Heteroflexible men, how far would you go?

I couldn't get into anything homosexual but I would like to see someone fucking my wife.

@reddevil,

Yeah, much of my experimenting was when I was totally horny. The first time was with an older guy (I was 12, he was 14) who I was friends with and found out he was into guys as well. While he had long blond hair, was kind of cute in a weird way (he didn't act effeminate, but he looked effeminate), I normally wouldn't have given this much thought… until the girl I was dating broke up with me and I was just crazy horny at the same time: Then I thought about pursuing the matter and, while I never did marijuana before, he often hit the bong, and I joined in and, the next thing I know, we were going at it.

I didn't dip my feet in the pool: I just went right off the deep end. We did everything, and afterwards, I remember feeling intense shame and wondered if I was really gay. I was in dance, I did enjoy anal stimulation, and on and on it goes. I know this sounds so stupid looking back on it (especially since he wasn't completely gay), but I eventually reasoned it out.

Still, there are times we went at it when there weren't girls available.

I really, really wish I knew the answer to this question. Knowing myself, I’d have to suspect that, in the right circumstances, nothing would be off limits. Maybe one day I’ll be able to reply here and let you know the reality.

Heteroflexible seems to be self-defining. Maybe you had a single same sex experience in the past or maybe multiple occasions. Is it based on the number of same sex encounters- if so how many? Is it a state of mind kind of thing? If you think about having a same sex encounter all the time but never have- maybe you are bi-curious.

So each person has their own sexual path in life with some acting on same sex opportunities. Even calling oneself bi-sexual can be a bit vague. Where does heteroflexible end and bisexual begin? Is heteroflexible some kind of bisexual “lite?" Some are afraid to admit a sexual attraction for the same sex fearing they might be full on gay/lesbian, which they find terrifying. Is heteroflexible a psychological safe zone to play in and still have same sex experiences?

Sexuality and how people see themselves can be a can of worms and the terms begin to be meaningless without defining boundaries. I hope everybody achieves a self-acceptance of how they see themselves as a sexual being. When they do, they can have sex with the ones they want and simple enjoy it. That was an insight I had later in life- better late than never. I feel at peace with how I see myself now and I feel I am in a good place.

I'm open for a mm encounter for sex only, no kidding or cuddling though

I'll go for just about anything with a women or a man as long as it feels good. you won't hear me bitch

I don’t know the answer. I’ve always been heterosexual but with a few bisexual curiosities and fantasies. Certainly would like some medical play before I am too old or wrinkly to be a credible participant but I think I would be fussy about the actual circumstances and partner!

I am a happy Hetero male who loves and adores Women. I also enjoy playing with men giving and receiving full body massage, oral and cuddling. I have been known in the heat of the moment to be penetrated but I don't love men.

I used to have the same reservations expressed by most of the people here, but that was because I had never considered one variable - the age difference. When I was 50, a 28 yo man liked me - really liked me. I had never considered the possibility, of romantically kissing a man, but with him, all my hesitation went out the window along with all the subliminal(?) competition.

I am heterosexual, but I might be enticed to be curious! I love women and pussy, but I have thought about what I would do in the right situation. The male would have to be cut(circumcised) also!

I’ve give and gotten blow jobs form men and been fucked by men. Loved it all although I love pussy too and am married

My wife & I used to invite guys in for 3-ways. Up to that point I had never seen another penis or scrotum closeup other than pics. It the beginning, I would just watch him do my wife and clean up her pussy afterwards. After a few visits, she wanted to watch me suck the other guy first to get him hard first. Then for the ultimate humiliation he would fuck me while she watched, sometimes blowing me from underneath while watching him pound me closeup.

This led me to acquiring a taste for semen and now I can go both ways.

After reading all of the posts in this thread I find the results fascinating, and if I may say, enlightening. Only one person said that he is straight and that's it. Everyone else made reference to either their interest, involvement, or limitations. I wonder if this tells us anything about Zity members or guys in general. I think the next question would be to this one person or to “straight” men in general: if nobody was to find out about your activities would you explore a sexual (strictly sexual)experience with another man either passive or active.

I have a friend who is most definitely hetero. I’ve seen the woman he dates . However he does love anal sex . So far that’s been fingering and dildos . He loves it and likes being massaged . He is very sensual but he doesn’t fancy guys at all . A very high degree of Kink . Hes a breath of fresh air to be honest , happy in his sexuality but willing to experiment

I would figure a guy who's into anal with other guys would be bisexual, even if just a small amount.

As a doctor I would like to perform a good exam to a young guy in a good body shape (… possibly completely shaved) and complete it with a nice handjob…

I've been tempted to perform oral sex on a male, and to be fucked in the behind by one. These are two things I cannot do with a female (a dildo is not the real thing).

I'd call myself heteroflexible or perhaps just open minded! I've been very fortunate to be with a number of incredible women and am "straight' in my social/married life but I've also experienced a few men and a few transsexuals. By far, the best experiences I've had have been with a functional TS - the most interesting and incredible partner - that combination of warm breasts, female vibes and a hard cock is mind-blowing. In my next life, I'll be delving into that world more deeply for sure! Not personally much of a cocksucker… for me it's more of an overall mental play thing.

With men, I found that I become the dominant partner pretty quickly. I've found a couple of guys over the years who want to provide pleasure and be completely subservient and there is something there for sure. Guys give the best oral - probably because they have the actual equipment and know what makes it tick - and guys are more experimental, at least at first, in my limited experience. MFM threesomes are amazing, it's lovely being in the middle and when the female player is really into it, life is good.

Still though, I'd say women rule.

By far, the best experiences I've had have been with a functional TS - the most interesting and incredible partner - that combination of warm breasts, female vibes and a hard cock is mind-blowing.

@explorotica I think its the perfect combnation for heteroflexible guys. Would like to chat with you about it.

Ive had 3 experiences. Twice gave BJs and once I came way too quickly at it was all over. I wore panties each time. Loved the experiences but havent done anything in years.

I have a friend who is most definitely hetero. I’ve seen the woman he dates . However he does love anal sex . So far that’s been fingering and dildos . He loves it and likes being massaged . He is very sensual but he doesn’t fancy guys at all . A very high degree of Kink . Hes a breath of fresh air to be honest , happy in his sexuality but willing to experiment

Has this progressed beyond just a friend by any chance?

Ive had 3 experiences. Twice gave BJs and once I came way too quickly at it was all over. I wore panties each time. Loved the experiences but havent done anything in years.

Oh yes, being completely shaved and wearing girdles, stockings, bras, and panties causes my personality to change gears - as per what I mentioned about becoming bi when dressed - https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=1112598

I am completely hetero, but not homophobic. I tend to be introspective, and have pondered my anal erotic nature. I love getting/giving suppositories and enemas, enjoy RT's and plugs. One of my favorite memories is a session with a playmate who, like me, switches. We had been doing suppos and enemas for two days. Then, she blindfolded me and told me to get in knee/chest on the foot of the bed. She began to lube me, and I wondered what I was to receive. Shortly, she began to open me with a large butt plug. I was confused when she pulled out without ever inserting it all the way. She left the room with, “Don't move, I'll be right back.” After a couple of minutes, she returned. I felt something at my back door, and shortly it was in me. She pegged me for fully 10 minutes, resulting in a massive climax. Hence, I cannot understand why the thought of having a man back there is a total turn off.

Hence, I cannot understand why the thought of having a man back there is a total turn off.

It all depends on what kind of male you would be imagining. There are wide ranges of body types going from biblically bearded and wild-man of the woods hairy, all the way to totally hairless androgynous looking. And a wide range in between.

I used to like when my wife would rim me…mmmmmm

Hence, I cannot understand why the thought of having a man back there is a total turn off.

Well, your ass want's something different than your brain. When you want to enjoy liberal sex, first switch off your brain.

I started exploring my openings 2 or so years back.

From there I went from Butt Plug → Dildo → Blowjobs (Giving and Receiving) → Anal (Giving and Receiving)

Butt plug is what gives me most pleasure wearing them for hours, filling of fullness in my ass.

Now I don't identify myself as heteroflexible. I identify myself as Bisexual.

I consider myself as bisexual as I enjoy sex with either. Sucking and masturbating a cute dick can be as much fun as eating a pussy. My last guy meet had him stretching me out with a silicone dildo before fucking my ass from behind, then him giving me a sperm enema. Loved it.

@PegHim : I totally agree with you; every detail you describe is mine too. If you wanna talk about, send me a FQ

Same like you.

There is nothing wrong to give each other a little pleasure I guess, if we talk about medical play or even pure sex.