How often and why do you visit Zity?

Usually at least once a day, often more if I don't have company.

Always check for any new images and discussions/blogs.

Like to connect with friends I have made on here, and when I have the time, some role-play with a few special ladies.

Always open to new conversations and questions.

I visit Zity pretty much every day.

Enemas and diapers are of no interest to me at all.

I found Zity because I was searching for erotica stories involving submission many years ago

... basically every day, and then every time a desire for a few enemas ...

...is kinda crazy...

Although a member for maybe nine years I used only to visit occasionally. Now being semi-retired I have the luxury of more time & often log in two or three times a day just to see what's new. Sometimes I'm prompted to add a paragraph here or there like this morning when I was suddenly gripped by the desire to tell everyone who reads it how much I enjoy anal fucking with an enthusiastic female partner & can make such observations here on zity without being judged!

I often visit and log in several times a day when home and at least once or so even on busy days away from home.

The why is perhaps more difficult to answer except that I can apparently discuss thing here that I simply cannot discuss anywhere else, no matter how open-minded a discussion partner may be. Zity is often essentially group therapy in written form about very intimate matters.

It is also about sharing experiences and info of a particular sexual nature that you can't even find in books or magazines. I would say without exaggeration, that I've learned more about sexual matters and sexual comportment here from Zity members, than any other source so far. There are fascinating accounts and stories and ideas here. And many make me question my own notions and give me new perspectives. I've also learned to appreciate some practices like adult spanking that I previously wouldn't have cared for. This from reading how others go about it. I don't know where else I would have learned so much of an intimate nature.

And I have learned to abolish feelings of guilt about my sexual likes and desires. I no longer have doubts or worries about being thought normal or not. No one is, so who gives a fig what others think? Not that I will flaunt anything in public or even to friends, but my self doubts and worries on this score are at least gone.

And that is thanks to Zity members. We all have our little kinks and flaws, but most members strike me as being otherwise the average kind of person you'd randomly meet and think well of. That is reassuring.

Usually, a couple of times a day.... it's a great diversion from life's hassles... I also like reading the thoughts of all who are here.

I'm usually on here between 4 and 7 times a day maybe more. depends on what I'm doing during the day and how much alone free time I have to log in on zity.

Sporadically. When real life is not too busy and I can browse without being in a rush.

I enjoy coming on Zity as often as I fancy or have time for. It's fun both reading others' thoughts and views on medfet, as well as sharing my own. 😊

Zity is a place where I can have an outlet of sorts. I can express myself, meet new interesting people, learn, and read fascinating stories that may or may not aid in giving me ideas for future play!

Funny thing is, Anthony kept mentioning something about Zity, and how this is where he met some of our play doctors. At the time, all I knew about this place was it was somewhere he could come to chat with other like-minded people about his fetishes. As I started expanding my own horizons and opening up more to my sexuality this year, I decided to see what all the hype was. Little did I know, I enjoyed coming here as much as he does.

I log in to zity in waves. I wish I could come on more frequently, but life and small kids prevent that from happening. It seems like I will go months without logging in, then suddenly I think of it, and I will be on every day or two for a couple weeks. I may randomly log in a couple times during the 3-4 month hiatus, but it is not consistent.

Never log off so technically I’m on 23.99 hrs/day. No one else has access to my computer/iPad/phone so I don’t bother to log off. Only get logged off when computer reboots or internet shuts down. Typically review new posts in the morning before wife gets up and again evenings when she goes to bed (very early). Mostly follow the couple/relationship threads which are awesome and some of the non redundant posts that pop up. Zity has changed a lot over the past few years, some like it more, some less. While some think it’s friendlier, I find it duller. Can’t please everybody!

I discovered this site a few years ago and depending of the time and place I visit it a few times a week.

I like reading stories, real or fantasm and pictures, links to videos.

When I was 12 or 14 I knew enemas were giving me sexual pleasure and strong orgasm, I though it was not normal.

I was afraid, I could not talk of the subject to anyone but I could not stop, the envy was too strong.

When I was younger my mother was giving me enemas with a big red bulb and stopped when I was about 12.

It took time to accept my fantasm of enemas and sexual relationship.

It's why I enjoy visiting Zity Biz.

It has been almost 5 months since I last stopped in. I have been scouting other sites and trying to have a friend with benefits over the internet. I doubt I am missed very much

I visit pretty much every day, sometimes more than once, though I tend to post only in spurts. Part of that is that I've been here thirteen years now and posted about most of the childhood experiences that shaped my fetishes (rectal temps, shots in the bottom, rectal exams, and spanking). So I don't want to be a broken record. I also--sadly--don't get to gratify these fetishes via role playing, because my spouse of nearly twenty-two years has no interest. So there are few contemporary stories to tell. But being part of this community has been a godsend. It has helped me deal with the dark pit of toxic shame that long surrounded my sexuality. I grew up thinking there was something deeply perverse about me, when I fantasized about girls I liked baring their bottoms at the doctor's for a rectal temp or a painful penicillin shot, or for a spanking at home. Zity helped me realize there were many people in the world like me. I especially liked a few years ago when someone put up that post asking what people's jobs were. They were so diverse! So many of us have a "persona" we have cultivated over the years to present to the world that masks our deep-seated sexual fetishes and obsessions.

Daily. Zity is part of my life.

I'm a member since 11 years and I visit Zity 3-4 times a week. First I look for new discussion posts, give my likes or comments. Then I check how many of my friends are online, and who is in what chatroom. Maybe I'll visit a chatroom or I start a private chat. Zity is a important part of my life.

Just logged in. I thought it was an acne cure web site.

@ron_benton - Lol. That's what comes to mind everytime I log in.

At the present, I am on most days. I open it in the morning and leave it open for the day. I check for new discussions or notifications occasionally throughout the day.

But I know I will grow bored after a month or two and not come on for a couple of weeks. Then the cycle repeats.

Sometimes a break of a week works to clear me out😆Other times I’ll be on Zity multiple times a day😍At the age of 69, enema and analplay still turns me on😈

As my user name states I'm always in the mood, and one day I was searching for new things to try when I found Zity. I'm not sure if that day I was just looking for interesting sex discussions or looking for new ideas of things to insert in my back door. At some point in time, I became really addicted to anal play. That's mostly what I come here for anymore. I've done enemas occasionally, but don't really understand people's obsession with them. For me, it's mostly just to clean out for more deep play.

My frequency on this forum can be from once or twice a week to several times a day, depending on what's going on in my life.

I check for new posts 1-2 times a week. If someone peeked my interest, I will return daily to use the new material for fantasy/ masturbating. Some weeks there is not much new and I find myself going gaps without checking the site.

Pretty much daily. Sometimes every few days. Depends on how horny I am and how interesting the current content is as to how long I stay on.

I recently discovered it by chance and I have to say it's fantastic. It's a shame there are few of my compatriots.

I occasionally come here hoping for responses to my personal ads soliciting live play meetups. (Crickets, but with ZB membership so sparse & limited, my age & my limitations, what can be expected?.

Hoping to find playfriends

Why lie anytime I want an enema

Whenever I am horny for an enema and need release by an orgasm

Being retired lets me visit Zity anytime I wish ( I'm a widower...). Typically I check in to see what's new at least four or five times daily, even more if the hormones are talking. It doesn't take much for enema thoughts to cross my mind so that helps my numerical count most days. Lots of stunning pictures to enjoy doesn't detract from the experience either!

I enjoy all things anal related (guess that's why I identify as an anal erotic....) and enjoy giving and receiving enemas which hopefully lead to further anal related activities.

Everytime when I wanna meet friendly and/or kinky people, 2-3 times / week