Has anyone been masturbated by a doctor

From the poster's account, I doubt she actually believed masturbation was harmful, it just sounds like a manipulative excuse to allow her to molest him.

From the poster's account, I doubt she actually believed masturbation was harmful,

I'm certain that there are people who consider solo masturbation harmful, while someone performing it on someone else is looked on differently.

I'm certain that there are people who consider solo masturbation harmful, while someone performing it on someone else is looked on differently.

I'm sure there are some who do too, people think in weird ways.

Odd that a doc in the 1990's would still promote the evils of masturbation. I think by then the medical community viewed masturbation as healthy and normal.

In the “normal” part of the world probably. Here in Eastern Europe things are happening with quite a delay.

Being masturbated by a doctor? That account sounds like a medieval torture. And to claim that masturbation is harmful? Did this female doctor go to an accredited medical school, or did she attend the school of hard knocks? I can imagine the imagery. It’s frightening that someone like that would be allowed to have contact with the public.

Yep, exactly what I felt - like being tortured. She indeed was a medical doctor, and quite respected one, unfortunately. I presume that in the dark ages of communism here they really were thought that masturbation is something very, very unhealthy and bad. The majority of people her age think the same

@BoyfriendB if that doctor is still alive, perhaps you could ask her what their take on the whole thing was. You can conclude that it wasn't something they felt they needed to confront you about, and you might have been able to sense how they felt following one of your doctor visits. If they just seemed normal, then it probably didn't faze them.

I doubt it, she would be somewhere in her 90s. And, honestly, I'm not sure I'm able to meet her, I mean the idea of that scares the s#it out of me…

Regarding my parents - they really never talked about that. I often tried to tell them that I don't want to go there and I don't like those visits. The answer always was something like - we are your parents, we decide and know what is best for you. I'm quite sure that they knew what was going on, because one of them was always there. Literally in the same room, just divided by a curtain.

Do you mind if I ask how she approached this portion of her “treatment”? Did she wear gloves? Did she use lubricant? Where did she have you ejaculate?

First time it happened after she pulled my foreskin up and down many times, she never really said something. I thought it was part of the exam to be honest. After I ejaculated that it was the first time she mentioned something about “dirty things”. During the next visit she did the exam and after that she said I must get that dirty stuff out and needless to say what happened next. She never used gloves or lubricant,no.

… After I ejaculated that it was the first time she mentioned something about “dirty things”. During the next visit she did the exam and after that she said I must get that dirty stuff out

Maybe not likely, but is it possible that they could have been so naive as to think maybe the dirty stuff was just like smegma, and that it was accumulating, and she could clean it up off of you like a dentist cleans teeth. Did they ever really have a good look at your genitals, as they were seemingly always behind a curtain

Only during a role play examination

It's child sexual abuse, period. She abused her position of power. And that's why you feel the way you do. I'm sorry you experienced that, I can relate.

My BS meter pegged out on this thread!! IMO - the story is a nice fantasy, but just not believable in real life!!

My BS meter pegged out on this thread!! IMO - the story is a nice fantasy, but just not believable in real life!!@Ri

@Rigel Would ya believe that I once went in with a really bad hangnail on my big toe and ended up with my doctor masturbating me to see if my toes still curled when I had an orgasm?

My BS meter pegged out on this thread!! IMO - the story is a nice fantasy, but just not believable in real life!!

Good for you then. I wish it was fantasy, so I didn't have to still find a way to cope with the reality and not to go to sleep with thoughts about what happened and what I could have said or done. 😉

Good for you then. I wish it was fantasy, so I didn't have to still find a way to cope with the reality and not to go to sleep with thoughts about what happened and what I could have said or done. 😉

Well said!

I was unnecessarily stripped and examined by a pediatrician when I was 12 years old. I was away from home at a sleep away camp and was taken to see the local doctor due to a bad cough. That experience had a profound effect on me.

There seems to be a knee jerk reaction here on Zity sometimes to minimize these situations, specifically when the victim/survivor is male. It is very common for survivors of abuse to minimize and justify the abuse, they do not benefit when others do this as well.

I, like others here, were drawn to this site by interests that stem from experiences of molestation and abuse. Just because a doctor or nurse can ‘justify’ it and claim the exam or contact was necessary doesn't mean it was. It's a covert abuse of power. Most medical professionals may be just that, but humans also abuse.

Most priests and most coaches are also upstanding non - molesters. So many here are quick to deny the possibility that a medical professional could cross the line when just like all fields especially those with access to children some do cross the line. The difference is that doctors, when those few with nefarious intent offend, use the power of their role as a doctor and the justifiable undressing of patients to abuse.

Please see my other posts with links to news stories of charged and convicted doctors who perpetrated. And there is sadly plenty more where that came from.

Zity is the obvious place for folks who developed a medical fetish out of those truly negative experiences to come forward and honestly discuss and explore if perhaps they were abused or if they can find a rational explanation for the doctors behavior. Please don't victim bash just because it's hard to accept that there are also inappropriate medical professionals out there. Think of all the alter and choir boys who were told a priest could never do that. And, by the numbers, there are probably a lot more doctors than priests--but that's a discussion for another time.

When I was 23 and just coming out as homosexual. A male doctor that served the gay community masturbated me in his office. I was at that time still self conscious about by sexuality. My complaint was that I had a hard time ejaculating on dates. He masturbated me for probably 15 minutes but I could not orgasm. He did not have a treatment for me and apologized that he had to get to his other patients.

A male doctor that served the gay community masturbated me in his office. ... He masturbated me for probably 15 minutes…

I bet he's masturbated a few patients. Wouldn't be surprised if some days he might have gone home with a sore arm or at least hand.

Hopefully, he had enough sense not to try and bill the insurance company for performing that service.

I could imagine staff assigned to clean up. They see certain male patients walk in, and they start thinking, “Oh, man. I'm gonna have to clean up his jiz”

I bet he's masturbated a few patients. Wouldn't be surprised if some days he might have gone home with a sore arm or at least hand.

Reminds me of how the electric vibrator was invented, to relieve 19th century doctors from the arm and digital fatigue caused by manually inducing hysterical paroxysms (aka orgasms) in highly strung female patients through massage of the genitals.

This is a well-attested historical occurrence and practice and so we have very reliable testimony of doctors masturbating patients. It is not just a fantasy tale.

Of course, it was some time ago so we're not going to hear about this from any members though … 😃

Reminds me of how the electric vibrator was invented, to relieve 19th century doctors from the arm and digital fatigue caused by manually inducing hysterical paroxysms (aka orgasms) in highly strung female patients through massage of the genitals.

This is a well-attested historical occurrence and practice and so we have very reliable testimony of doctors masturbating patients. It is not just a fantasy tale.

Of course, it was some time ago so we're not going to hear about this from any members though … 😃

Yeah. There's a pretty good movie about that. “Hysteria” 😉

In a real setting? Of course not. The idea is absurd.

But it's the best way to end a play exam.

In a real setting? Of course not. The idea is absurd.

I can't help but thinking about quite a number of accounts I've read here of members being examined by a doctor when younger. The doctor retracts the foreskin, or tries to on an already erect penis and then continues pulling the foreskin up and down, sometimes for quite an amount of time until an ejaculation occurs.

I've read of this often enough and while it is usually attributed to the patient being overly high strung and aroused, I can't help but wonder if some doctors don't keep at the retracting for so long intentionally, seeing if they can get the patient to orgasm.

Which is essentially the same as masturbating the patient, but in an underhanded/roundabout way.

It didn't happen but… when I had my first thorough genital exam, I very easily could have had my first ever wet orgasm right there as the doctor was giving me the thorough inspection. My little man was hard as a rock and would not go down. A few weeks later, I had my first wet dream.

That doctor should have been reported to her licencing body AND to the police. What she did was not only unethical but illegal. I'm sorry this happened to you. If you need to, seek out a support group or psychiatric help.

I'm assuming that cunt is no longer living if this happened in the 90's but if she is, is there a statute of limitations on prosecuting sexual assault where you are? There isn't here in Canada.

In my dreams only! 😉

Essentially, yes. Not to orgasm, but clearly not just an innocent examination.

Never before.

Nope, never.

This could be a fantasy, although I don't know How I'd react if it were to happen to me in real life. Badly I guess. I remember being very uncomfortable when my female dermatologist retracted my foreskin to see if every thing was ok there. But now, months later, it's became a very good memory.

So… great fantasy for me, but probably a living nightmare would it happen in real life.

Only by accident. My doctor wanted a specimen of penile fluid while testing for a urinary infection. He started to massage my prostate and told me to massage my member until fluid came out. He meant precum, but I ejaculated. Not the specimen he wanted.

Yes, when I had a bad case of roids I started going to a specialist near where I lived. After a few appointments, the topic of anal sex came up, and one thing led to another. I still go back for an occasional check and he will probe my hole while I beat off like a rabid spider monkey.

We both, obviously, get something out of it and ‘Mum’s the word'…

My experiences and you can also check out my profile…the doctor would thoroughly examine my penis. I do not have any foreskin but my penis has always been sensitive to the touch especially my frenulum. When the doctor would examine my penis, I would instantly get erection and ejaculate while my mother was in the exam room watching.

This continued for many years and the doctor also convinced my mother to place me in a “growth & development” study he was conducting and I would have to visit him every 90-days while he instructed my mother to “inspect” me at home.

Did your doctor masturbate you every 90 days during the evaluation? During the home inspections where you masturbated by your mom? What did the whole study consist of and did they have to take pictures to document genital growth?

Essentially, yes. Not to orgasm, but clearly not just an innocent examination.

Can you elaborate a little on the occasion?