First time watching opposite sex masturbate in person

@Charlotte70 How did he react to your presence?

@Secret_sub was it someone you knew? How was it initiated?

Did he show his face or just his penis? What do you remember about the ejaculation?

@arturo55555 it was a friend, I can't remember exactly how that first time came about, but there have been many times he has afforded me this privilege, he has seen me masturbate on video call too.

Yes I saw his face, on subsequent occasions I have seen both his face and his penis,

On occasions only his face

On other times only his penis.

I have seen him pleasure himself as he laid on his bed, stood or crouched in the shower. Laid on the floor and sat on a chair.

Since that first time there have been times he has just wanted me to watch, and there have been times is was done as part of role play.

On a couple occasions as he cums, he has said: "[name] I am cumming for you!"

That is such a massive turn on.

Despite being extremely turned on, on those occasions I can only remember one time, I played with myself as I watched him, this was off camera, but I think he was aware.

@Charlotte70 How did he react to your presence?

Well, he didn't stop.

My partner and I often have masturbation weaved into our sex sessions.

We have several favourite methods and positions that do it for us!

One of my favourites is; when I'm lying on my back legs spread, she is kneeling from my side with her head between my legs, sucking my balls and licking my bottom.

Rimming me as I tug the fuck out of my cock.

I can reach her cunt to rub and finger her to orgasm, I love to gape her and tell her to “rub your Cunt “ she loves to be gaped as wide as possible.

When I'm getting close to cum she takes me in her mouth and finishes me off, gulping the cum down like a greedy slut!

@Secret_sub wow, great details, thanks! It's been a while since I've done it, but I used to masturbate for women I met in chatrooms. I never showed my face, only from the neck down.

Only twice did the woman turn on her camera and let me watch her. As a result I can say with 100% certainty that I've masturbated for only two women - I suspect many of the other "women" were not women, however under the circumstances I was willing to suspend belief.

My favorite parts of performing for strangers were the orgasm (of course) and the precise moment my penis became visible. Sometimes the reveal was straight out of the underwear, other times, it resulted from me moving my hands out of the way.

I also loved getting compliments about my penis and being directed every step of the way from unzip your pants to cum for me, (name). I guess I'm also a secret sub in that respect.

Of the two women I watched, one turned her microphone on so we could talk to each other rather than type. She was also from the UK. Beautiful accent! Great memories.

My first time was with a girlfriend. We had just had intercourse which had been satisfying to me; she had also enjoyed it, too, but had not reached orgasm. She explained to me that she had never reached orgasm with vaginal intercourse, but only by masturbating. She had very large breasts which she had reduced surgically - that had reduced feelings in her nipples, so they were less effective in arousing her. On the other had, she had a large, sensitive clitoris about the size of my small finger which she proceeded to stroke and massage and after a few minutes she was able to reach a vary satisfying and loud orgasm. It was wonderful to watch her attain this point of nirvana - she was a very sensitive and talented graphic artist and I think she considered her ability to successfully masturbate one of her artistic skills. As long as we were together she followed this pattern - intercourse was foreplay for her in anticipation to manipulating her clitoris. A wonderful lady!

Would love to try this with someone on video call. Been a fantasy for a long time.

I have watched a few ladies in person and on video over the years and reciprocated as well, sometimes simultaneously.

I have always found it very erotic to watch a woman orgasm and watching how she pleasures herself shows me how I can best please her that way.

I once met a lesbian from an on-line ad, who wanted to try mutual masturbation. She wanted to watch me while I masturbated and vice versa. No touching each other, just watching and encouraging vocally.

She was quite butch in appearance but not unattractive, about 40 I would say.

It was a very interesting experience. We met at a very secluded part of a nudist beach. I had a small tent and we used that for cover and lay close to each other and slowly got ourselves off while watching each other. Have to say I found the whole thing very erotic and didn't last too long before I was shooting my load on my chest. She kept say "oh fuck oh fuck" watching me spurt as she rubbed her clit furiously and squeezing and pulling her nipples.

She was obviously lubricating very well as I could see her hand was soaked as she rubbed and stroked herself. I helped her finish off by telling her to "rub that hard clit for me" "pinch those nipples"

She started moaning and saying " fuck fuck fuck" and suddenly her back arched and she just groaned and her legs went super stiff and she shuddered and came quite dramatically, shaking and moaning until she slowly came out of the "cum lust mist", to steal a phrase from others on here who have a better grasp on poetic prose than me. 😃

It turned me on so much I was starting to get hard again and was stroking myself as she came to. She asked me if I was going to go again and I said probably, but she said she needed to get going. 😢

We got dressed and walked back to our cars and she gave me a hug and said thanks. I told her I would love to do it again some time and gave her my number, but I never did hear from her again.

Maybe it was just a one-off curiosity thing. Who knows?

It certainly served as masturbation fuel for a long time for me. I wonder if it did for her too?

This got to be longer than I intend. 😃 Hope it didn't get boring.

It certainly served as masturbation fuel for a long time for me. I wonder if it did for her too?

@LordJim2 would be nice to think it did, but judging by her fervent desire to exit stage left once she climaxed and her lack of any future contact, it probably didn't. Great story, though. How old were you at the time?

My first time was with @Lora_C and after seeing her masturbate during our video chat enemas. That was after we had graduated from regular IM messages over Yahoo. Then when we got brave enough to have enemas with each other in person and all of our "mental gymnastics" I watched her masturbate during one of our mutual enema sessions.

She was incredible. ❤️ I watched her as she rubbed one off and her facial expressions showed just how far into the cum lust mist she was at any given moment. I would be looking mostly at her eyes when she started to drift into the mist. We had a lot of eye-contact. I kept looking into her eyes when she began her build up of her orgasm and when she "got hers" her eyes would focus back into mine.

Thinking back, I don't think either one of us had the least bit of hesitation masturbating in front of the other. That first time set the tone for us. ❤️

My first time was with @Lora_C and after seeing her masturbate during our video chat enemas.

@Cedar, my complements at starting at the very top. I am sure that sharing that with that experience amazing lady was intensely erotic

So I was in my 30's and I had a long time friend who was a chat partner on yahoo. (never met her yet IRL to this day). We would occasionally turn on our cams so we could see each other while we chatted. Not sure how we got there but we had eached dared/teased pieces of clothing off until we were both in underwear. She murmured something about wanting to see my cock, I asked her if she really did, and gave a yes and shy smile. I dropped my boxers, and even though I was hard, being on display for this friend made me want to take things in hand, and I did. Probably less than 20 seconds later she had slid off per panties, laid on her side, and was inserting a dildo. Later I told her how hot the thing was. We've kept that part of our friendship off and on again across many IRL relationships. I should give her a call ...

@Cedar, my complements at starting at the very top. I am sure that sharing that with that experience amazing lady was intensely erotic

@MarcNY she was the best and always made me feel welcome.

@MarcNY she was the best and always made me feel welcome.

@Cedar, we are lucky when we meet and can be with people as special as she was

I think I was 63 @arturo55555 .

You're probably right, just a one-off for her. Curiosity.

@aurturo55555 - I think each person has their limits and this is a fairly firm one for me. IF I had been with a partner that I totally trusted no to embarrass me about the 'incident' -and- if it was something that he could almost not live without, I would try.

IF I had been with a partner that I totally trusted no to embarrass me about the 'incident' -and- if it was something that he could almost not live without, I would try.

Totally get it, @SuppoEnemaGirl , it's an incredibly vulnerable moment. Getting made fun of for sharing that most intimate act (and those most intimate body parts) is hurtful and unpleasant. I've had viewers insult my size and leave.

Here's to finding nice people to share our kinks with.

I have with a woman but not yet with a guy.

@GraceT Nice. Enjoying mutual masturbation with either sex is very enjoyable. Watching another have pleasurable fulfilment is always enjoyment to witness.

My first time was my wife back when we were in our early twenties.

She gave me a demonstration of how she liked to be touched before she let me finger her for the first time so I got to see different techniques and positions. For instance, she showed me to do warm up strokes on her labia before touching the clitoris and then once she played with her clitoris enough to get really wet she would insert fingers and curl to hit the G-spot. I remember most vividly watching her on all fours fingering herself from behind because I could see her anus contracting as she orgasmed. She was completely naked, and I think I was actually fully dressed, because she wanted to give me a lesson.

I've seen her masturbate a bunch of times since either as mutual foreplay, teasing me, or if she wants to achieve more orgasms after sex. Sometimes if she doesn't feel like having sex she'll put on a show of lightly touching herself while I get off.