Intimate exams are more embarrassing for males / men

I hate it to be examined by male doctors.

so I changed to proctologist, urologist, dermatologist and generel medical care all are females now.

so I have many times a second woman in rookm to chaperone. its better for my.

more embarrassing but thats what i like. I dont want to get a males finger in ass or touched my genitals.

had around 20-25x real exams so far in all areas and also colpletey naked.

BUT: i feel more comfartablke when I am alone wth doc, and no nurse there to watch it.

Both my wife and I have been examined by both male and female doctors, and not been embarrassed, maybe a bit uncomfortable. I’ve attended many of my wife’s exams (pap smears, urodynamic tests) and my opinion is female exams are more invasive and exposed than men’s. A DRE is quick and dirty (no pun intended) whereas a Pap smear takes longer and is much more exposed.

If you really need it, then the gender of the doctor does not matter. Although I don't like it when a male doctor examines me. I also prefer female doctors, although I feel uncomfortable when and if I have to undress. As a child, I had to undergo a proctological examination many times. Doctors have always been women. Mom said that women are more gentle with children. My sister, who often took me for check-ups, said that she would be embarrassed if this was done in the presence of her, a male doctor. Apparently, she spoke more confidently about me with a woman than with a man. My feeble objections and complaints about my embarrassment were taken as a childish whim.

Nearly all my Dr's. have been male. All the assistants, PAs, and PRNs have been female and I prefer the females. The male Dr's all seem stuffy.

In a real exam, I only ever had a female Dr/ nurse.

If a chaperone/ assistant is offered I have always declined as it is a second person. ( Although if it was a student observing, I would have consented as a matter of course)

I have not felt embarrassed during a real exam as I know it is done professionally.

Having said that, before joining Zity, I had no interest in medfet. Now even a routine visit to the GP has me thinking about different Zity friends and how they would feel/ respond to different situations and that is now starting to get me excited from the moment I am in the waiting room.

I just think the level of embarrassment varies from person to person, rather than from gender to gender. Much has to do with one's own imagination!

@GraceT you’re killing me! If I’d known, when I was younger, that there were girls who fantasize about watching me get examined, I surely never would have made it through an exam without losing it altogether. As it was, being examined naked by a female doctor remains one of my most exciting memories - certainly my favorite medical memory! I’d have let you watch! But it would’ve been so embarrassing! 😅

@MDausmic for me it was the case that I knew that girls wanted to be there when we were examined! As I've said before it happened that when walking the short distance down the corridor from the locker room to the gym stripped down to our boxers a group of girls were there wolf whistling at us, which already got me hard knowing that girls I fancied were seeing me shirtless and in my Calvins. But then there was a shout of "hope you enjoy getting your wee-wee out for the doc, can I come and watch too, want to see the size of what's in your pants!" 😉

@scotty95 if you didn’t get with her later, there was a wasted opportunity!

An intimate examination must be more embarrassing for a woman if they are that way inclined. Having to take their knickers off and spread their legs wide open and have their most intimate parts opened and probed with instruments and fingers for several minutes, and all the time while facing the male or female doctor. For us men we face away from the doctor during a DRE, we normally just lower our clothing, and it's all over in about 10 seconds.

Over the years I've spoken to a number of women about their intimate examinations, and in reality they just accept them as part of being a woman and just get on with it...

@scotty95 if you didn’t get with her later, there was a wasted opportunity!

Well I did go out with that girl some time later... and when we did it for the first time I did remind her that she had said when I had my medical she wanted to see the size of my "wee-wee" and before we did it, after taking my boxers off she did "examine" it by having a play around. Afterwards she did say:

1) She thought I looked sexy in my boxers but I looked even sexier with them off.

2) She liked the size of what was there. 😉