When you are the giver, what arouses you the most about how the receiver prepares?

The fact that I am controlling his bowels by pumping a quantity of Hot Soapy water while he might enjoy the feeling initial, will soon feel the cramping pains as his bowels fill; and only I know that very soon he'll be pleading for me to stop and will feel relieved when I do and remove the nozzle. But this soon replaced by an inflatable Butt Plug and he is told that his enema is not yet finished and will continue in few minutes I then deliver a Hard spanking on his rounded cheeks and his inner things stopping only when his cries lead to tears. And then refilling the bowl, continue his enema adding to his already full bowels.

I am in control of how it is given. I control the cramps. I like to look at the tiny hole. Then slide a well-lubed finger in slowly. Then have them turn onto their back if they aren't already. Now I am in control of the flow and their orgasm. I swear I get so wet doing it. I love to watch the receiver get undressed because it is usually slower than normal. Then how they push back on your lubed finger and how they push back on the nozzle.

@Tabitha32 Do you make them watch the preparation of their enema?

Love this discussion and reading what a "giver" (to me, that would be a "Top") wants/needs. Reading a lot of the answers, i find as a "receiver" (bottom), i want/need Who and how He is and the exchange becomes symbiotic, even though One is in control and the other is controlled.

For mre the facial response and utterances of the woman to my douche bulb enemas would be most erotic.

EnemaAndIvory

I have never had to make them watch. They do it on their own.

Love to make the recipient stand next to me naked as I prepare her enema. I tell her exactly what will be happening in humiliating detail. When the bag is ready. I march her into the bedroom where she assumes the knee chest position with her feet hanging over the end of the bed. I then hang the bag and and pull a chair up between her legs. A front row seat to all of her modesty. I will take my time playing with and lubricating her anus as I continue to coach her on being cooperative and taking all of the enema. I love to watch the nozzle slide in to her waiting anus. During her enema I will play witht the nozzle keeping all of her attention on her anus.

Love that control!!!