Physical exam with father present?

I am curious as to whether anyone had, in their childhood or adolescent years, a physical exam at the same time as their father was having one? Or, if you were having a physical exam and/or had to go to the doctor for a potentially embarrassing reason and your father had to stay in the exam room and see everything.

I grew up with my dad only so he was at my physicals a lot and I didn't have a problem with it

My wife's Dad often went with her to her exams. She started to feel embarrassed at about 15 when she started to develop breasts. One of the last exams he sat in on was to examine her back. Her Dad got to see her young developing breasts as the doctor examined her. She wouldn't let him come in the next time.

My 16 year old daughter actually prefers that @Deviant1 , her step-Dad, take her to doctor's appointments. She's looked at him as her protector for as long as he's been in her life. And he's a medical professional, so he knows what to ask and can translate medical-speak much better than I can. Plus, we don't stand much on formality in our household, so there really aren't many surprises, as everyone has pretty much seen everyone else in various states of undress. The bottom line for me is that she's comfortable with him and wants him there. She even makes sure he stays in the room for procedures and exams, and has told providers in no uncertain terms that he's staying.

My dad was always in the room for my physicals as a teenager. My mom would be in the other room with my sister. The exam always included a genital exam, and I was always fully erect from the start of it. I would be lying on the table with my shirt off. As the abdominal exam progressed lower, he would undo my pants and open them wide. Then he lifted the waistband of my briefs to continue palpating my power abdomen, when he did this, my erection was pointing him right in the face and he would brush the underneath of it as he felt my bladder. Then he would make a comment like “I need to have a look all the way down here.” He spread my urethral meatus with his thumbs, then shifted my penis around to visually inspect all sides of it. Then he would stick his hands all the way down into my underwear to feel my testicles.he. Never pulled my underwear down, more worked inside of them to give me a little modesty. But with my erection, I'm sure my dad could at least see my glans from where he was sitting just to my right side.

Always went with my mother. But I think it's different dynamic when fathers take their sons. I'm sure they have a strong interest in their penis and how things are developing. For the sons, it may be an embarrassing experience to be seen naked.

Wow playpt, that had to have been embarrassing for you to get fully erect like that with your father watching? Did your dad ever say anything to you about it to ease your mind and not make you feel so awkward. Assuming a parent was required in the room, in hindsight you were lucky to have him in the room instead of your mom.

My last exam with a parent in the room was at age 13. My dad came with me that day. When the nurse called us back from the waiting room, I told my dad he could wait in the waiting room, but the nurse heard me and said parents had to stay in the room during exams.

I had to strip to my underpants. I didn't like my dad seeing me sitting there in just my underwear, particularly when my female doctor came in the room. For some reason, him seeing a female seeing me in my underwear was even more awkward.

The genital and hernia exams were performed while I was lying on my back. My dad was sitting in a chair that was past the foot of the bed, and the doctor was standing beside the bed. I don't know what my dad saw - but he probably saw everything - including that I developed a full erection during the genital exam.

He never said anything about it, but the memory has embarrassed me my whole life.

@turnheadandcough

Yeah, it was embarrassing! We were very private around the home, so he never saw me naked at any other time. He never said anything about it.

When I was 11 I went to a pediatrician with my then 3 year old brother. This was for a yearly checkup. We went up the stairs dressed in our nicest clothes,as my mom insisted that we look nice when we see the doctor. My mom and dad accompanied us for the entire visit. The doctor was in this huge practice and after we were checked in we got our weight, BP and vision test outside. Then we were escorted into the doctor's office ,all four of us and the nurse told us that she needed to get two booster shots that I was supposed to get. She said “have your sons disrobe,just have them take off what they feel comfortable with". This was a bit too ambiguous for my dad and after the nurse left he insisted that we “take everything off”, my mother swiftly undressed by brother while I argued with my dad, but to no avail. He actually began to undress me by removing my sweater and unbuttoning my shirt, he had gotten to the point where my buttoned shirt came off and I realized I had no choice and took off my t-shirt. Then I took off the rest of my clothing. My brother and I were naked and my parents fully clothed. When the nurse came back with the shots she was taken a bit aback ‘They can keep their briefs on for their exams’, my dad interjected that we would be fine. She then gave me a the two jabs saying ‘well since you are naked lets do the shots in you rear’. The doctor came in soon and examined both of us. Before he came and I begged my dad to put my briefs back on but he said no. The exam was not really anything medfetish but this incident and the whole nature of disrobing ,power and embarrassment led to a nexus that has informed my sex life from then on.

Dad took me for a physical at 13. He was concerned about my poor balance and coordination. It was a very thorough exam. I was in my underwear from the time I was weighed. The doctor tested my flexibility, balance, coordination (bend over, balance on one foot, touch my toes in a sitting position). How many push ups in one minute (strength test) and running place to test my cardio fitness. Fortunately dad stayed in the waiting room while the doctor examined me

The office that I went to had a policy that someone over 21 had to be in the room until the patient was 18. Most of the time it was a parent, and generally my dad. The nurse would have me undress to my underwear. She would leave the room and return a few minutes later and do height, weight, BP, and a rectal temperature. Then she would leave and the doctor came in. Eventually my underpants would have to come off, so my Dad saw me naked. The few times my Mom came as a teenager, I dreaded having to get completely naked, but really had no choice.

Never had a physical at the same time my dad was having one. My dad did usually take me and my brother and stayed in the room each year from the time I was around 12 through 17. My grandfather took us when I was 16 but didn't go back and when I was 18 the doctor gave us separate rooms and he didn't come back on mine.

I don't remember ever going along with my Dad to a doctor's appointment. He was pretty healthy so there wasn't a need back then. He never took me too any appointments as he was usually working.

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At the age of five I was seeing our Pediatrician with my sister, who was 23 months older, and my mom. I got it in my head that this wasn’t right and raised a real stink.

When Dad was told about this he smiled in his quiet way and told Mom he would take care of it.

Three weeks later I was informed by my father that we had an appointment with the grown up doctor.

I don’t know how he arranged it but we were brought in at the same time to see the family GP.

Dad informed me that from now on we MEN would get our exams together. We both stripped down to our underwear and sat on the exam table. The doctor came in and shook Dads hand and then mine. Whatever needed to be done was first done on Dad and then me. This included the hernia and testicular exam.

After the exam when we were in the car Dad told me that was how men behaved at an exam and did I have any questions. He sure knew how to push all my buttons. From then on and until I was seventeen and dad passed on we had our yearly exams together.

Jhenson16 that's a great story and it's nice to hear about a father who takes control of the situation (as time has gone by, men in general have become so effeminate and non-confrontational). I guess you were pretty mortified at that age when your father had his prostate checked by the doctor?

Dad was 45 when he passed. He had not yet started prostate exams.

It was nearly always mom who went for anything routine as she didn't work.

Had hydrocele treated as a kid sure he was there before taking me home. Any sporting injury from youth that needed a doctor he would take me as he game to nearly all games and practice.

There was a time about a 3 year span (11-13) when dad went into the exam room with me and saw the physical. It was a tad better than having mom present but still embarrassing and surely more than I would have preferred. I suppose I was less emotional with him there but still when you are having your underpants removed for what ever reasons, it's pretty humiliating.

I did once catch a glimpse of dad on the table turned onto his side and receiving a rectal exam but I wasn't sure what was being done! Nothing was said.

Never had one the same time as my dad but many times with him in the room the whole time, yeah.

I grew up with my dad only and he took me to the pediatrician also but stayed outside of the room after a certain age and a nurse was inside with me

My dad went to most of my exams before the age of 16. He always saw the whole exam which was very embarrassing! I think that there are times when parents shouldn’t be in the exam room since kids are a lot less likely to ask questions to the doctor if their parents are there, especially if it’s an embarrassing question. Also because it’s very embarrassing to the kid but the exam will happen whether the kid is embarrassed or not.

Due to my mom’s work schedule, my stepfather would occasionally accompany me to my exams. Now as a mom, I’m the only one who accompanies my children to their exams.

@brikc424 how old were you when your stepfather would accompany you, if i may ask.

@brikc424 how old were you when your stepfather would accompany you, if i may ask.

It spanned most of my childhood. It wasn’t every appointment, just when my mom couldn’t go with me.

My father was a busy man who essentially left all details of running the house and children to my mother, so I don't recall any exam when he was with me.

I remember when I was about 5 or 6 my father took me to my pediatrician out of the blue on a Saturday. I had no idea it was going to happen. It turned out my mother (a nurse) was helping out that day. She came in the exam room and said the doctor wanted to do a chest exam. After she lft, I stripped down to my underwear , handing my my clothes to my father. After a few minutes the doctor came in, and told me to sit on the table. I obeyed, sitting erect w/my legs dangling over the table's edge. He checked my reflexes, then performed a full chest exam: asculration, palpation, and percussion. Then he had me lie on my back, and repeted the exam. I was so focused on what he was doing and following his orders that I became oblivious of my father sitting 10 feet away.

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@carrie_behave

He is an abusive narcissistic sociopath.