Has anyone been masturbated by a doctor

Long story short - I had some issues “down there” as a boy, which resulted in visiting many different docs with my parents. Issue was I had a very strong Cremaster reflex and would literally “swallow” my testicles. It was painful and very uncomfortable. The last doctor I visited for that was a female doctor i her 60s I guess. A family friend made contact with her and my parents. I was 12 years old when my mother took me to her for the first time.

She did a very thorough exam the first few visits. All the time my father or my mother would stay in the same room, behind a curtain. After a few visits, she started to tell both me and my parents that I shouldn't masturbate, how bad it is for my health. I guess it was a common belief here in Eastern Europe in the middle to late 90s. After repeatedly explaining that, she said that if I get out that “dirty thing” out of me it wouldn't hurt. And by “dirty thing” she meant the sperm. She would masturbate me at every visit, always saying how dirty this liquid is. It was very embarrassing experience for me. My parents seemed to be ok with it though.

It continued for may be 3 or 4 years. I remember I was about 16 when those visits stopped. I never had the chance to ask my parents about that period, if they knew what was going on. They are both deceased now. And it kinda interfere with my life still to this day.

Man you were lucky 😃

It happened with me only once with my play doctor. Remarkable experience.

I actually don't consider myself lucky. I didn't enjoy it back then. It wasn't a nice experience in general. It took me years not to feel guilty or dirty after reaching orgasm.

Let me get this straight. It was harmful if you got the “dirty stuff” out yourself but beneficial if she did it for you? Did she ask if you masturbated and how frequent?

Let me get this straight. It was harmful if you got the “dirty stuff” out yourself but beneficial if she did it for you? Did she ask if you masturbated and how frequent?

Yes, exactly. I actually masturbated, despite of all the bad things that could have happened to me 😄. I was doing it pretty often to be honest. She always asked if I was doing it, but I said no every time. I had to visit her or she would come to our place about twice a week. Sometimes more often.

I think masturbation is good, so you not did anything wrong. Interesting treatment anyway. I wonder what could be the achievement doing this by a doctor.

I suppose there is a sort of logic to the doctor's actions. If sperm is a ‘dirty thing’ that needs to be gotten rid of, then masturbation is one way to get rid of it. But if solo masturbation is frowned on, then someone else doing the masturbating is indeed performing a service of sorts.

However I'd say that the doctor was really performing a service for her own benefit. Especially with the treatments going on for so long.

Probably the best thing you can do now is to consider this experience as something extraordinary that not many have experienced for themselves. I can understand how this must have been disconcerting at the time, but to be honest, what I wouldn't wish for this to have happened to me. It sounds better than my own disconcerting sexual memories growing up.

Some of these responses are so inappropriate. The OP has described being molested, which had a lasting negative impact on them.

I never have, but considering how cute my urologist's PA is, I keep hoping.

Yes, exactly. I actually masturbated, despite of all the bad things that could have happened to me 😄. I was doing it pretty often to be honest. She always asked if I was doing it, but I said no every time. I had to visit her or she would come to our place about twice a week. Sometimes more often.

You saw her at the office or at home about twice a week- and she masturbated you at every visit. And she felt masturbation was bad for your health?? Un-huh!

You saw her at the office or at home about twice a week- and she masturbated you at every visit. And she felt masturbation was bad for your health?? Un-huh!

Exactly… that's why I consider it a sort of molestation. And I have difficulties dealing with the idea what happened to me and the fact that obviously my parents were ok with that. I was constantly being told how dirty boys are, how dirty “that stuff that comes out” is and this is the reason I feel pain. And how if I masturbate I'll go blind, hairs will grow on my palms and other absurd things. I thought I was dealing with that stuff, until the recent weeks, when I started cleaning the apartment of my late mother and found some notes regarding that period. It all came back to me.

I suppose there is a sort of logic to the doctor's actions. If sperm is a ‘dirty thing’ that needs to be gotten rid of, then masturbation is one way to get rid of it. But if solo masturbation is frowned on, then someone else doing the masturbating is indeed performing a service of sorts.

However I'd say that the doctor was really performing a service for her own benefit. Especially with the treatments going on for so long.

Probably the best thing you can do now is to consider this experience as something extraordinary that not many have experienced for themselves. I can understand how this must have been disconcerting at the time, but to be honest, what I wouldn't wish for this to have happened to me. It sounds better than my own disconcerting sexual memories growing up.

Yeah, I guess so. I just find it hard to deal with that. I'm sure that there are many other people, which experienced much worse things, but it's difficult for me.

And how if I masturbate I'll go blind, hairs will grow on my palms and other absurd things.

found some notes regarding that period

So essentially the doctor was telling you she had a sort of magic hand or something.

Not good if your hand was getting the ‘dirty thing’ out, but all hunky-dory and medically approved if her hand did the getting out? Did she or your parents really expect you to believe that? That it made any difference who was doing the hand stroking?

Was there anything of interest in those notes? Any kind of medical rationalization of why the doctor was doing it?

Was there anything of interest in those notes? Any kind of medical rationalization of why the doctor was doing it?

If it happened, she was a pedophile.

So essentially the doctor was telling you she had a sort of magic hand or something.

Not good if your hand was getting the ‘dirty thing’ out, but all hunky-dory and medically approved if her hand did the getting out? Did she or your parents really expect you to believe that? That it made any difference who was doing the hand stroking?

Was there anything of interest in those notes? Any kind of medical rationalization of why the doctor was doing it?

My parents obviously believed her, I don't know. The fact that they took me to her office or let her in out home, makes me think they really do. I can't believe they had no clue what she was doing. I mean, at her office everything was happening literally behind a curtain. At our house we would go in my room and none of them were present in there. But in her office they should have been able to hear everything. She was talking the same stuff everytime, whether it was at her or ar our place. Through the years she actually became sort of friend with my mother, they would go out for coffee and stuff.

I'm absolutely aware that it really doesn't matter which hand was doing “the job”… And I continued to expirience the same issues until the end of puberty. So she actually hadn't helped me at all.

Regarding the notes I found, there was nothing in them about her “technique”. My previous medical history was described, the initial exam(which was pretty thorough), the diagnosis I got and some of my visits there were recorded. But nothing regarding me being masturbated. The only thing making some sense was the mention of the tight foreskin I had at some point and that my parents declined circumcision. So she prescribed me a corticosteroid ointment which I actually rubbed in the skin for a couple of months. And that the skin should be stretched using it. And it did it's job perfectly well. She never used this ointment during her “healing sessions”.

Seeing that it was a family friend who recommended that you see this doctor. Did you know of anyone else that went through this treatment? How were the examinations conducted in medical office compared to at home? Were you completely nude for the examinations? How long were the masturbation sessions and did they increase in frequency as time went on?

The only thing making some sense was the mention of the tight foreskin I had at some point and that my parents declined circumcision. So she prescribed me a corticosteroid ointment which I actually rubbed in the skin for a couple of months.

Well now, that is a good indication and clue of what she used as reason. Probably a double reason: tight foreskin and the ‘dirty thing’ thing … I can see how a parent might believe such justifications.

Seeing that it was a family friend who recommended that you see this doctor. Did you know of anyone else that went through this treatment? How were the examinations conducted in medical office compared to at home? Were you completely nude for the examinations? How long were the masturbation sessions and did they increase in frequency as time went on?

This family friend was also a doctor, but a coroner actually.

I'm not sure if I know anyone who visited her. There were many patients waiting most of the time. Probably I wasn't the only one with the same issue. There was no big difference between the exams at her office and at home. Everything was pretty much the same. The “sessions” lasted until I had an ejaculation. I'm not sure, but most of the times it happened in minutes, let's say 5 for example. The first months or maybe year, I wasn't able to ejaculate every time, I mean I had dry cums. The frequency was almost the same through the years - about 2 times per week.

Well now, that is a good indication and clue of what she used as reason. Probably a double reason: tight foreskin and the ‘dirty thing’ thing … I can see how a parent might believe such justifications.

Sounds reasonable, yes. Although I don't recall the tight foreskin being such a major problem. It occurred when I was 14 or so, way after the “dirty thing” thing has been started. Obviously, I'm trying to find answers to questions, that nobody can answer. I wish I hadn't put that experience so deep inside my soul and would speak to my parents about it. At least here I'm able to talk about it and feel better.

I wish I hadn't put that experience so deep inside my soul and would speak to my parents about it. At least here I'm able to talk about it and feel better.

I would say it's often better to speak to strangers and not family about such matters.

For myself, I've written and shared things here that regard my parents notions on many private and sexual matters, but I would never and have never talked to either of them about anything. I could not see anything good coming of doing so. Neither for me nor for them either.

I would say it's often better to speak to strangers and not family about such matters.

For myself, I've written and shared things here that regard my parents notions on many private and sexual matters, but I would never and have never talked to either of them about anything. I could not see anything good coming of doing so. Neither for me nor for them either.

Often better and often easier, yes. I've never shared with anyone details about what happened, but sometimes I feel like I need to.

Obviously I wasn't able to speak to them in the past, and now, when I'm ready, there's no one to talk to. 😄 I'm just curious, if I can say so, what was there opinion about what was happening to me. I guess I'll never find out.

@BoyfriendB if that doctor is still alive, perhaps you could ask her what their take on the whole thing was. You can conclude that it wasn't something they felt they needed to confront you about, and you might have been able to sense how they felt following one of your doctor visits. If they just seemed normal, then it probably didn't faze them.

Being masturbated by a doctor? That account sounds like a medieval torture. And to claim that masturbation is harmful? Did this female doctor go to an accredited medical school, or did she attend the school of hard knocks? I can imagine the imagery. It’s frightening that someone like that would be allowed to have contact with the public.

It’s frightening that someone like that would be allowed to have contact with the public.

It’s not only frightening, it’s unbelievable!

Do you mind if I ask how she approached this portion of her “treatment”? Did she wear gloves? Did she use lubricant? Where did she have you ejaculate?

I was masturbated by the pervy admissions director of the military school i went to,he said he had some kind of drs degree & was giving me a “sports physical” & checking to see if i was ruptured and had me turn my head & cough many times until i got hard then said he had to take care of “ my situation” .

And to claim that masturbation is harmful? Did this female doctor go to an accredited medical school, or did she attend the school of hard knocks? I

Actually, many many doctors throughout history have very publicly - and successfully - claimed that masturbation is harmful and can lead to debilitating diseases and conditions, even up to death.

The doctor who started the notion, was an 18th century Swiss physician of great distinction: Dr. Samuel-Auguste Tissot. He wrote one or two best-selling and very influential books and treatises on his notions. These works spread his ideas on masturbation throughout Europe and later the US, starting in the mid-18th century. He was an interesting figure for historical reasons, but from our perspective a nutcase ultimately. Yet he was renowned and respected during his lifetime, holding distinguished posts and titles and publishing works to great acclaim and influence in society.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Samuel-Auguste_Tissot

And to keep the list of doctors claiming masturbation was very harmful, short and not overly lengthy, let us not forget Dr. John Harvey Kellogg who probably influenced Americans most of all with his decidedly unscientific and ridiculous notions on masturbation.

Sad to say, but probably after religious leaders, medical doctors are most to blame for people erroneously believing that masturbation is actually physically harmful.

The doctor in question on this thread, most likely did go to an accredited medical school and learned the accepted nonsense ideas on masturbation that were considered valid at the time.

That doctors hand would have gotten broken if I’d been the parent in a situation like that.

Odd that a doc in the 1990's would still promote the evils of masturbation. I think by then the medical community viewed masturbation as healthy and normal.

Odd that a doc in the 1990's would still promote the evils of masturbation. I think by then the medical community viewed masturbation as healthy and normal.

I would not be so naïve as to think that all people in the medical community have adjusted to modern day notions about masturbation. I doubt they are all on the same page with this, even if only for moral and/or religious reasons.