Same sex play patient/doctor

I would like to hear other people's thoughts, whether you are a play patient or doctor, about having the same sex as a play partner. Do you like it? Don't like it? Haven't experienced it but would like to/not like to?

I wanted to share my experiences with it. Having had several male play doctors, I found that I really enjoy being in the patient role with a male play doctor. When I first discover med-fet, it definitely was more about having exams or experiences with females. I remember when I was 21 reluctantly agreeing to an exam with a male play doctor. I knew the patient role was what I wanted, and I had no luck finding female play partners. The experience was, at the time, nerve wracking; I remember being uncomfortable after the exam. During the exam, the doctor had masturbated me a couple of times, and being in that position with another man was both a shocking and very enjoyable experience. I definitely felt confused for a long time, even though I subsequently had other exams with other male play doctors that were highly enjoyable, along with equally enjoyable female partner auscultation experiences.

I find now I am more okay with this odd heteroflexible identity (I think this is a great term for it), and how it plays out with med-fet. Maybe others have had similar experiences, finding that their fetishes are more gender agnostic compared to romantic interests.

In he last 30 years I’ve engaged in fantasy exams as the doctor and the patient with men and with women. At some point I quit caring whether the exam partner was male or female. The excitement for me comes from the unequal positions we take. Being examined means submitting to the doctor’s control and instructions. In a few cases sexual activity outside the medical parameters became a part of the role play. I can’t say I did not enjoy those times but I prefer to focus on the examination.

I’ve found it easier to find men to play so most of my medfet activity has been with males. In most cases I’ve left the exam feeling good.

I am a gay male "doctor" and only examine male "patients". I have a large client base and I would say 98%/99% of my patients are married to a female or have a girlfriend (which still surprises me). When I first started I thought all my patients would be gay but NOT the case. I normally stick to a somewhat realistic exam until it comes to the private parts... VERY extensive genital, rectal and prostate exam... usually massaging his prostate while extracting a semen specimen. I really enjoy seeing straight/bi/heteroflexable patients and I think what gets them off is the power shift... most of them are "large and in charge" in their day to day life and seldom find themselves in a submissive position. Most new patients are really surprised with the experience.. IF they have had a prostate exam by a real doctor it's just a quick lubed finger in and out. With my exams I take my time examining their rectum before inserting my finger to check his prostate. I take my time and tell him what I'm doing and when I examine the prostate I let him know "it's normal to feel like you are going to pee". I exam the entire prostate then tell him I'm going to "express some prostatic fluid from his prostate so he will feel me applying pressure to the prostate" and he will “start to feel prostatic fluid start moving out of his prostate, into and down his urethra”. I keep in mind that if this is his first experience with a male play doctor he is probably having the same thoughts and feelings "long lee" described in his post. I think it can be confusing to someone identifying as straight when they find themselves aroused by another man touching them in such an intimate way. I want to be clear.. that does NOT mean you are gay. I almost always have patients requesting some type of "follow up exam(s)".

I love my job! ; )

Ok just saying this is a hot post. I identify as straight, but defintely would be open to an exam like the type drmyk2 does

@Long_Lee

gender agnostic

A wonderful term, very neutral that does not lean towards one way or the other. I hope it becomes more wide-spread.

I haven't heard it ever before. So if you coined it, kudos for you. If you found it elsewhere, tnx for using it here.

I am a straight male but find this erotic. I would like to experience this as a patient. Since the other person would be a doctor I would have no problem with them being male. It’s not like I’m being romantic with them but instead being submissive to doctors orders. I have had prostate exams in the past and they are very quick but while they are happening it feels amazing. There is definitely an urge to pee and an uncomfortable but erotic feel of pressure on my prostate. I just wish I could find a doctor that would take his time and not only examine my prostate but completely massage it to uncontrolled ejaculation.

To me, it's a complex thing with several "parts". The first part is the "play" or exam. It is the fact that someone else is in control. That part is pleasurable in itself no matter Male, Female or other. Add to it in my case a female sharing her "assets" with me is a plus but not a requirement. And an orgasm is an orgasm.....

Haven’t experienced a same sex pt/doctor but I am always up for a challenge 😈

Haven’t experienced a same sex pt/doctor but I am always up for a challenge 😈

Then give it a try !! - maybe you will be very surprised !!!

Always Male. Sorry but I would not consider changing my opinion on this.

Always had opposite sex "patients". No interest in checking out a guy's bits. 😃

No interest in having female patients nor being examined by a female Dr

@chelle300 Ill bet you would really enjoy a doctor and nurse combination doing rectal temps and enemas on you. Then the nurse could assist the doctor in a very thorough rectal exam. What do you think?

@chelle300 Ill bet you would really enjoy a doctor and nurse combination doing rectal temps and enemas on you. Then the nurse could assist the doctor in a very thorough rectal exam. What do you think?

Very much so😈

I've only had a few experiences as a doctor. I find most guys are willing to be the patient rather than the doctor. Most if not all lack the experience to be in the doctor role.

I usually do a head-to-toe exam. Next is the more intensive phase with prostate massage and sounding/catheters.

I look forward to the day of having a female nurse aid in examining me and/or a female doctor; I'd like to be able to experience it in play as I never have before. All I need is someone that is kind, directive, and puts my mind at ease as I submit under their guidance and control.

I have had a female nurse present literally during a clinical sensation test, and it was fascinating and intriguing.

Yes! I’d love to have a play exam from a. Female doctor.

I tend to refer to myself as heterosexual for the most part, but I admit that there is a rare bisexual curiosity that pops into my head from time to time. That being said, my experience, lacking as it is, has been exclusively with men. However, I feel that if I made a real connection with someone, gender/sex wouldn't be much of a bother at the end of the day. On that note, if I really clicked with a play partner, I wouldn't mind if they were the same sex.

During my homophobic years, i wanted no part of it. Now that I don't even undress at all for a physical, I look back on the times when I did. It was a male physician with a stern voice when I was in my 20's who asserted control over my body. It seemed like a requirement of my employer that he examine me annually. I was wearing briefs short of a CMNM situation. He asserted control over my briefs, manipulating them to expose my genitals to do the hernia check, and in the last 2 years, feeling my testicles as well. Once I got past my homophobia, i learned to appreciate this past dynamic, and have actually sought to recreate it.

I’ve not had a play exam from a male, but if it were of a clinical nature I would be interested. Would need to get to know them first though.

Haven't been able to find a play doctor in my area, but if I were to find one it has to be male on male. Then I could enjoy the experience without anxiety.

Where does Dr Jay play?

I've never had a play exam. As a critical care nurse, i've given thousands of real exams in a hospital setting as part of my job. i work in a medium sized teaching hospital in a college town. The hospital is self insured, so i pretty much know and work with many of the doctors on a routine basis.

i'm a gay total bottom guy and am sexually active, so i go every 4 to 6 months to an infectious disease doctor to get lab work done to test for STD's. This is a reversal from most of the stories here because i'm gay and my doctor is a straight male (or was, he moved away a year or so ago and i now have a female doctor).

It was always a little awkward being examined by someone i work with on a routine basis, especially given the nature of the exam, talking about my sex life with Him. i've written about this in other posts, but one thing i learned after He moved away, was i could do the rectal and oral swabs for the lab work to check for STD's myself. i do them with my new female doctor. There's a private restroom with everything laid out and instructions sheets. But prior to learning about this, the Male doctor would always to both the oral and rectal swabs. The rectal swab included a fairly quick exam of my behind. Prior He's always 'ask' (affirm really) "you are anal penetrative, aren't you?" Then He ask me to drop my pants and bend over the exam table as He'd separate my buttocks to look, then insert the swab for the lab. Prior we'd have more personal discussion, He share some personal info about getting a divorce and His new girlfriend. Over all, it was a combination of familiar and professional and always left me feeling awkward... i can't say i enjoyed the feeling.

It wouldn’t bother me either way as a patient and in some ways I’d prefer a male doctor to examine me as he’d potentially be more familiar with how things feel internally during my exam and therefore be aware of potential damage / limits when it came to using penetrative equipment.

I'm also heteroflexible but don't, as yet, enjoy hetero medfet nearly as much as same sex medfet, but only for psychological reasons. I think there is something about the trust and dynamic between two men that makes it more enjoyable and special, whether as equals or a more dominant scenario. My personal real-life experience is with very experienced and quite dominant male practitioners where I have built up a bond, whereas female medical practitioners have usually known me less well yet have been more caring and patient. I would jump at the chance to be a junior doctor/nurse to a more experienced play female doctor (or male doctor for that matter), or perhaps in time to do some husband-wife joint exams.

In real life my medical examinations have nearly always been carried out by a male doctor.

For play exams the same is the case. Not through choice, but apart from a few isolated cases, I am unable to find female medical play partners.

In the play scene, I've never had any problems with enhancing the experience with mutual touch.

Me, i am a lesbian and I am complete new to the medical fetish/play stuff but it fascinates me for a good while already. since I am a lesbian I would only play with other women and what is special between woman to woman is knowing exactly how certain things feel so you know exactly what the other woman feels while you do things, like inserting something into the vagina.

Male or female play doctor is fine by me however finding female play doctors is almost impossible. I am a patient for a certain female play doctor on this website.

I am bisexual and would happily have a man or a woman examine me. There would be pros and cons to both situations but I would be satisfied with either as long as the examine is thorough. I would only play the doctor role if I was examining another woman though.

I've been married for 30 years to a very vanilla wife who does not share my medical fetish. When our physical relationship began to sour 6-8 years ago I got up the gumption to arrange a rendezvous with a "doctor" I had met through this site. It was an amazing experience, and I have seen him as well as other "doctors" since then.

I have only had exam sessions with other males. Honestly, I enjoy the somewhat taboo experience of having another male touch me in ways and places my wife never would.

Up to now, I have only been the patient in my sessions. But I have an exam lined up in a few months where the "doctor" is going to examine me and then allow me to try out a few different stethoscopes on him as well as let me try my hand at doing a genital and prostate exam. This will definitely be the farthest I will have pushed the boundaries of my heteroflexability.