believe that I am straight but I have tried anal sex with a man and found it very pleasurable.