Women who are more into anal instead of vaginal.

This is what I call the holy grail of unicorns! I've loved anything to do with anal or butts since I was a kid giving and receiving. The strange thing with me. I love being pegged, and always love using toys on myself and other women, giving analingus, watching myself or objects move in and out. It makes me go wild and really excited. (If they are not vanilla and will let me.) Now a days its more of a pre requisite.

I've come to notice though over the years, when I have anal sex with a woman, however, it feels much different than a vagina to me, and probably since 2007. I haven't been able to cum or finish during anal sex. My penis just doesn't seem as stimulated there even though i want it to be. (Haven't tried it with a plug, toy, or object in myself while having sex yet but I need to.) Maybe it's the psychology of it with me, or the visuals, or scents that turn me on about it? Just wish I had a lover or lovers that were as enthusiastic about it as I am. I have more toys than a sex convention and I want to put them to good use!

@XposeHer This sounds sooo cliche, but i swear the truth. I once dated an adorable young woman who happened to be what people around here call, “born again" and she honestly believed that somewhere in the bible it said that a young woman would remained a virgin if she only had anal sex, i certainly was not going to argue at least not for awhile.

I am not certain that is written somewhere in the bible, it probably comes from a ‘sexually adventurous’ interpretation of certain texts, of the ‘if it’s not expressly forbidden, then it's ok' school of thought.

This idea is also apparently shared by adherents of other religions too. I find it to be one of the favorite excuses to hear from those who want to be strictly following rules but still cannot dispense with some good sex. I find it amusing they don't think of anal penetration as being real sex …

Personally I perceive women as anti anal sex as they think it is dirty, painful and not stimulating. I had an Asian girl friend who I gave orgasms with vaginal sex so much so that she did not resist when I gently inserted my penis slowly and patiently into a rectum. It was a glorious feeling for her as I caught a glimpse of her smile of satisfaction and for me to feel the tightness of rectum wrapped around my penis to finally ejaculate inside her. It was a loving experience that bonded us together in our relationship.

I am not certain that is written somewhere in the bible, it probably comes from a ‘sexually adventurous’ interpretation of certain texts, of the ‘if it’s not expressly forbidden, then it's ok' school of thought.

This idea is also apparently shared by adherents of other religions too. I find it to be one of the favorite excuses to hear from those who want to be strictly following rules but still cannot dispense with some good sex. I find it amusing they don't think of anal penetration as being real sex …

“There is no overt mention of anal sex in the Bible. In the account of Sodom and Gomorrah in Genesis 19, a large group of men sought to gang rape two angels who had taken the form of men. The men's homosexual lust is obvious, but again, anal sex is not mentioned. The words sodomy and sodomize come from this biblical account. Sodomy is, literally, “the sin of Sodom.””

For Muslims, Virginity is defined as a piece of anatomy, an intact hymen. Virginity in Islam is very important and should only lose virginity on her wedding night.

There have been several posts about young women preserving their virginity by only having anal sex prior to marriage. One discussion:

https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;topic=52718

My husband and I have enjoyed anal activity for many years. We plan to keep on going.

GyneDoll Gwen

@RTDP42 : Just wish I had a lover or lovers that were as enthusiastic about it as I am.

Oh yes - I so agree with you…. when it's something done simply to please me, it loses it appeal.

when it's something done simply to please me, it loses it appeal.

Indeed so. Then better not to do it at all, lest it loose its appeal in other situations too.

While not exclusively anal, I do enjoy anal play as much or more than vaginal stimulation. Whether it be a finger or two, butt plug, penis, or enema nozzle…..I like them all!

Problem is most men that I have had relationships with are not that into anal.

My first gf, in high school, was into anal, but neither of us thought of it as anythIng but a child free substitute for vaginal sex, Until she started to orgasm from it. She actually suggested we try it, because a friend had given her one of DeSade's books. Once we found it was a pleasure route for both, that became our standard.

Not instead of anal. But if I'm in just the right mood, rectum is clean, no GI issues and feeling naughty…. there sometimes is nothing better. While the finger, toy, plug, penis is in there, I sill use a vibrator to get to the finish line, but the stretching seems to affect my clitoris in a way that is hard to explain, but incredible.

Depends on what is meant by anal activity. Many women appreciate a bit of anal touching or licking....think of it as knocking on the back door. Most will not open the door because of the embarrassing….umm….clutter behind the back door so it's rarer to find women who like anal penetration. I think it's very rare for a woman to exclusively use the back door when the front door is so accessible and clutter-free. As for me, it doesn't matter where my partner puts his cock as long as I get off….I enjoy it inside or rubbing outside, front or back, although variety helps me cum more.

But why would a man stop seeing a woman because she is into anal activity? I think most men would like anal sex if they can embrace the naughtiness. I've had partners express concern about hygiene to which I assured them my back passage had been cleaned, or I initiated them with fingering, gloves and toys. One time it was a penis size and curvature issue and anal sex was not possible because the pain outweighed the pleasure, but he more than made up for it by how his cock filled my pussy and massaged my front wall....mmmm....but I digress.

I've never had any partner reject anal sex for holy reasons. If they were ever religious, they'd probably figure if they were already having carnal pleasures with a lusty she-demon, what's one more sin regarding a technicality about the hole in which the cock goes?

It's funny that some religious adherents try to avoid the sin of premarital sex by committing the sin of sodomy....shows that silly man-made rules will always be subordinate to nature's rules.

I like to think that the rules about virginity being solely defined by an intact hymen were invented by religious patriarchs whose wives and harem enjoyed anal activity so much they left a loophole for anal sex haha. Being socially pressured to preserve your hymen as a gift to a future husband....fuck that. As for the idea of sodomy being sinful....fuck that too, i like being sinful 😈

religious patriarchs whose wives and harem enjoyed anal activity so much

There's lots of odd notions about harems. Religious patriarchs in general didn't have harems, harems were the property of secular rulers, and rich ones at that. It cost a small fortune to run and keep a harem.

Nor were the female members of a harem expected to be virgins, except perhaps at purchase, but not even then necessarily. The purpose of a harem is, besides showing off wealth, opulence and power, to enjoy the sexual opportunities presented by the (usually female) members. It would make little sense to keep a harem of virgins.

When my late wife (caused by cigs), wanted a divorce. Earlier in marriage was good as any. I placed ads in Baltimore City Paper/Wild Side.

Heard from and met 2 Girlfriends. Met 1st one in a bar, an ex dancer, gave her an enema on the1st date with her bag, had 2 clamps. Later got back together.

For some reason met 2nd one, a redhead. We went thru 5 different motels, I gave her an enema, then took Viagra. We did it in front a few times, but liked to orgasm 2 or 3 times via the back door. She would get us in a death lock. Later stood me up, said we were getting too serious,That hurt.

She is on her 3rd marriage. Later emailed for forgiveness as I never treated her bad. The 1st one phoned me the other year, but I was tied up.

I always gave them mint vintage equipment (raided all the drug stores, some stories there).

@pleese

Problem is most men that I have had relationships with are not that into anal.

We need to switch partners 😂. Most of them looooove anal. I do too - finger, thermometer, enema, suppository, play instruments, reciprocity … Sadly, I fall short on what they want the most. I simply cannot fit a penis up there. I love the idea of it, and am incredibly turned on by it. I’ve tried every means of stretching, dialating, lubing, relaxing, even hypnosis to no avail. My persistence landed me in my doctor’s office for “damage control.” I beat myself up for a long time before I resigned to working with what I’ve got. There’s still fingers, thermometers, enemas, suppositories, play instruments, recriprocity … and living vicariously through all of you.

To add to my previous post…

As a Dom, I required my partner to submit to anal activity, not only anal intercourse (though always that, and for which I will train her), but enemas, plugs, vibrators and the like. Always anal intercourse and enemas, though. @TakeItAgain, I would doubtless make an exception for you and those like you, but with the caveat that “I would work with you.” You would get many more enemas, though, to compensate.

… Sadly, I fall short on what they want the most. I simply cannot fit a penis up there.

We had the same with my wife. We just could not get an erect penis up into her. Admittedly, we only tried a few times but it was frustrating and disappointing so we too stuck to fingers and such. In fact a finger became almost de rigeur.

Front door back door if it feels good I'll do whatever you like nothing is taboo here. you only live once.

One of the more pleasurable aspects of anal play is that one can feel an orgasm occurring with your partner with an inserted finger because of the rhythmic anal contractions.

No faked orgasms with a finger inserted.

@pleese pity we haven't met, I have the same problem. I am seriously into anal but my partners aren't. I'd love to meet someone who loves anal as much as me

I like to masturbate my f/m partner while I gently fuck her/him anally. When she/he start to climax I love the rhytmic contraction of the spincter around my shaft. This makes me so crazy that I start to ejaculate few seconds later. A wonderful feeling.

What do you feel about anal penetration?

@Rabban_the_Clyst :the beautiful confinement and being enclosed; and during my partner's orgasm, the particularly intensive massage of my penis. What is your opinion or experience on this?

Are the best kind of women. I prefer a women’s asshole to her pussy. And for me i want a women who dosnt clean her self out. And yes I go bareback into her. I love how the asshole feels and I love the chance and do enjoy getting poop on my dick. Plus if she’d shit herself during anal sex I’ve hit the jackpot.

@pleese

"While not exclusively anal, I do enjoy anal play as much or more than vaginal stimulation. Whether it be a finger or two, butt plug, penis, or enema nozzle…..I like them all!

Problem is most men that I have had relationships with are not that into anal."

Very unfortunate. While I enjoy playing with a vagina, I enjoy anal play more. There are sooooo many more creative ways to stimulate a woman's anal opening and colon.

The sensation of anal play is like no other. It’s so sensitive and feels amazing. I prefer anal play… or both 😃

I love it in the ass! It just feels sooo good! There just so many good nerve endings down there than there are for vaginal sex. Vaginal sex is nice but not as good as anal sex. I wanted to try anal sex as a teenager but horny teenage guys were only interested in vaginal sex. Anal sex was not talked about it and we didn’t have internet so I kept quiet so that guys would not think that I weird. I had boyfriend try it when I was twenty but it hurt too much when he tried to get it in. I told him to stop because it hurt too much. He got mad and said anal sex was for queers and not for heterosexual couples. I felt weird and ashamed so I kept that part of me hidden. I met an older guy when I was around 28 years old and he fingered my butt and used a small dildo and it felt good but I didn’t tell him that I liked because I felt ashamed for liking it.

It was not until I met a boyfriend now husband at the age of 30 thst loved anal. He convinced me that I was normal for liking anal.

Now that I have anal cancer I really miss anal sex!

@medfedcouple Now that I have anal cancer I really miss anal sex!

Very sorry to read this. Read your profile - all very interesting. Hope all goes well with treatments.

I dated a woman years ago that invited me to her bed after a few dates. There was lots of necking and foreplay beforehand so she was quite wet and I thought ready, but she refused to let me into her vagina. As we were wrestling around on the bed I ended up with my erection poking her bum. I told her I would stick it in there if she didn't turn around. She just pushed her bum back into me more. Being horny as hell by now, I wet my cock with spit and pressed it between her cheeks, expecting her to pull away. Instead she pushed back until I was pressing against her little rosebud. I whispered in her ear I would fuck her arse if she didn't turn around. As she just stayed as she was, I tentatively pushed forward and she didn't pull away, instead she pushed back slowly until I was buried deep in her anus. I was so turned un by now it didn't take me a lot of strokes before I was pumping hard into her and I could feel her sphincter gripping me and the moans she was letting out soon had me cumming hard.

She would never talk about it and we would always go through the same routine. She was quite happy with my fingers in her pussy and playing with her clit, but she would never let me fuck her there. She was catholic and I often wondered if it was because she didn't believe in birth control. But as I said, she wouldn't discuss it. The affair finally ended when her hubby was due to get out of prison. Time to move on. 😃

Shortly after that I met another woman who preferred anal sex over vaginal, but that is another story.

When I was single, I discovered that I preferred going up a woman’s ass, much more than her vagina. I found that while some women were into that, many more were not. A couple of my male friends thought that it was gross and perverted, when I told them. Even some women would agree. I’m close to 70 now, and I have fantasies every day, when I see an attractive woman. I want to lower their panties, lube their booty hole, and slowly go in and out. I emphasize the word slowly!

@LordJim2 Shortly after that I met another woman who preferred anal sex over vaginal…

I envy you! Enjoyed reading your account.