How do guys feel about female nurses putting a catheter in

@Nath42

You are correct abut the submissive part. Once the catheter is in you, all control you have had over your lifetime is completely lost at that moment. You can strain to hold your pee until your face is blue for as long as you like, but the pee will continue to flow. You will be rendered utterly and completely helpless.

And, the nurse can see how much you've peed, because it all goes int a bag.

When I've been cathed, the feelings are usually of great relief, since a cath is usually used because you can't pee without one and they don't put one in until you are very full.

@Sean please tell me more! Sounds amazing. Would you like to do that to me ?

@Nath42

Sorry, I have no interest in doing it to you.

I'll describe the process, if you like.

In hospitals, a catheter is generally only put into you can't pee n your own, or before a long procedure like surgery. If it's because you can't pee for some reason, such as Post Operative Urinary Retention or being bedridden and have a lot of poo in your rectum, their first step will likely be an ultrasound ‘bladder scan’ to see how much pee is in your bladder Usually you have to have about 600ml or more fr a catheter to be ordered.

A catheter an be a simple in-and-out, also called a ‘straight’ catheter or an indwelling one, with a retention balloon, called a Foley. The procedure is essentially the same.

To put in a Foley, a ‘catheter insertion kit’ is usually used. This contains all the stuff needed for a sterile insertion. They can be bought on-line.

The nurse opens the kit and the inner wrapping becomes a sterile field for the insertion. She then puts n the sterile gloves, being careful not to contaminate them. She will then take hold of the person's penis and carefully wipe the head with disinfectant wipes or swabs several times. The catheter comes in a sterile envelope which is opened ant the insertion end lubricated with sterile K-Y for the first few inches. Alternately, a small syringe of the sterile gel lube can be injected into the urethra. I personally prefer this option because it makes insertion a lot more comfortable. I never use a gel with an anesthetic agent. Pain is a warning.

These things done, the nurse holds the penis with one hand an inserts the catheter tip into the recipients penis and advances it. This feels a bit strange and is hugely embarrassing but should not be more that mildly uncomfortable. en the catheter is in abut 8 to 10 inches, it'll reach your prostate, there will probably be some resistance The nurse should pause about 30 seconds, to allow muscle relaxation, then proceed. This part an be a bit ouchie. The catheter is advanced until pee flow can be seen, and then advanced a couple of inches further to get well into the bladder.

At this point if it's a straight catheter, it's done. If it's a Foley, the balloon is inflated w/ 10ml or 30ml of sterile water and the catheter is pulled back so the retention balloon is against the bladder wall. The catheter is then connected t the pee bag, if not connected before.

And you're done. You now have absolutely no control of peeing. Absolutely none.

I would be too afraid to br embarrassed.

In a hospital setting yes …. I have experienced a female nurse both insert and remove a urinary catheter into my penis . No problems and no embarrassment for either of us . I am very comfortable around women . My lady nurse was very careful , caring and gentle as to the procedure .

Never had one, but if I had to , I would want a female nurse

I've had a catheter removed by a female nurse, a few days after a prostate operation. Not really embarrassing just glad to get it out. Was also taught intermittent self catheterisation by a female nurse, due to a bladder neck stricture caused by the operation, again not embarrassing as I just wanted relief of my symptoms by whatever means it took. Looking back now though, it could have been really erotic in different circumstances.

Not a female nurse, but I had a female urologist insert and remove a catheter. Given that I was more worried about the bleeding following a cystoscopic procedure, I had no problem with her doing the catheter insertion and removal. Fortunately, the bleeding stopped and I haven’t had a problem since. Obviously, this was not an erotic procedure, even though the doc was quite a good looking blonde.

I had one removed once. After bypass surgery my wife was visiting when the doc asked if I would like to go home early. A female came in to remove the catheter. She held my penis with one hand, told me to push like I was peeing and she pulled it out. No discomfort at all. My wife being the prude she is turned away so she didn't see the procedure.

Due to a spinal injury, I had a Foley for two years. It got changed every 30 days and it was always a female nurse. I had no issues or embarrassment with that at all. Now, I'm rid of the Foley and ‘learning’ to pee naturally again, but I have to self-cath after to ensure that the bladder is empty. I have no problem with that, since I've played with sounds for years. I think it'd be fun to have a female do the intermittent cath for me if it would lead to more erotic endeavors.

I had an angiogram several years ago (they go into your Groin to look at your arteries) so when I came out I had to lay still on my back, for 6 hours with a large bag of ice where they cut into my Groin to get at the underlying artery. During that time I had to urinate, and so this really nice nurse, in the recovery room helped me with a catheter it was uncomfortable going in But, her holding on to my penis, and the urine coming out caused the most wonderful sensation almost orgasmic. I was fortunate to have her hold it at least one more additional time before I was let go. So if there are any young nurses wanting to practice let me know I am your man. Just my experience

My wife had several surveillance angiograms and was never cathed during the post procedure waiting period. Once the woman in the recovery area next her (separated by a curtain) complained loudly that she had to pee. The nurse offered a bed pan but she refused, she wanted to get up and use the toilet, which obviously she couldn’t. She continued to complain loudly. We all, nurse included just rolled our eyes. Now they can plug the incision and reduce the down time to about 2 hrs vs the 4 or 6.

I would prefer a male nurse

Personally i think any man who wants one, should get a nurse to take care of his needs…….just sayin……..

If i had to have a female nurse do it , it wouldnt bother me its just a medical procedure and if it needs done it needs done !

Yes, I have had a catheter inserted by a female nurse and she did it while I was awake and watching her every move, too. Did it embarrass me? Absolutely not. I had a really full bladder and because of some anesthesia I was given for another test, I could not go by myself. She asked me if it was okay for her to insert the catheter or if I wanted she would get a male to insert it into me. I was hurting so bad I told her to go ahead and do it. Truth is even if I wasn't in such pain I would have wanted her or another female nurse to insert it anyway. I guess I am just more comfortable having females nurses working on me.

I have never had it done to me, but I would like to try one.

I’ve played with catheters with myself and a couple of exes. One was really into piss play and would get very turned on while cathed, so we’d use a foley and have sex with it in. Doing them myself isn’t too bad, sometimes it’s a bit pinchy when entering the bladder with a foley. I wish they’d smooth out the openings on the tip a bit more. Ejaculating with one in is interesting, definitely a “once in a blue moon” type of thing. I’ve also worn them with chastity cages and in combination with enemas.

I’d love for a nurse to cath me, but if I were in a situation where I actually needed it, it probably wouldn’t be any fun at all. The only time I’ve ever had the chance to get an enema in the hospital was for a barium X-ray when I had food poisoning, and it didn’t sound fun at the time at all. I turned it down, but sometimes I wish I hadn’t.

I would love to have a female nurse cath me. Most of my urologists have been females who check on my junk regularly so being cathed would just be icing on the cake. After cathing me, she could give me an enema series as well. That would make my day, week, month and maybe year!! Too much to ask, but maybe a little strap-on-to-orgasm to finish the enemas??? Christmas is coming so I'll put all that on my Santa list.

I would be a little embarrassed by it, however I probably would have no choice but to comply.

I would be perfectly okay with it. Wish it would happen actually.

I've had catheters a few times whenever I had surgery.

Male or female? I don't know, I was already under anesthesia (thank God).

But the last time, it was removed by this very young and beautiful nurse. Clearly of middle eastern descent: dark hair, flawless olive colored skin, beautiful teeth and smile. Great personality.

Her name was Lovey ……. no kidding.

She came in the room early on the last day of my stay and said she would be removing my cath. I hid my embarrassment well as she drained the balloon. Then she grabbed my penis firmly, told me to take a deep breath, and did a fairly quick removal.

There was a small sharp pain as it broke loose, but it slid out the rest of the way uneventfully.

As hospitals want patients to move about right after surgery, I was walking the halls with a younger patient and my IV stand. Moving along briskly, Lovey was coming out of another patient's room and was nearly run over by us. We all paused and the young patient asked if I had ever met Lovey. My immediate response was, “Oh, yes ….. she removed my catheter this morning”.

Ohhh, I remember her well ……

And my vote goes to female nurses.

I think I'd prefer a female nurse, bonus points if she was hot.

I've had female and male nurse's cath me and I'm happy both ways.

I've had both male and female nurses do this. I even had to do it myself for about 3 weeks.

For me it has to be done by someone. I would like a woman to do it because that is all I have had in the past. After getting botox injections in my bladder, I would prefer a woman. I have had some fellows say here that a woman is more gentle, somewhat sympethic. So from what I have experienced I would rather have a woman. Most likely she has seen as man penises as I have, so what I have is just a variation on a theme.

Female nurses every time please. They are gentler and more attentive, particularly when at the prostate area. Makes the whole process much easier I reckon.

In the emergency room one time for a kidney stone. I couldn't pee after an hour the nurse practitioner informed me of the news .. 1 female nurse , 1 female medical assistant did the catheter. There is no privacy there. My wife stayed in the room with me the whole time . Kind of made it little more embarrassing. The medical assistant did the washing part with the cleaning soap . Then the nurse did the Catheter. It was very uncomfortable

How do I feel about female nurses? Well, my Mom is one and I think she and most every other female nurse I know is fantastic whether they are acquaintainces or have actually attended me. I also think that, although it's gotten better, they don't receive nearly the credit they are due, or the acknowledgment for their skills and knowledge as well as talent and intuition, far beyond what their title or degree might imply any limitation. HERE'S TO THE (GOOD) NURSES OF THE WORLD!

@brian19 here here, couldn’t agree with you more.