Spanking and sexual arousal

A - C - E - F !!

D is probably the closest to how I feel!

I am a spanko and have a craving to be disciplined hard from time to time. I do get a massive buzz from it. There is a whole collection of emotions: apprehension, anxiety, nerves, anticipation, embarrassment, awkwardness but never arousal. I don't look forward to the pain - and I know from experience the reality of the pain is worse that the thought of it - but understand it is an essential, indeed key, part of an effective spanking. By the end, my bottom is very marked and will remain so for several weeks. It's actually very hard to explain why I need it, what I get out of it - and that much more so when I say it's not sexual - but I do get something out of it and it's a great feeling.

At this time F. The idea has become more and more exciting lately but I have little real experience. Some online Zity role play has been VERY fun.

I don't like multiple choice 😅 I feel like the answers never do my heart justice haha.

I typically enjoy the thought and anticipation of getting spanked due to my own volition of being a bad girl with a mouth of a sailor and bratty as ever. Rip my bottoms off and reveal my bare ass. Deep down, a good, hard, solid spank or two or three, brings me back to reality...gives me clarity, and a sense of homeostasis. Outwardly, however, I'm defiant. 🙄 I don't like being told what to do or how to think, etc....until that firm smack! sets me straight 😉 ....then, I want to be owned....possessed....fucked like no one's business....all the way back to sanity and homeostasis. Fuck 🫠

Doesn't do a thing for me. My dad used to whip the hell out of me leaving black & blur belt marks all over. I'd never do this.

E. And I didn’t even know it would give me a buzz until one of my enemates asked me to spank her.

Spanking her bare bottom after giving her a series of soapy enemas had me as hard as a rock.

From that day, I spanked her as soon as I stripped her naked and usually after we were finished with three to five enemas and injecting needles in her beautiful hips.

On a few occasions, I put a butt plug in her anus before I started spanking. On those occasions, she always had a squirting orgasm with a lot of shouting and cussing.

Those occasions usually were followed with deep penetration anal sex to orgasm and I filmed the cum leaking from her anus.

I went to quite a draconian boys' school where they used the cane.

I remember at 8 years of age when the first member of my class got caned. We had swimming class shortly after and, in the locker room, he gingerly pulled down his underpants and showed us his throbbing red and blue buttocks with the cane marks. (Today, I can't believe they would do that to little boys)

Curiously, at that prepubescent age, I got an erection whenever caning came up in the conversation (even when a teacher mentioned it). However, spanking never became part of my sexual repertoire.

Yes, almost every time! I love a good spanking and I love the rituals that come before or after. We keep a bottle of aqueous cream blended with some lavender oil for bruises in the fridge. I don't know that it does much for bruises but I love the feeling of it being applied to my hot arse and my husband taking care of me.

A if spanking is OTK (from 1st spanking i received). E & F

E and F for me!

A,C,E,F. For me, anything involving a bare bottom getting swatted with a wooden paddle, the anticipation, a bare bottom being presented, the sound of wood smacking a bare bottom and finally the sting and the burn.

As @eman445 .

A & C: just thinking about it and the preparatory ritual gets me started

E & F: Any part of giving or watching a spanking is even more intense that getting spanked.

Sort of "D", I guess. I am not afraid of pain, it's just not at all a turn on for me. Discipline, humiliation, S&M, just don't appeal to me. I like fun, feel-good stuff. I don't have any problem if other people like and enjoy it. I could probably administer some pain if someone really wanted it, but I would not be interested in receiving.

I tend to go for the 'erotic' spanking rather than the discipline type and expect to become aroused every time. I am rarely disappointed.

A, E, F

A and E, Witch Hazel after.

I grew up in a family where my mom did all the spanking. It was done with love and comfort afteward but nevertheless she could get her point across about our correction loud and clear. Most spankings were with the hand over her knee and always on the bare bottom. For repeated infractions of rules or more serious misbehavior the dreaded hairbrush or worse yet, the paddle would come out that could REALLY delivered the intended message. One learned quite quickly not to get caught doing repeated misbahvior again. I think I had a "thing" about spanking early on as my poor teddy bair was frequently over my knee for a sound spanking even though he never misbaved. I had feelings that I did not understand until probably around 11 or 12 and knew it was sexual arousement. As a teenager, I would frequently mastertubate privately in my bedroom after a good and proper spanking. All that being said, I would go with every cbiuce but D. Denise

E & F

the mention of Witch Hazel, took my mind right back to junior school, a winchester jar of it in the medical room, which got dabbed onto bruises with cotton wool by the school secretary cooling and fragrant as i recall

A, C, E & F.

The thought of spanking, being spanked, or watching others get spanked has provoked strange feelings in me from at least the age of 6, if not younger. I've always had a naughty, tingly, squirmy little bottom. Seeing my first primary-school Headmaster carry his cane with him everywhere he went had a powerful effect on me, even though I never felt it.

C in particular: the whole thought of the ritual leading up to, and the carrying out of, a school caning is almost unbearably erotic for me. I was threatened with the cane at the tender age of nine (and a couple of other times since), and part of me wishes it had actually happened.

Even the words "Bend over" have me rock hard and my naughty buttocks squeezing and squirming at the fate that awaits them.