Spanking and sexual arousal

Does being spanked cause you to become sexually aroused?

A) Yes every time

B) Only if spanking is given hard enough and/or long enough

C) Just the ritual (that is, the mention that its going to happen and any other aspects of preparation) starts my arousal

D) No, I'm afraid of the pain and I never get aroused by the danger of being spanked

E) I get aroused by spanking someone

F) I get aroused by watching someone getting spanked

I haven't been aroused by being spanked, either pepubescent (that is as a kid) or adult. I plead lack of personal experience. My lifemate has no interest in spanking me or in being spanked, so I've never been spanked enough to tell. I do think that I could be aroused by observing a well done bare bottom spanking ( response F). I pose this query to draw on the vast various experiences of the Zity members.

Be safe.

Yes, almost every time. There are sometimes when it just doesn't happen but those are the exception rather than the rule. Usually the ritual of knowing I'm going to get one is enough to get me started.

Yes, almost every time. There are sometimes when it just doesn't happen but those are the exception rather than the rule. Usually the ritual of knowing I'm going to get one is enough to get me started.

Thank you for this comment !! - Yes, i would think in the same way, only the anticipation of it, will be arousal, and when it started, the butterflies grow up !!

E and F definitely for me.

F here. Tried E but it turned silly on us.

A, E and F for me. Without fail.

B for my playmate. In fact she is quite capable of experiencing an orgasm after a hard spanking. E and F for me.

Yes! A, B & C for me, for more than 50 years

E for my wife spanking ME!

She gets WET and I (used to get) HARD!

50 years ago i bought a paddle and gave it to her to spank me! She took to it like a "Duck to water"!

On our Honeymoon she spanked me, while i was lying on a bed, till i ejaculated, as i was bouncing / humping in the bed!

On my very severe bath brush punishment spankings, about 1 every 10 years 😢. (no sex) BUT every time that I thought about it i needed to masterbate for many years!

Just the threat of a spanking, from her or telling me to get MY brush still gets me hot & her wet😃!

A,C,E and F

The thought of being spanked is enough to turn me on, as well as the spanking itself, as long as it is not too painful. My arousal lays n the humiliation of being spanked, and allowing this to happen.

Not seen a real life spanking but watching spanking scenes do arouse me

E and F for me. Love spanking @Sexy_Librarian!

C would definitely be my answer.

C and F for me. I never get aroused when giving one though for whatever reason.

The sexual arousal for me would simply be seeing and having access to a female ass. Spanking would be nothing more than a gateway to something more sexual. So add “G”. Butt access!

A,C and E for me from times my mum did it growing up to girlfriends over the years such a turn on

C & F for me without fail*

I get aroused just from hearing the word ‘spanking’

E most definitely for me.

F perhaps, but I've never been present while a woman is being spanked by another man in real life.

This is a difficult one for me, I don't mind spanking but, I don't tend to be very stimulated by it. I have been spanked a few times and when its focused solely on my backside I tend to lose my arousal, however I have had times where the dominant alternated between my backside and then taking hold of my cock and spanking that, which I guess kept the sensations spread out.

I definitely get turned on when I am getting spanked surprises me every time ,

I definitely get turned on when I am getting spanked surprises me every time ,

Don't be surprised about these feelings !! - enjoy the whole procedure and play also safe !!

A!

I answered 'A almost every time.' I wanted to clarify what I meant by that. Most times, spanking leads to arousal for me but not always, BUT I always get what I need from the spanking. If that make sense.

I'm not always looking for arousal. Sometimes I'm looking for catharsis or a similar release. On those occasions, even if the spanker (who am I kidding, my husband) uses my body for his own release after, I may not cum, BUT I've gotten what I needed from the session.

I answered 'A almost every time.' I wanted to clarify what I meant by that. Most times, spanking leads to arousal for me but not always, BUT I always get what I need from the spanking. If that make sense.

I'm not always looking for arousal. Sometimes I'm looking for catharsis or a similar release. On those occasions, even if the spanker (who am I kidding, my husband) uses my body for his own release after, I may not cum, BUT I've gotten what I needed from the session.

Thank you again for these comment, dear Nurse !!

That is the way, we liked it !!

Hopefully both of you will enjoy these session's again and again !!

ACEF

I really get off spanking my enemates. The first time I learned of the connection of enemas and spankings, I was in college living in a boarding house.

A older nurse living upstairs became friendly and started inviting me up for dinner. One thing led to another and pretty soon we were fucking after our dinners and once or twice a week when we weren’t sharing a meal.

Anyway, soon enough she started talking with me about her kinks. A favorite was sharing enemas and getting her bare bottom spanked until it sore and quiet red.

It didn’t take long for me to catch her kink and liked giving enemas and really enjoyed spanking her.

She was always very wet following her spankings, sometimes she would squirt and I loved that.

I first became sexually aroused from a spanking at age 11. After that it continued to arouse me. I was fortunate to keep my arousal concealed, and this was how I managed it. I already had the habit of turning around to face the bed immediately before I took my trousers down several years before I started getting aroused, and my dad thought nothing unusual because even at a very early age I had a natural instinct for privacy. Whenever I went into a gents' toilet at such an early age I always tried to use a cubicle rather than a urinal whenever possible, so my dad was well aware of my natural instinct for such privacy, therefore he didn't suspect I was trying to hide something when I turned to face the bed the moment he told me to get my trousers down. As far as my dad was concerned I was simply preparing my bottom for the punishment it was about to receive because I wanted to get it over with as quickly as possible. Since dad never said a word pertaining to my erection I can safely assume he didn't see it and I got away with it.

A, C, and F for me.

Generally every time for me. Knowing it's coming and the ritual is usually enough to get me wet and in the mood. Not necessarily always, especially if it's a punishment, but usually even then eventually.

And I love watching spankings, seeing pictures of spankings (in progress or the nice red bottom afterwards), hearing/reading about it.

When I was 8, I usually played with 3 boys my age up on the next block. One day I was out in my yard and Patsy, the girl next door came running and crying from her house and over to my yard. She had just been spanked and was very angry with her mother. She was rubbing her butt and said it still hurt. She asked if I wanted to see how red it was. She said we could go to her play house and she would show me what her mother had done to her. Her father had built her a play house a few years ago and it was still in her back yard. It had become too small for us to play in as we were both bigger now, but we could still get inside even if our heads bumped on the roof.

We went inside and Patsy pulled up her skirt and pulled down her pantie some , so I could see how red her butt was. I asked her if it still burned and she said “no it just tingles and makes me need to pee.”

She asked me if I wanted to see her pee. I said sure, and she pulled her panties off and the play house just had a dirt floor, she just spread her legs and peed on the floor. She took a kleenex out of her pocket and wiped some pee off of her leg. I had never seen a girl pee standing up before and I got hard from watching. I guess I was rubbing myself because she asked me if I needed to pee too. So, I pulled my pants down and peed on the floor where she had peed. She bent over and looked at the hole in my penis and then wiped the drop off of the end. We pulled up our pants and went outside.

Always get aroused when getting spanked. The ritual is very erotic …the lowering of underwear, inspection by the spanker, made to wear punishment panties or various underwear, the spanker spending time between spankings casually touching my anal area, my erect cock sometimes pulled back and exposed, while at other times “held” between the spankers thighs. It’s a massive endorphin rush and very sensual for me. . I also enjoy giving the same type of spanking with all components above.

When it’s male to male , it’s also erotic to have two nude cocks against each other during the spanking. With a women, if she positions my cock between her legs while I’m over her lap taking my discipline, it can really be a wonderful experience. Especially if it’s done casually, as if there’s no emphasis on it ..

Mainly enjoy hand spanking, but a nice flogger used well does the trick too…

A, C, E, F