Naked boys and dressed women

If boys were allowed to see girls naked in the same way would they be so turned on? Maybe it's a conspiracy to make us want them so,😈

A little anthropological aside here, but pertinent to the quote above.

Back in the day, say more than century and a half ago when anthropologists making their way across African tribal regions was still a favorably looked upon scientific endeavor, it was remarked upon that because of the hot African climate and the near total nudity that the inhabitants went about in, it seemed that villagers often needed to organize social activities, say group dances or other rituals, that were expressly designed to sexually arouse people.

The theory being that constant exposure to total nudity in these societies, members needed an impetus provided for by group rituals such as drinking, (lewd) dancing etc that jump-started sexual arousal. Nudity alone wasn't enough since everyone was accustomed to being naked in front of both genders.

When I was in college I went to spend a weekend with my friend at his girlfriends school. We ended up sleeping in her dorm room (which would have gotten her expelled if we had been found !). The next morning my friend and I went take a shower after his girlfriend had made sure the coast was clear. We were in an open bay shower room with two heads showering when we realized that word had got out that there were two guys naked in the shower! It became an endless progression of girls "accidentally" walking in the room to check us out! We made sure to give them a good show!

Visited a local college last weekend and experienced my first combined or is it non-binary these days toilets? All signs just had a male and female shape no words and inside separate cubicles each with a wash hand basin mirror and dryer; outside the cubicles nothing else. I imagine shy people would struggle a bit to get used to that - oh and the cubicle walls went right to the ceiling so no peeping over the top!

Visited a local college last weekend and experienced my first combined or is it non-binary these days toilets? All signs just had a male and female shape no words and inside separate cubicles each with a wash hand basin mirror and dryer; outside the cubicles nothing else. I imagine shy people would struggle a bit to get used to that - oh and the cubicle walls went right to the ceiling so no peeping over the top!

Truly the world might be simpler if there were only one type of public toilet. No more ridiculous hysteria and hateful proposed legislation concerning LGBT people anymore ...

Truly the world might be simpler if there were only one type of public toilet. No more ridiculous hysteria and hateful proposed legislation concerning LGBT people anymore ...

People wouldn't be afraid of Janet Jackson's boob and Naked And Afraid would actually be naked?

I went through something similar when I was 12 years old. When we visited my aunt in summer, my mother stripped me down to my underwear in front of my aunt and her daughter of the same age before washing me in the bathroom. I was red with embarrassment. While my mother and aunt were laughing at this situation, my cousin asked, "Auntie, won't you take off his briefs?" If I hadn't run to the bathroom, maybe my mom would have done that too. The privacy of boys is not important to any female, young or mature.

The privacy of boys is not important to any female, young or mature.

Accurate observation. I think girls learn that boy nudity is treated differently than girl nudity. I remember the stories of my schoolmates boys who had younger sisters. When they were ashamed of being naked in front of their sister, their parents reprimanded them. The boy was taught not to be ashamed of his sister. At the same time, the sister learned that the boy has no right to be ashamed of nakedness.

I always felt embarrassed and somewhat humiliated when I was (had to be) naked in front of my foster aunt and she knew it. I would cover my young penis with my hands and be told very firmly by her "Don't do that. Hands by your sides (or) on your head. I'm the one who does the touching"!

And she DID.

What a difference between countries. I just spent a week in the hospital. On the second day they took away my underwear leaving me in that gown like a skirt split down the back. When lying in bed if I bent my knees it would leave my lower half fully exposed when I dropped my legs. On the third night my night nurse came in and with a big smile said "I know you, you're the crossing guard on the corner I go around every morning taking my kids to school." I think she was from Russia. Unlike our doctors and NPs here who seem to ashamed to look at male parts and certainly don't want to touch them, she was perfectly comfortable almost studying my parts.

She left to finish her rounds and several people came in to get me set up in bed for the night all working around my upper body with my "skirt" pulled up. She came back while they were still doing their thing and just stood back out of the way waiting. I saw her there looking intently almost studying my exposed parts. We talked for a while and she would move her gaze to my goodies and back to my face while we talked. No quickie peeks just looking at them and back up to my face as she felt like. It was heaven for me being with a woman who felt that free to look me over as she wanted.

I had called for a nurse because I needed to pee and wanted the urinal bottle so she lifted the head of the bed and I discovered she had already put it in place while waiting for the others to finish and when I checked she had put my hose in the bottle too which I never felt. It was amazing having a care giver who felt that comfortable touching me and looking at me. She came back a couple times to collect my pee before her shift ended. I told her I'll be looking for her when I get back on my corner and to let me know when she comes by. Now she's seen ALL of the crossing guard.

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Truly the world might be simpler if there were only one type of public toilet ...

There are quite some examples of that in history. In the "Roman" ages there was only one type of public toilet. the different toilets weren't even separated from one another and the places were used to talk with one another. That went away for one or another reason.

What I do see is that people in the current era are much more prudish than, let's say, 60 - 20 years ago. Have a look at the late sixties (the sexual revolution) ... if you would behave the same at this moment, you would be put in prison immediately ...

That seems to have been only a period of time though, because, as you do mention, it is a fact that girls haven't been naked as often 'in public' as boys, at least to my experience (which isn't a reference at all) ... But both within family as well as public environments (such as 'the beach') I remember there wasn't an issue at all if children played naked on the beach, and I still don't have an issue with it. In medical environments, it was (and still is to my feeling) a fact that males are more easily put naked then females and I did experience that in quite some occasions. Currently that is again disappearing because from time to time, I had the impression that certain doctors don't even ask us anymore to take off our shirt to monitor the heartbeat or listen to the lungs ... which I don't understand.

What I do see is that people in the current era are much more prudish than, let's say, 60 - 20 years ago. Have a look at the late sixties (the sexual revolution) ... if you would behave the same at this moment, you would be put in prison immediately ...

Pretty much correct. Whenever I perfuse through old issues of 1970s Dutch sex magazines (which I can read as opposed to say Swedish/Danish mags of the same period) , it is not so much the imagery that would shock modern day readers, but the text stories, accounts, memoirs and often enough the editorials and the assumptions they expressed and advocated. This isn't to say that everyone was in agreement with the sexual ideas in these publications. But they were openly sold and available everywhere without any hysteria or much opposition.

Nowadays publications wouldn't be able to get away with what was published back then. And certainly not how they were openly sold as a matter of fact in stores and newsstands.

I never had much of a CFNM experience that I can recall but oh boy I'd like to have had one! Or more!! I think I would have been in my 20s with just a little confidence & experience but not enough to stop me being nervous. My ideal woman in this scenario would perhaps be in her 40s, curvy & wearing a tight fitting top, a knee length shiny leather skirt, seamed stockings & very high pencil thin heels. Tight fitting shiny patent boots or shoes, either would work. In short a woman of some considerable authority who looked the part. Not necessarily thinking of a medical scenario here, maybe a lawyers office or college principal...naturally I would have been ordered to strip naked whereupon she would give my painfully hard erection an expert handjob while talking dirty to me & maybe concluding by removing her top & making me cum between her breasts after which I would be scolded & ordered to clean up my mess!