How often and why do you visit Zity?

I do every day

Every chance I get..I love reading every word.

I visit Zity most days, probably two or three times depending on the email prompts I get or just to see what new posts there are.

My main interest is the female intimate examination, breast and gyn exams, and female sexuality arousal and orgasm. I very much enjoy giving a woman oral sex, so that is a strong interest as well.

I have zero interest in enemas, butt plugs, and RT's, or diapers for that matter, I just don't get that sort of stuff but each to their own...

I visit most everyday usually more than 1 time. why,enemas are a passion of mine

@sirensong I'm glad of your interest! I'll send you a PM about this.

I guess every day. Some days I am just to busy,but mostly get to Zity in bed to just read and sometimes write. I love it in here cause a lot of stuff that I read makes me reflect and think deeply about my fetish and lifestyle. I’ve learned a lot about myself the last years, just by visiting Zity.

Very thankful for that.

Spike

I’ve been a loyal fan and contributor for years, and I usually read the posts daily. My primary interest is anal sex and rectal temperature taking. With a few isolated exceptions, I feel comfortable posting on this site. I’ve found that the majority of people here are non-judgmental and very insightful. I don’t know of any other fetish sites that have so much variety. Most of them are gone. If I were to discuss my fetish with a mental health therapist, they would claim that I have a disorder, that needs medication and monitoring. My experience is that you need to be careful about what you discuss with a therapist. They are not your friend.

For me it comes and goes. Sometimes I'm on Zity constantly, sometimes I go months without reading or posting. It waxes and wanes with my enema desires and with all the myriad other stuff going on in my life. As a charter pilot I have a high-stress high-responsibility job, and as is fairly common among people who are very dominant in work mode, I'm actually quite submissive sexually. Is there anything more submissive than letting someone else fill you up with a big enema?

I’ll go two to three weeks w/o dropping in and then I’ll sign in two or three times a day for a week or two

At first I was on here every day. Now I get on here about once or twice a week. I'm mostly on here to share how things are going with my female led relationship with my wife as my domme.

I'll visit Zity once or twice a day. I enjoy giving and receiving ass fun. My sole purpose for enemas is to clean out for serious insertion play. Giving myself rectal/anal orgasms is something I can't get enough of.

Once a day.

It varies. The more I visit the more my thoughts tend to think about Zity related behaviors. Been more frequent as of late, daily, as I was looking for something new to try in an enema.

I enjoy enemas and like all the support and kind people here, as well as all the information.

So probably in the minority here, but not into enemas at all. I somehow found this site searching for something else, and found it to be a nice community to discuss sexual thoughts and ideas without much judgement.

Before the pandemic, I was hoping to have a forum where enema related videos and links could be exchanged. The activity of enema video production has come to a screeching halt since the pandemic. So, now I hardly even bother. Reading the steamy stories of other member's experiences can be fun, but seem much more limited now, as if everyone knows Big Brother is watching. The world is not the same anymore and society is more inhibited. Everything now seems political and common sense has left the building years ago. Don't take it personally if I say that Zity has become boring, all the best sites seem to disappear. When was the last time we saw a really interesting NEW enema video with a steamy story line? I have been very nostalgic for the 1970's lately, before all the video surveillance, the internet, cell phones and when porn stars weren't so stupid as to get tattoo's all over the place, and women had pubic hair and when it was OK to flirt with a girl you just met. the list goes on.

I will check in a few times a week, but my activity on this site is decreasing. Not much happening here anymore.

I visit about 3 or 4 times per week. I am still interested in taking small enemas for myself, but no longer interested in more than 1 quart. I also enjoy simply hearing or reading about enemas, suppositories, and any masturbation related to them, I also have a number of nude photographs I enjoy posting in the Nude Chat Room.

I love 3 or 4 times daily… enjoy seeing what others are thinking

I try to check each day.

I’ve been exchanging some wonderful, honest, exciting messages with a few members… so trying to keep up… fascinating to know the intimate details of people’s lives 🤩

Have even done my first few online exams OMG 😳

Many times during the day. Love to keep up on my favorite discussions, find new ones of interest, and add comments as desired.

I try to check daily.

I try to check in every day if possible. It gets my juices flowing and then I NEED an enema!!!

Zity usually adds to the build-up before I take a good enema. So many of the comments and descriptions fuel my flames!! 🔥

The fact is Zity has become my social media. I really have no time for the mostly banal nature of Twitter, Facebook, etc., etc. Zity, and to a lesser extent FetLife, are much more interesting to me and the folks who frequent Zity and Fet share many more of my interests (fetishes, kink and sex!!) They are also capable for the most part of intelligent conversation, postings, etc. I am on both Zity and Fet more than several times a day and there is almost always something of interest, amusement or just some significant insights into real life.

On occasion, you run across valuable hints and insights into dealing with questions, problems and quandries (especially as they relate to MY areas of interest) and both Zity and Fet have resulted in contacts…both conversational AND face-to-face…that have proven to be well worthwhile. There’s even a chance real life will creep into a conversation or meet-up and provide interesting and beneficial information…even humor!

Hats off to the folks on Zity and, in the interest of offering some valuable suggestions…go hang a bag!!

For as long as I can remember I have been, interested in anything anal From child hood even though I complained about getting an enema I really enjoyed them so I consider my self anally erotic. I have written on the subject before, but I have been in a dry spell (no pun intended) my wife has always been the giver she thinks she started me down this path haha, Long before I met her I was lucky enough to have married, once, she liked giving as well as taking and dated several woman that they to thought that, THEY were the ones to introduce me to enemas and anal toys. The reason I visit Zity Is my wife became ill 11 tears ago and so the faucet was turned off. I am not a solo taker, Therefore I have been looking for a female friend that wanted to enter into a liaison, as a giver and if wanted a taker, I have yet to meet such a person, but still looking. Rigid

I also try to check it almost daily, I have been on this site for quite some time now.

I try to check in each day but sometimes daily life and duties make it difficult to do. Also, I like to spend some time going over the discussion topics and just exploring what's new on the site. This, at least for me, isn't the type of site to just sign in, glance over a few things and leave. I enjoy the various topics that would be unheard of in other forums. Also, everyone here seems very open minded and not at all, judgey or condescending.

Well, let's see, in my 17 plus years as a Zity member, I have probably logged in somewhere in excess of 20,000 times, but who's counting. I normally log in to Zity in the morning and then again in the evening at least twice. My main interests are enemas, and reading about very naughty young girls who need some discipline on a regular basis. Some day maybe I will connect with another Zity member (female only) who is like minded and we will develop a great long-lasting relationship. I have been known to skip a day or two here and there, but I always make up for the lapse. I also have this thing for posting jokes, as many of you are already aware.

I've had to take some time period breaks for personal reasons but when I'm active on the site, I try to check every day. My reason is to stay connected with friends on the site. I just think really special bonds form between people on the site because you can just be your realest, truest self.

My sweetheart, husband, best friend, lover, business partner introduced me to Zity. In the beginning I honestly did not understand why he visited here as often as he does. He checks in everyday and sometimes more than once. In the beginning I made a few posts and read a few posts. I was not a regular viewer or participant. Then through his guidance and suggestions I began to read a few people whose writings I learned that I enjoyed. There are so many participants that it can be overwhelming for me. Now I visit a few times a week and look for certain people. I look to see who they follow and check out their pages.

There are times life gets busy and I just do not think about taking time to read. Making a living and making time for my Tom is sometimes all I have time for. One of the only benefits of having to stay home through Covid lockdown was that it freed us from the grind of work. With our newly found leisure we began to have love making time everyday. This is when he taught me that enemas we multiple purposeful….good for one’s health and well being….and then he taught me to relax and enjoy them as part of lovemaking. Anal sex became more frequent and I loved both being on the receiving end as well as the giving side.

Life and reality is knocking on the door. I have to force myself to help pull the wagon to keep the bank accounts flowing. So for today dear friends I say “until next time”.

I love teasing him as I administer to him. I love hearing the sounds of his pleasure fill our room. We have so many

‘ instruments of pleasure” acquired through the years that they fill two drawers. We have talked about how to dispose of them should we both die so no family members stumble upon our hidden stash of pleasure providers. No solution as yet.

It is his turn to relax and let me take charge of him. Tonight’s the night. He does not yet know as yet. He needs TLC and I am going to give it to a treat.

I visit on a regular basis, mostly daily. It's always interesting to view other's comments, stories and pictures, the result of which is often insights into the subsets of Zity members' particular proclivities. It's not uncommon for arousal to develop from what's posted on Zity (i.e., it turns me on!)

Although we're all unique and needn't share all fetishes of the many Zity members, there's a genuine sense of community here that's so affirming. It's a marvel that such a free and open site exists, and I am so thankful to those people who make it all possible.

I wish I had the time to log onto Zity daily but I don’t have that luxury. I hate to go longer than 3 days without logging on because it takes forever to catch up on the unread items in the various threads that I follow. My priority is to look at the recent images and then I start on my favorite discussion threads.