Fetishes you never expected to have?

Growing up I didn't know of many fetishes that weren't mainstream and/or joked about by the general public, and honestly didn't know of many in general.

One of these would have been having a foot fetish, which I never really understood during puberty. Of course later on I grew to appreciate it and I'm glad I did through older women like teachers or the school librarian always having footwear that showed off well taken care of feet and imagining myself pleasing them by massaging them even though they're not really considered an erogenous zone. I guess it came more when I realized how enjoyable fantasies of submission are while before I would say I was dominant.

The same could also be said for medical fetish. I never enjoyed having to be touched anywhere by the doctor or get nude. I also never played doctor as a kid so examining others never crossed my mind as something that could be appealing. That all changed when I had my first appointment with a female doctor during puberty and even though I didn't get nude with her then I knew I could enjoy it as a humiliation fetish was also starting to appeal to me by then. I did almost get seen by a staff member at that clinic that day which led me to look for similar stories. I was sick so had all the time in the world to take a deep dive into the fetish.

Anyways do you have similar stories or want to share how you got into fetishes you might have found strange before?

One of them we aren’t supposed to mention here but I’ll just say to most it’s gross and I never thought I’d be in to it until something got me interested when I was about 16 or 17.

I also never thought I’d be into the medical stuff either because at first like when I’d see videos of it it didn’t really seem appealing then I attended my moms gyno exam and then I was really interested lol. After I seen a real exam versus a fantasy something sparked inside of me and said man I like this. Especially with the gown and stuff because in the fantasies they remove them or don’t have them at all and also other stuff too. That exam gained me lots of different fetishes too not just medical. Things like pee because having to hold the pee cup really turned me on. And getting pee on my hand turned me on more lol. That’s not all I gained from that exam there are several more as I was there to help her since her arm couldn’t be used after a surgery. I honestly at the time didn’t realize how big the medical fetish world was. I was 16 or 17 for that too. I have wrote about it here several times both hers and my sisters so I don’t want to write about them again lol. Don’t want to bore or wear too many people out on it.

As for the pee yeah I never knew how big the fetish world for that was either. But during that exam I quickly realized I like it lol. I’ve always had a foot fetish especially when puberty hit me. I love feet especially when the girl has her toes painted. I especially like colors like blue, black, white, yellow, red, clear etc. I’ve always been close with my mom and I used to go with her when she would get a pedicure or whatever and she would let me choose the color of the nail polish. She doesn’t go anymore lol. Dad didn’t care if I went with her for those, for her exams and stuff we had to keep secrets lol. Of course before puberty I was like feet are cool and then when it hit I’m like I wonder if I’m the only guy that likes this? At least I’m not lol. When my mom put her feet in those stirrups I was having to hold back from taking care of myself right there in the exam room LOL. Because seeing feet like that and someone being in that position oh yeah. All of the fetish I have seem unusual to most lol. That’s why I keep them to myself unless asked haha. They all seem like they would not be common things. I’m the only one at work that thinks feet aren’t weird lol.

Another one is period stuff like I am so fascinated with pads and tampons and menstrual cups and stuff like watching the girls use them is so much of a turn on. That one came about the same time. That is one where I definitely said I’m the only one who likes this. It’s mostly when they insert the tampon and place the pad that I like. I’m not huge on them pulling it out as blood is my limit lol. It’s definitely a turn on to see them place a menstrual cup.

Sorry my list is long lol. I enjoy talking about this stuff since I don’t have anyone else to discuss it with. I’d definitely consider all of mine unusual or out of the ordinary. And most to me I didn’t think would be popular or mainstream.

All of them? I mean…how can you expect it until it happens?

Fetishes you never expected to have?

Enemas, spanking, women's 1950's style girdles, full-cut panties, and 1950's one-piece swimsuits….

Especially during junior high through high school, I would have had never believed that even in a million years I would someday actually like getting enemas.

I never thought I would enjoy being a Domme.

Yes I ever thought I had a med fetish until the feelings I got when I was first told to further undress by a female physician. Then I learned of my anal med fetish, enemas colonics etc!!

Being tied up to an apparatus I never thought this would turn me on. I do like the rough styled sex where I am bounded as it makes me feel dirty and innocent at the same time.

I would also love one of those fucking machines as part of my sex toys but they are hard to come by and not easy for them to be discreet.

Should I ever win the lotto I will will build a “mcmansion” where I will have two reasonably sized rooms close to each other… one will be my gym and another will be my locked “secret dungeon”. Between these rooms will be a bathroom with a sauna, shower and spa for after.

@concrete What a fabulous idea! Can I have a workout in your gym and then meet you through the connecting doors later?

@Secret_sub Do you like being a Domme then? Perhaps you will have to be Secret_Domme in future?

Being a fan of Rubber/Latex and it's many uses during the 40's, 50's and 60's, especially on females, mine is Rubber Boots, I remember in the 50's,

and girls wearing White Clumsy, heavy when walking. Turned me on. My late wife had a collection of a dozen and a half, any colors I could find I would give her Enemas in Bed wearing ones that matched or contrasted with the Rubber Syringe, Bag or Bulb or Rectal Tube. She would ask for them, I was into Polaroid Cameras and Film. Have boxes of ones taken, plus wrote comments on the lower photo back. What was used and her comments. Once I gave her one, while asleep. Told me, that was mean. The combination was great foreplay. Try it. Current girlfriend is nice, but not into this. Darn. Also a fan of

ample female rears and legs. Some I've seen Blew My Mind! Whew! In Love again.

@John_D I have one sub ( who thinks I am good) and one person I switch with who thinks I am not persist enough with questioning him about his porn watching so I think it is fair to say I am a slow learner but am enjoying discovering a new side of myself.😉😉

@concrete Can I have a workout in your gym and then meet you through the connecting doors later?

@John_D No!

Should I ever win the lotto I will will build a “mcmansion” where I will have two reasonably sized rooms close to each other… one will be my gym and another will be my locked “secret dungeon”. Between these rooms will be a bathroom with a sauna, shower and spa for after.

@concrete Very interesting post in general. I'm sure this part in particular is a fantasy we all have. Not quite the same but I've also had fantasies about a nice yacht or boat just for partying that also has a place where I can sneak off and be examined by female doctors.

Never considered the sauna and spa though, I have included a nice spacious hot tub in the fantasy. Maybe even a big shower for multiple people to join in.

Growing up I had a scrotal hernia which was back then treated first with a hernia truss. Since then I have been collecting and wearing them for fetish proposes. On here no one seems to want to talk about my fetish but if you do please lets talk.

Being submissive and giving up my sexuality. To let someone else tell me what to do to or for them.

The medfet interest. A doctor visit is not stimulating in a normal situation. But adding a sexual twist to it changes the excitement to something much much better. It didn't seem as normal until finding Zity.biz.

On my own, left to my devices without access to the internet and to sites like Zity, there are a number of fetishes that I have come to find interesting and arousing which I wouldn't ever thought of years ago.

One of them is spanking, something which never happened to me as a child at all, and yet I have come to appreciate a nice (self) spanking. Though not mentioned here on Zity, I find that types of Cosplay (as practiced in Japan) also great fun, especially with masks, body suits, rubber, feminization situations.

And as usual with such things, I am disappointed that I never let myself go in earlier years and embrace these sexual variations.

I never expected to become a DL even though I'm incontinent all these years. I also enjoy butt plugs, I wonder what Zity friend got me started with this?

I also enjoy butt plugs, I wonder what Zity friend got me started with this?

Would that be @anne4joy ?

Periods and period sex. Especially pads, and the holy grail is the old fashioned tabbed pads with either belt or dedicated panties.

Period face-sitting.

Seems like it's the last taboo.

I know that I’m very submissive. But as @Secret-sub said, I might be learning some new things about myself. I play on and off with a “boy“ who is more and more submissive himself. It’s interesting!

Rimming men

Having a guy suck pudding or eat a banana out of my freshly cleaned Man Cunt. And I have. Thanks BD50

I'm finding out I am getting into a lot of things I never had before and one of the main one's is CMNF or OON. I think it may be more me being an exhibitionist, which is also something I never thought of because I am a little self conscious about my body.

Enemas are another one that I really have bought into in a big way and no way did I think that would be a thing with me at all. But they are great for my being restrained and being abducted or probed in front of a lot of people.

I remember seeing medical fetish stuff and just being like “I just don't get how that could be exciting at all.” Then I think a combination of becoming interested in power exchange scenarios and having my first head-to-toe (and everything in between) thorough exam with a doctor made me suddenly very interested in medical fetishes. And now I've considered it an interest for about 8 years now.

Actually, I have a list of fetishes I never expected or could be considered unusual. I want to bring up my fetish relationship with my wife today. We are in a non-monogamous relationship. She has several male partners she frequently visits. We call them “dates”. We have no set rules or timeframes so dating can happen in our bedroom or at her lover's house. Sometimes it's just a quickie, sometimes it's a long protracted visit. Sometimes she has one or more suiters in a day.

My fetish is I love viewing her pussy after dating. especially if it involved several cock visits. I love thinking about all the cocks that she has fucked. The looking and thinking about her fucking someone else can actually get my cock hard without touching it. She likes showing me her pussy before a date and tells me she is going to be fucked good by a big cock. Or, I have a double date tonight and they will be here in our bed. Jealousy doesn't exist, just lust.

Anal fisting. I didn't know that it was actually possible to do and that only hardcore BDSM leather gay men did it. But my bf wanted it done to him and so it became a goal of our play. Not only did we do it but we loved doing it. So now I am an avid anal fister and absolutely love and crave it.

Chastity used to be a hard limit of mine. I read stories that involved it and men were forced to wear painful improvised devices. Later on I discovered professionally made smooth plastic ones and later yet one friend was into it followed by another. Eventually I tried it got hooked.

I have have come to realize I have some what of a foot fetish, as I have gotten older I really love to to look at women‘s feet, something about nicely kept feet are a bit exciting, especially nicely manicured and painted red. while shopping with my wife I am always checking out all the nicely shaped bottoms and end up trying to get a good look at their feet.

the other thing I have always enjoyed and looked forward too is going for my annual physical and knowing the that I was going to get a digital rectal exam and eagerly waiting the doctor to say “ okay please lower your pants and underwear and lean over the table”. Mostly had male doctors but had one female doctor but it wasn‘t as good as I thought it was going to be.