Enemas & man2man anal intercourse

I'm curious to this. I've been exploring enemas for a couple of months now, purely for the pleasure. Although I am not gay nor probably bi, I just love feeling the nozzle slide in, and the warm water rushing into me. I'm using basically standard wal-mart enema bag & douche nozzle. For whatever reasons, I fantasize about a man entering me now, even so far as to watch xtube videos. Is this a normal reaction?

~ gilberf

Who is to say what is normal or not? I say if it feels good and does not hurt anyone else then it is OK. Go ahead and enjoy it. I am not gay either but I enjoy enemas and anal play. I like to clean out first with a couple of enemas and then fuck my ass with dildos. I sometimes crave anal penetration and often fantasize about being fucked by another guy. I wish I could find someone who would do me but not being gay it is hard to go about that.

I have had some pretty hot encounters with guys in the shower giving and receiving enemas that led to incredible anal sex!... What ever feels good do it as long as both parties enjoy it!

I'm curious to this. I've been exploring enemas for a couple of months now, purely for the pleasure. Although I am not gay nor probably bi, I just love feeling the nozzle slide in, and the warm water rushing into me. I'm using basically standard wal-mart enema bag & douche nozzle. For whatever reasons, I fantasize about a man entering me now, even so far as to watch xtube videos. Is this a normal reaction?

NO, IT ISN'T. YOU'RE ALL FUCKED UP! 😁 😁 😁 😁

Now that I have your attention, none of us here are what normal people would call "normal," but what do they know? Just because you fantasize about homosexual sex, that doesn't mean you are gay or bi. Thinking about having sex with a member of the same sex IS normal and I wouldn't consider you gay for that as long as it wasn't your primary sexual fantasy and real life desire. Enjoying anal penetrations doesn't mean you are gay either. My husband enjoys enemas, nozzles, dildos, being fisted, and he isn't gay. Liking a particular part of your body stimulated in a sexual fashion also doesn't make you gay. Being gay is determined by WHO you like to have sex with and your emotional involvement during the acts. A man who has frequent sex with a woman or his wife and doesn't like it, but rarely has sex with a man and loves it IS gay.

In the end, don't worry about any of this. You're fine. Enjoy yourself. Find a loving partner who you can share your kinks and fetishes with and you will be happy.

I have given and taken enemas from straight and gay guys both and on a number of occasions it has lead to anal play and sex. I think the straight guys are more into trying it once they experience how pleasurable anal play is when being prepared for their enema or after they have had the nozzle inserted and put into position.

I am a male, and I also sometimes fantasize about being anally penetrated by another guy. I mostly have that that fantasy when I'm doing (or wanting to do) enemas. Every time I have the dildo out, I of course fantasize that I'm getting it in the rear from a guy. (That's why I like the realistic penis type dildos 😃)

I am 46 yrs. old, & I've only had ONE anal sex experience (yes, I was "catcher") when I was 19, but I didn't really enjoy it. Still fantasize about it though.

Hi

the fact is that few men get to have fun with their bums or have femail paretners who are comfortable playing in that area so they mis out on all the fun . being gay or bi straight or what ever mixture just enjoy it.

once you are all nce and clean inside and out then just have fun

goodboy

I've never had anal sex with a man but enjoy an enema and once had a strap-on experience from Nurse Jill. It was great, but haven't been back to California since. Having a strap-on experience with a woman is one thing, but anal sex with a man. Hmmm. Maybe. It would obviously be different. Whatever the scene, having objects touch my prostate is very, very enjoyable, and I have a prostate toy for that purpose while I "take care of myself." Maybe a penis would feel good, too. I am older and gay males get tired of helping old subs, so having anal intercourse seems to be a remote possibility.

After a series of 2 to 3 enemas, I enjoy some dildo play with a clean ass. I have often fantasized about a guy fucking my ass while I am open and lubed up. I have not done it yet, and also think that I might like it too much. But the thought still excites me.

To tjk3030 -

You don't have to be bi or gay to be anal erotic. Plenty of guys on this board are heavily anal erotic and totally straight. Your fantasies about having a man penetrate you anally are not straight. Perhaps you are bi - the best of both worlds. There is nothing worng with that. Go enjoy it and don't feel guilty. And don't forget to take your enemas first. LOL

You have it perfectly stated. No Labels here. Lay back and enjoy anus, penis or vagina. It's all for pleasure. Bi/By the way, I love your nurse friends album. Very HOT!

Not Gay or Straight or Bi... label does not really matter.

If it feels good and doesn't harm anyone... go for it!

I have always been very anally oriented, even as a very young child. I was always looking for things that could be inserted in my ass, and I have had some real weird things in there. I started giving myself enemas in my early teens when the parents were away. I think there was always a sexual connection to my anal play and would masturbate every time I played with my asshole.

I got into sex with another man in my 20's. And really all that I wanted from him was anal penetration and a good ride on his dick. I am really the same today pretty much. I do enjoy oral and rimming now but the main thing is still a hot cock in my ass. 😮

So to the gay guys.. I guess your turned off by the thought of giving a female an enema??

I am a hetero male and do not find other males sexually attractive. However, since I have been penetrating my own anus with all sorts of objects for years, I am increasingly drawn to the idea of experiencing penile penetration and all the overtones of submission, loss of control, etc. As I have aged, there has been major shift in my thinking about this and other prejudices drummed into head as a youngster.

I guess I am bi , ive had several M2M encounters over the years not very recent but almost always fantasize of being penetrated by a male during and after having an enema

Whatever floats your boat baby..

I agree with switchablesusie . . . we are all fucked up.

Get a strap on and let your girlfriend fuck you up the ass, you might find you really enjoy it and if you do GREAT

I am a male,i guess you would say im bi curious and addicted to anal play. I have yet to fulfill my fantasy of sleeping with another man but continue to dream about it,and maybe one day ill find a female who enjoys playing with my ass as much as i do😉

It is quite normal to have fanasy about anal sex with another man. It is the erotic feeling of having a cock in one's ass. I am bi and have had anal sex with other males. The best feeling for me is to have a partial enema and have another guy fuck me while I retain. For some reason it gives me the greatest orgasm.

I would love to have either a man or a woman fuck me in the ass. I like anything in my asshole. It just feels good!

It's one of my fetishes to be penetrated by another guy, maybe an extension of my fascination with my anus. 😜

No offense, but I think your fascination is more than with your anus. I think your fascination is with your being gay. Nothing wrong with that. Now is the time to accept it and get on with what you enjoy -- including having anal sex with men. Just go slow and be safe. Been there, done that. 😁 😁 😁 😁 😁

I also agree with switchable. I just love butts 😎

Switchable is right -- odd as it may sound to those who love labels, it doesn't make you gay to want a cock in your ass if you're an anal-erotic male. i myself am straight, and only attracted to women, but having made the switch to realistic dildos and now knowing how much better they feel in my ass, i find myself quite often envying straight women and gay men for getting to know what a warm, pulsing REAL cock feels like. that doesn't make me gay -- it makes me a fan of actual skin and bone(r)s... lol... if i found a male friend who i trusted enough, i'd DEFINITELY have anal sex with him -- it would just FEEL so much better...

I exlored when I was a young teen and got hooked. I love the feeling and it is probably understandable that you might have fantasies about having a man penetrate you. It is probably something you are opening up to as you explore. It doesn't necessarily mean you are gay. Perhaps you might try getting a girlfriend to administer and use a dildo on you after she fills you. If you still have thought after that, maybe you should explore. You may be bisexual...

As a passive gay guy i have to admit that i have never took an enema before intercourse,although when taking a shower i lathered up the outer regions with soapy water like one does with their underarms.The only time i ever received an enema was as a teen.Definitely want to now,not only for hygiene,but for the act itself as i find it very erotic.The reason i never used them prior to sex was because i didn't have enema supplies handy when the occassion for intercourse presented itself and back then i didn't even know where to find them at store - pretty dumb and dangerous in hindsight.But fortunately i never had any accidents or complaints regarding hygiene from my partner or significant other and they almost always had condoms anyway.On a few occassions partners wanted to engage in rimming and although i was pretty self concious about it,the thought aroused/intrigued me,so i submitted.But again i was fortunate that there were no hygiene issues on those occassions.

After my enema session I am usually very horny and would welcome a nice cock in my ass. I am anal virgin, but fantisize about this a lot. I prefer a woman to play with but it is not now possible. Am I bi? I don't know, but would like to experience another man penetrating me after my clean out.

I agree with gilberf. If you really get off on having your butt played with, what difference does it make if it's a man or woman doing the playing? Why worry about labels?

Sorry, but 100% straight. I like my butt played with, but certainly not by another male. Yes, gender does make a difference to me. As they say: "each to his own". But that's my preference..

I have always enjoyed enemas and anal play. After finding out that a good friend and his wife knew about my secret I went to their home and spent the weekend. We exchanged enemas which really turned me on. His wife asked if I would try anal sex with him. I said yes and tried it for the first time with the real thing, I really enjoyed it and now get together often. I don't consider myself gay as I still enjoy having sex with the wife and other females. I would say I'm Bi either, enjoy both .