First time watching opposite sex masturbate in person

I'm curious about the first time you watched sometime of the opposite sex masturbate to climax. Who was it? How old were the two of you? What were you both wearing? Did you get in really close or watch from a distance? Did you talk to them as they did it? The more details the better, please!

The only masturbation I've ever seen was in porn movies. Personally, I would be mortified if I had to masturbate in front of someone; even if I was alone but knew that people could see me in a clandestine manner or that they would see it later bc it was filmed.

Don’t remember the first time, if there was one before BA. But she and I watched each other many times, usually incorporated with sex play in general. I’d prop up on the headboard with BA laying on the bed facing me, usually with one leg over mine and we both masturbated ourselves watching the other.

Probably my ex-wife, when we were in our early 30's, which was about 30+ years ago. We would be naked together in bed, laying on our backs facing, with our legs overlapped, and our genitals almost touching. We would watch & hear each other masturbating, and could feel each other's body shaking with the stroking/rubbing. We tried to orgasm close to the same time, but usually I would cum first. It was VERY erotic! I love watching, hearing others masturbating!

I was 17 and my girlfriend was 16. It started with a heavy make out session and we ended up masturbating each other. She was scared of getting pregnant and would not "go all the way" so mutual masturbation was a frequent practice. These sessions usually took place in the front seat of my car, but occasionally at her house when her parents were asleep. We were rarely fully naked, usually just pants down shirts up! She would occasionally consent to oral sex but was very self conscious of me going down on her.

Once I suggested to my wife that we both masturbate at the same time.

We both did so, but afterwards she gave me holy hell and basically called me something of a pervert and acted disgusted by the whole thing for a few days, or was it weeks? Can't recall anymore.

This surprised me as usually she was not a prudish person at all. And especially since while having sex she usually manipulated herself while I busied myself with another part of her body, like sucking on her nipples, squeezing her vaginal lips together tightly, inserting a finger up her bottom or any permutation thereof.

This even became her preferred way of orgasming, fingering herself, which was fine by me, but actually a bit of a contradiction with her reaction to my (one time!) suggestion that we masturbate together.

I attributed her first reaction to something from her younger days while living at home with her sexually frustrated and constantly bickering parents. They probably gave her strict admonishments or something in the way of punishment.

I was about 20, in college and went to a house party one evening. I had no idea it was going to be a sex party till I walked in there. After getting over my shock, I got interested and stayed. I did not perform, but watches several people, both male and female, masturbate among other things. Very interesting and I would do it again.

Wow @Annie3434 - a college sex party? Sadly, I never heard of such a thing (college in the 1980s). You were in school more recently I suppose?

For myself, my first time watching a girl masturbate was in our early 20s, just out of college. My girlfriend was very feminine but also very sex-positive. She asked if she could watch me masturbate, which completely thrilled me as I'd never "given a show" before. We were lying down together on her bed, and boy did things fly!

Her way of masturbating was on her stomach, so there was much less to see. (She climaxed for me that way once.) But at some point I'd told her how sexy I thought it was to imagine a girl touching herself while lying on her back. During a long absence - I was in grad school across the country - she wrote to me and said she'd tried it "[my] way" while imagining me going down on her. You can bet I asked her to show me when we were together again. Oh my god so sexy!!

I was about 20, in college and went to a house party one evening. I had no idea it was going to be a sex party till I walked in there. After getting over my shock, I got interested and stayed. I did not perform, but watches several people, both male and female, masturbate among other things. Very interesting and I would do it again.

Apparently I went to the wrong kind of university.

Never even heard any rumors about such goings-on, though I am certain my parents and older folks would have readily believed anything of that sort.

I was so naive.... I had no idea women received pleasure from intercourse; let alone could masturbate 😮, had no idea there was a clitoris😧😮

It would be my ex when I was bi. We had gone all the way and he came inside me. That freaked me out. A week later he wanted to do it again. We were both 17. I said not until after my doctors appointment. He kept begging. We were kissing and I was letting him finger me. But I kept saying to to intercourse. I remember him saying he had to have sex. I laughed and said do it yourself. He said,"really?" Like he was waiting for my permission. I said go for it. I had on stretchy shorts and a tank top. He had on jeans and a t-shirt. He yanked those jeans and underwear off in record time and started going at it. His face changed and he started going faster. I watched it come out and my first thought was,"all of that went into me?" I know now that it just seemed like a lot for me at the time.

The first time I saw a male, mastrubate I was in my 40s and was on a video call.

He was completely nude.

I can not remember if I spoke much or indeed what I said if I did.

I do remember though how privileged I felt that this person trusted me enough to let me see such an intimate act.

Being one of the two weirdest kids in the neighbourhood we hung out together. I was nine and the leader he was twelve and followed me everywhere. We met in elementary school I was six and due to some problems, he was in the same special education class. We hit it off. I protected him from bullies. we both liked Star Trek and Tigers. Winnie the poo, Tiger the tiger. I was always in trouble for spontaneously jumping around like Tiger doing the Bounce. And for taking my clothes off sometimes at the same time.

Both of us regularly explored the scrub bush behind the houses together. it seemed to go on forever. Our parents were afraid to go into it because of the snakes and other critters that lived in it. So were the kids that picked on us. It was a safe place.

He wore his sister's skirt and pretended to be Mr Scott And I wandered around naked, sandals at the most. I disposed of so many shoes and socks my parents resorted to tie-on-toe loop sandals that I could not untie. I had these roped on for school and shopping. The ties were pretty colors and I sort of liked the tied-on feeling plus the rubber sole was so thin I could feel through it. They were not so bad to be stuck in. Plus they did not hinder tree climbing. Wandering around naked was not that big a deal. Mom liked being naked. She put a dress on me that I could roll up and put in my hat rather than loose clothes. Around home and outside I was barefoot all the time like Mom and Granny.

One fine afternoon perched in a tree Scottie demonstrated what he could do with his cock. I was a little envious and slapped it. That started something else. Licking my hand off I found it tasted good. So I sucked him dry. It became a regular pastime. Eventually squirting it in my face or up my bottom. We did the regular sex up front after a bit like the girls in the magazines from the garage garbage bin. I did not think there was anything wrong with this activity. I rather enjoyed it so did any of the guys that I did it with. All was fine until we moved from South Africa to Newfoundland a year later. Canadian boys have a hard time keeping things quiet. I found another Star Trek Nerd easily. He did not wear a skirt but sure liked being my friend and feeding station. My being special ed did not bother him. Neither did the spontaneous nudity. It took no time at all before I had a group of Nerd boys and one girl as cum hungry and slat-licking happy as I was following me around. Nerd boys followed me around like a hypnotized cock buffet. It was a great time. My girlfriend figured out three ways and four ways so it was exciting fun stuff. That lasted for almost two years. My Mom found out what was going on.

She put an end to it.

Probably said too much. Whatever

Tbh it would have to be my play partner. I could never get my ex-husband to masturbate in front of me. I guess he felt that he didn’t need to do that since he had a wife that was supposed to make him cum.

Tbh it would have to be my play partner. I could never get my ex-husband to masturbate in front of me. I guess he felt that he didn’t need to do that since he had a wife that was supposed to make him cum.

It might also be that he was shy or had a residual, unconscious aversion to doing so because of his upbringing. Some parents can be awfully and nastily hard on masturbating offspring and make a huge big thing about it, as if it were the beginning of the road to Perdition and moral collapse.

I'd give someone the benefit of the doubt first.

"I want to learn what you like, show me."

I can't tell you how much I wish I'd discovered that sentence YEARS before I did.

I was 20 years old, a sophomore in college when I met the cutest little guy. To be honest we were both a bit naive about sex so I guess you would say we learned, and experimented on each other. Don’t remember the exact details of how it all went down, but it was late fall and my parents were out of town for the weekend, so the house was ours.

I got a little brazen and told him I want to watch you play with yourself, OK but I get to watch you. We stripped and I sit across for him and watched him go at it. Must admit I enjoyed the show. Then it was my turn, got a hairbrush and used the handle, he enjoyed. Come spring we split up, his mistake I guess.

I was working in a small shop and all week this QA gal would tell me about her exploits and what she would do to me. She new that her talks were getting my hard and horny. We both had to work on a Saturday alone. One thing led to another and we were in the office and she was on the sofa wearing matching bra and stripped panties. I was naked and she told me to stroke my cock, so I did. She fondled her self through those sexy panties. Then she pulled them aside to finger herself. When I bent over to lick the head of my cock she went off and so did I Mmmmm good memories...

It was during a weekend of sex and hanging out. Both of us in our mid 20s. I may have initiated it, in part because I was too inhibited to suggest anal sex (we’d done various sex positions and oral on each other) I guess mutual masturbation came up in rotation. We were naked, on my waterbed and I went first. I was really embarrassed about it but managed to do the deed. She fingered herself until she had a small orgasm. We never did it again. I had numerous hand jobs since and I’ve manually induced orgasms in my partners, but that isn’t quite the same.

Adding to post below - I can't remember the first time I saw a gal do it. Seems something women are more private about, at least when I was younger...

My friends sister caught us masturbating in bed early one Saturday morning. She threatened to tell on us unless she could watch us so we let her. She reached inside her pjs and began masturbating as she watched us.

Having spent very many years masturbating I consider myself something of an expert - but only when it comes to me. Apart from staged porn & the kind of solo webcam sort of stuff (which I find a turn off) I can honestly say I have only once watched a woman masturbate for me. I was about twenty & she was a little older - we only used to be able to meet for sex once every three weeks (on account of her marriage & my job) & after half a morning of frantic fucking (sort of like a sailor's homecoming) she said she wanted to cum for me while I watched. I was so turned on that someone wanted me to witness what I had always thought of as the most private & intimate act you could have...I watched with rapt attention as she gently fingered herself then used a regular sort of vibrator pressed on her clit before deeply inserting it & rubbing her clit with her finger. The most erotic thing about it was she reached out & squeezed my hand as she orgasmed - I never thought such slim fingers could grip so hard...The vibrator slipped out of her with a soft wet sucking sound & continued buzzing away on the bed until I retrieved it & turned it off. I hugged her close & buried my face in her hair. I don't thing in all my life I have ever felt more in love than I did at that moment which will stay with me forever.

Freshman year of High School with the first guy I did anything beyond kissing with. We had been fooling around and I was stroking him but apparently not the right way so he took over and finished himself off. I took notes.

I hugged her close & buried my face in her hair. I don't thing in all my life I have ever felt more in love than I did at that moment which will stay with me forever.

Sweet memories indeed. You are lucky to have them. 😃

How old were you guys, and her @bob1952 ?

Wow, great posts. Such details!

The first time I saw a male, mastrubate I was in my 40s and was on a video call.

@Secret_sub was it someone you knew? How was it initiated? Did he show his face or just his penis? What do you remember about the ejaculation?

@SuppoEnemaGirl why would you be mortified? What if you could be covered so your viewer could only see your face and your hand busily moving under the blanket?

I’ve only seen it in movies, not in real life. None of my girlfriends have done that around me. Maybe they did in private.

A male sibling back when I was still living at home. Happened across it and didn't leave.