When you are the giver, what arouses you the most about how the receiver prepares?

When you are the giver, and you are seeing your subject preparing, what arouses you the most? For me number one is seeing her, in the knee chest position. Number two is the Sims position.

Seeing underwear slide down and off and adopting knee chest position.

Knees apart and chest to the bed/ floor back arched.

Don't get me wrong sims is a lovely view also.

When you are the giver, and you are seeing your subject preparing, what arouses you the most?

It used to be knowing that soon I'd get fucked well while he was being filled. He got so hard and horny knowing and while getting his ass filled.

Sadly that doesn't happen any more. Enemas and sex happen separately. But are still enjoyed together.

@MissStress

Sounds as though you and your partner have enjoyed a lot of mutual enemas and sex. Congratulations.

Seeing my gal lying on her left side with the tubing curving around going to her bubble butt and knowing the nozzle is all the way in and waiting for me to pop the clip open!!

Seeing the look of vulnerability in the recipients eyes. A sense of vulnerability that increases as each item of clothes comes off.

Well said.

The look of innocence, surprise, and hesitation to begin with. Then the SLOW preparation/readying...shedding her clothing and then reluctantly assuming the position (of HER choice) and baring her perfectly puckered rosebud to receive a well lubed nozzle (again, of HER choice, but the longer, bigger and more ominous the better). From this point on goes outside the intent of this thread butt.... ;-)

As a teenager, just knowing my girlfriend and I were going to have sexual intercourse after we gave each other a couple of enemas. The only issue was, I had a hard-on before we even got started or undressed. Knowing we’re going to have sex once we gave each other a couple of enemas, kept me hard. By the time we finished the enemas I had been hard so long my penis was throbbing, it was a relief to mount her and have intercourse. Years later, after I was first married. My wife and I were like a pair of rabbits the first few months, running into a similar issue. The difference was our frequency, unlike my girlfriend and I as teenagers, we both got sore from being so active.

I get aroused by her willingness to suffer for my pleasure. It is an act of love and trust to submit to an enema. The visuals are great, too, but it is her devotion that arouses me the most.

La, It is all the various responses, moans or whimpers, facial delight or other responses Of course seeing the nozzle I slip into her is delicious and I love to rub her butt and then help her out of her blouse and bra. She wants her tits loved and nibble during her flow. She loves her enemas from me.

Since she knows I love to give. I feel her submitting to, and then enduring the discomfort is a gift she is giving me for my pleasure. Time permitting; she will dress for the occasion eg; black garter belt with stockings and tall thin heels, at times even an open bottom girdle, that I have to hike up an inch or two, to get the nozzle in, cause she knows I like seeing her that way. (It kind of puts a lovely frame around a beautiful painting). It truly is a gift she is giving me by taking it all, and the toe curling struggling to holding it. Its' not just something she can walk into a store, drop down her credit card, and say "Charge It...It's a present, gift wrap it please". That would be too easy! so just think of how much more valuable this gift is.... It's paid for by her discomfort of continuing to take it, even when the soapy cramps start and get stronger every moment. She will also fight like hell to hold it, (although she feel like she is going to burst) just to please me. A gift like that you never forget, its truly from who thinks you're a special person.

Sounds as though you and your partner have enjoyed a lot of mutual enemas and sex. Congratulations.

@Real_Screamer Over 30 years of enemas and sex have been enjoyed. Adjustments had to be made when his health changed that. We are learning and trying to adjust as we need to.

When she starts squirming and you start fucking her with the nozzle watching her cum……but that’s just me !

There is nothing quite as exciting as hanging a full bag on the wall and me sitting with my naked wife over my lap getting an enema.

If my lady wants one I will do her in her preferred position but of facing away I want to see her facial responses in a mirror.

When I the giver to either a male or female, I usually prefer knee/chest though on their back with feet back to their bum and legs wide apart.. If I'm using a bag (hot water bottle prefer large Enema Can) or Higgison Syringe I make it quite clear that they WILL take all the Hot Soapy Water and that I have a ruler handy which I will use at the first sign of any leakage.

I do like using the Higginson because When I squeeze it sharply I know they can can feel it and I will tell them "half way so still a lot more water to go into your bowels. Just to make it a bit more exciting.

Anyone interested ?

I like the sight of the enema nozzle slowly sliding into the recievers rectum then i will slowly pull it back out watching the contractions of the rectal muscles then reinsert it very slowly sliding it in and out then releasing the clamp to let the enema begin.

I would have to say the submissiveness of the subject .

When I give an enema to my delicious lover, I take my time. she has to be comfortable too. I like her to be on all fours, but she prefers to be lying down with one leg raised. first the pleasure of lubricating her anus with a finger, then another, going in and out, feeling the supple flesh of the rectum, the strength of this particular ring which is used strong at first, then which relaxes, the moans of pleasure. then the lubrication of the big inflatable cannula while looking at each other lovingly. after the heavenly moment, where, gently very gently, the cannula penetrates the welcoming anus .... and the pleasure of hearing the moans, then I take it out and bring it in again from between these delicious dappled buttocks. wet sex which testifies to the excitement of the recipient. then I activate the pump to inflate the cannula which takes its place and seals the delicate opening hermetically. stop, she said, I always do 2 additional inflation strokes... afterwards, it's the 2 liters that will invade my beloved's belly, which will make her pregnant with my hot water, 42 degrees, hot enough to dilate the interior, the supplications, I have cramps, we pinch the pipe .... a delight at every moment ...

The few times I’ve given my husband an enema during nearly 40 summers together, I can’t imagine not getting a little aroused. We express our love for each other in many different ways. Those are nice sensations caring for my husband when giving him an enema, even if the nurse in me needs to be a bit firm. Lol

Good two way communication is most important between partners. Never guess, ask. Plan that both will enjoy each action. Tease, but don’t force unless that’s part of the mutually agreeable script. It is a real life activity, plan it well.

For me it is when i have the guy lay on his left side one leg drawn up and looking at his tight hole knowing that I am going to slide the nozzle in and out as I fill him up watching his cock getting hard and listining to his moaning and begging to stop when he start's that i reach over him and start stroking his cock watching his pre cum leaking knowing that I am driving him wild.

I like to gently massage her rectum for a couple minutes before she’s given the enema. I have also massaged her clit at the same time as I massage her rectum, and that seems to help a lot with anticipation of her receiving the enema. During this process, I gently open up her rectum to inspect her. Finally, I will gently insert my finger to lubricate the rectum thoroughly before I insert the tip.

I’d like to hear her moan during this process also which helps me as to how she will respond as the enema is given.

I like to gently massage her rectum for a couple minutes before she’s given the enema. I have also massaged her clit at the same time as I massage her rectum, and that seems to help a lot with anticipation of her receiving the enema. During this process, I gently open up her rectum to inspect her. Finally, I will gently insert my finger to lubricate the rectum thoroughly before I insert the tip.

I’d like to hear her moan during this process also which helps me as to how she will respond as the enema is given.

Every part of a woman's body excites me, but of course, I especially love the view up close of their pretty little assholes and the sensational view of their vagina, labia, clitoris.... their inner thighs. I make sure to gently stroke their inner thighs as I am preparing to take their temperature, shaking the thermometer as they anxiously await their impending, highly Erotic experience. Inserting a rectal thermometer deep into their asshole is SUCH a rush! But inserting a nozzle is even more exciting! Watching them squirm, especially if it's a large nozzle. I like to take my time, lubricating their hole with my finger...in and out... several times with Vaseline or KY. And finally, I like to watch their eyes as I release the clamp which makes that loud "SNAP!".... and they know at that moment they're getting an ENEMA! I tend to be very vocal, instructing them to move this way or that way. "Breathe.... let it in. You can do this....you're going to take the whole thing, baby...yes, you are! Such a pretty asshole you have....and it's just SO busy right now!!" I love talking dirty! I'll occasionally spank their ass cheeks with one hand while my other holds the nozzle. Hearing them moan as they struggle with it excites the hell out of me, and of course watching them climax is beyond description!!! I make SURE they climax!!!.... and often multiple times! I make sure to lightly explore their labia til I get to their clitoris. I most recently finished a book called "The Mystery of the Undercover Clitoris" by Dr. Sadie Allison which taught me my way around!! It details (with very explicit drawings!...oooh lala!!) superior technique for using your fingers. It's a visual extravaganza for sure, and I'm usually very hard the entire time! Sometimes I will have them over my knee (especially if they're going to get a spanking). Sometimes on all fours, sometimes in stirrups. If they want, I will bind their hands or their legs Whatever turns them on. It's a LOT of fun for me.... being the GIVER. A LOT!!

I like it when I can tell them to do things that I normally can't get them to do.

Like:

Take off your clothes, yes underpants too.

Stand for an inspection. I like to spread but cheeks apart.

I have her get on the been belly down, legs spread, then say I am going to get your enema ready. When the bag is full I hold it in front of her face, Then I say This is the nozz;e I will be using. Are you ready for your enema? (I like using the word enema a lot)

Then I have her get on all fours, insert a finger or two or three in her rectum, and stroke it until I feel she is responding sexually. Without hesitation, I insert the large douche nozzle all the way in and release the clip.

What I like is the power to have my way with a wiling woman/

My wife does not like to receive enemas but on several occasions she has asked to receive an enema. Just a few day ago she was having some issues with constipation and asked if I would mind giving her a enema, my answer was absolutely.

We went into the bedroom and I told her let me get things ready. I came back shortly with my 2qt bag with a white douche nozzle attached and instructed her to get on her knees on the bed with her chest down on the bed and her bottom up in the air, without a word she raised her her night gown and assumed the position with her bottom high and was ready to receive. It was an awesome sight, her rose bud waiting to receive.

I told her I’m going to put some Vaseline on your bottom and some inside so your going to feel my finger go inside you, she responded with a very submissive “okay”. I slowly inserted my finger deep in to her, she responded with a slight gasp, I removed my finger and told her I’m going to insert the nozzle now and slowly started the insertion, I noticed some goose bumps on her bottom, I got almost 3/4 of the nozzle in and that I was now going to start the water flow, she took almost half the bag and desperately said “I have to go now”, I asked if she could hold it a little while? But her response was a firm no, I heard her expelling, I heard a very loud plop and then she said loudly “oh my god that was a hugh poop! That feels much better already.

She returned to the bed and said we might better do another one now.

I refilled the bag and returned and told her sometimes it might work better if we try another position and she said smiling “your the doctor “, I said okay this time pull up your gown and lay on your back with your bottom close to the edge of the bed, she did as requested and I said now pull your legs back and hold them there, I then did the same lubrication as before with my Vaseline covered finger slowly inserting and moving in and out followed by the douche nozzle, she took almost the whole bag and again desperately saying I have to go now. She seemed to want to talk as she was expelling so I was just outside the door as we talked about her enema.

This whole experience was awesome, seeing her receive an enema on her hands and knees and then on her back with her legs pulled up. I wished I could have recorded this experience but she was in the mood for relief not play. She later said i still don’t like enemas as you do but sometimes they are necessary, I don’t think they will ever be a turn on for me but I will still give you your enemas whenever you want.

That’s good enough for me!

My lady loves to fill me up, it excites her a lot...

but she herself only likes small enemas administered with a glass syringe.

And for me...

I almost go crazy when she waits for me in the knee / elbow position for the injection, I insert the metal nozzle and slowly push the plunger forward...🤗🤗🤗😛😛😛

I think that the little sounds arouse me the most--gasps, moans, whimpers, and if the scenario calls for it, crying (not due to my cruelty--some women just need the emotional release). Next is visuals, such as when she's on her side & I lift her buttcheek to expose her...