What did you find surprising when you first started having sex?

I didn’t realize that I would enjoy it as much as I did, and I was awed by how much my girlfriend loved it when I stuck my finger up her ass, while slowly moving the other one in and out of her vagina. I was just absolutely amazed at how I could feel her body temperature rise, when I started to orgasm inside of her. And all of her natural beauty and odor combined, from the exotic perfume that she had on, made me realize what I had been missing, as a virgin.

The first thing that I learned was how much we both enjoyed sex. We did it 6 times on our wedding night. Just 20 minutes after we finished the first time, my wife crawled on top of me and got me hard orally then sat on top of me and started working me over. At that point in time I knew this part of the marriage would be awesome.

The next thing that I did not expect was how long I could go before having an orgasm. I could last as long as I needed to in order to make her come.

We also tried anal sex but both found it not as stimulating as regular inter course. Another surprise is that we are both still actively having sex despite our age and enjoying it more than when we were younger.

For sure, not a bad way !! - but there will be a lot of towels needed, in your both relationship, i would imagine !!

Sorry for this - maybe unpleasant " comment, but it should only be a joke !! - and so i beg your pardon !!

Luckily I enjoy doing laundry

It was the mechanics of the act. Getting things lined up, fumbling entry and the thigh cramps. And initially just how quick I ejaculated the first several times. Those early engagements were with a condom so the mess wasn’t very noticeable.

For me the most enjoyable part was the foreplay including the passionate kissing and caressing of each other’s body which culminated in explosive orgasm!

This was very surprising to me.

I use to LOVE having sex. Intercourse felt good (great!)

BUT - I thought about getting an uncomfortable soapy enema the entire time having foreplay or sex. Always.

After having sex, I couldn’t wait to get to the enema bag and flush out my bowels to make myself have an orgasm (or more). -It was that way all of my life.- And though I’m in my 70s, NOTHING feels as good, sexually, as a large volume enema.

Nothing even comes close! The insatiable desire never goes away.

What surprised me the most was that his cock was large and round and I did not think I could take it all in me.

when he ejaculated it felt hot and a "thump" right up in there when he came.

I was also happy to find out that the real thing hit me harder all over than just a dildo or toy that I used.

I was on my knees sucking cock it felt nice inside my mouth. I found myself being put down on my face, A finger up my bum came next then in it went. It did not hurt and felt really good, especially the explosion up my bum. I wanted more after that.

My first experience was anal sex. For me, it became my normal sex. I had been broken in by my Mothers's large enema nozzles.

We worked on the other hole later on.

For me:

1. Just how much more emotional sex seemed to be for women, compared to men.

2. How others just seemed to instinctively 'know' that you'd had sex.

3. How impossible it was to wash the sex smell from your penis afterwards. Thinking about it, perhaps that explains 2....

That first time was not a pleasant as I had always thought it would be.

1. I was fairly tight and while I did not bleed it was not comfortable although at the same time not nearly as painful as I was expecting.

2. The first time was also really quick and left me wondering if that is all there was to it. It was also messy.

3. The worst part was that the very first time was unprotected and I was an absolute nervous wreck until I got my period that month. After that I only had sex when the guy was wearing a condom. I loved the feeling of him cumming, but glad we were using a condom too.

4. When I first discovered oral sex I was absolutely overwhelmed and loved it.

@Moms_Egirl You are my kind of woman. Nothing could be better for me than making love and following that up with giving my partner a large, soapy enema.

I would only hope she would give me one too. ❤️

That I could actually please a girl with finger and tongue.

Going back to one of those first times I was utterly amazed at how a woman's vagina is self-lubricating. Plus its smell can be nothing short of intoxicating. Second, how great it feels to ejaculate into a vagina and it does not matter if wearing a rubber or not. But if not, the other amazing thing is how she will drain that mixture of lubrication and cum and how much there may be of it. What's not to like?

According to all the puberty education book diagrams, I expected the vagina to be a hollow, empty tube. And why wouldn’t it be, with the ability for a variety of items to go inside? The first time I was able to slide a finger inside my girlfriend I was suprised to discover that the inside walls collapse and touch each other when nothing is inside. No mater if I had one or two fingers in there, or if my finger was far to the left or far to the right, the walls were always in contact with my fingers all around. Ha! I’m glad my original assumption was so very wrong. It feels so wonderful the way it really is.

We were both virgins, so it was a journey of discovery for both of us.

When she saw me erect, she thought, "No way." And in fact it was some weeks before I entered her. Good thing the vagina stretches! She felt like she let me down because piv sex is "the goal" and we didn't do that. I wasn't worried because I figured we'd get there eventually!

Piv sex also did absolutely nothing for her. She doesn't even care for dildos inside. All the fun for her is on the outside.

I was familiar with the theory of the female anatomy but the practical was new. I was afraid I might enter her urethra accidentally! She assured me that it wasn't a possibility.

She was surprised at how hard I got and how slippy the outer skin was.