I would like to hear other people's thoughts, whether you are a play patient or doctor, about having the same sex as a play partner. Do you like it? Don't like it? Haven't experienced it but would like to/not like to?
I wanted to share my experiences with it. Having had several male play doctors, I found that I really enjoy being in the patient role with a male play doctor. When I first discover med-fet, it definitely was more about having exams or experiences with females. I remember when I was 21 reluctantly agreeing to an exam with a male play doctor. I knew the patient role was what I wanted, and I had no luck finding female play partners. The experience was, at the time, nerve wracking; I remember being uncomfortable after the exam. During the exam, the doctor had masturbated me a couple of times, and being in that position with another man was both a shocking and very enjoyable experience. I definitely felt confused for a long time, even though I subsequently had other exams with other male play doctors that were highly enjoyable, along with equally enjoyable female partner auscultation experiences.
I find now I am more okay with this odd heteroflexible identity (I think this is a great term for it), and how it plays out with med-fet. Maybe others have had similar experiences, finding that their fetishes are more gender agnostic compared to romantic interests.