I just want to give everyone interested a little insight about what my sex life is like and how Friday's have turned into a "play date" and what that really means. Since moving back to the hometown and reconnecting with @Dahiana 🌹 a good thing with @TedStarr ❤️❤️❤️ just got better than I could have hoped for.
Before moving back, Ted and I enjoyed a pretty healthy sex life with us having sex two and three times a week. And as good as that was or is, I still masturbated almost daily and sometimes twice a day. I love sex with my husband, no doubt, but sometimes taking a few moments to "rub one off" does the trick and lets me find a little release that only I can really do on such short notice and to the degree that I want. I love to masturbate and I love how it feels when I touch myself or make it possible for me to get that release. Mostly I do it with my hand and a lot of times it is over my clothing, whatever it is I am wearing, and when privacy is not all that assured. Other times, if I am at my desk or on a break, I will slip my fingers inside of my underwear and be more "detailed" with my masturbation if I am feeling the need for a "deeper" release. But I love everything about masturbation and very rarely do I fail to achieve my release.
With Ted, when he wants it he gets it and I don't think I've ever told him no. I may not be in the mood at that moment when he "makes his move" but I am totally in love with that man and once he begins, I get in the mood and I'm right there with him enjoying the moment. No way do I want to ever turn him away when he wants it and he is the same way with me. Although, with guys, there is a little more that needs to be done but Ted makes it happen. I love him so much and our having sex is part of who we are to each other. ❤️ And we make love or have sex or fuck, most often when we are in our bed, either before we go to sleep or after we wake up. Sometimes, we get the urge in the middle of the night and neither one of us minds losing a little sleep for that feeling we get with each other.
We moved back home, or my old home grounds, and I "reconnected" with DD and found that we wanted to pick up where we left off back in school. I didn't expect her to be as "advanced" as she was and had thought that she was straight all of the way. But I found out that she was very committed to her @Meat_Monster and totally, totally, totally in love with him so much that she did what she felt was right and part of that was the enema. When it came to the subject of enemas, she was worse than some reformed drug addict or born again woman who single handedly discovered enemas. She was soooo enthusiastic about them that I humored her and let her give me a few enemas.
And I was like, well, this isn't half bad 🤔 and when we fucked or made love and incorporated enemas into that, they really were something nice. BUT not satisfied with just us fucking and having enemas, she dug up her old fantasy life and soon there were 👽 👾 🤖 aliens abducting her and they really seemed to be into giving her enemas and anal probing. I guess all those stories about alien abductions and anal probes were right all along. 😉 In reality, Cuz was just bat shit crazy to borrow her terms.
The enemas, the fantasy play, my finding out she had become "bi" and wanted that with me, and we found ourselves finding every moment we could to get naked with each other and find that release. So much so, that we began to feel guilty from the time it was taking and that it was threatening to cut into our times with our favorite husbands. So we decided to see if our husbands would be interested in becoming sex partners with us. That's as good as I can explain it and we plotted and planned it so that they would be more apt to see us after our sex or in some sort of undress with each other. In other words, we weren't keeping the doors closed and keeping it separate from either of them. I already liked MM and knew him from back in high school when DD was too dumb to know that she was in love with him. She was one blind girl to have not seen how much he loved her. She was too busy getting into trouble and fighting to think of "girly" things.
So gradually we evolved into the ❤️❤️"Enema Quartet"❤️❤️ and that's what I've been writing about since then. Because of how posting is, some people get the idea that all of us are swapping partners every day, twice a day, and 1,000 times on Friday. Well, even that is too much for any of the EQ. In reality, I am fortunate enough to make love or fuck MM at least once a week and maybe twice on Friday since Mom, @Asteria started watching the kids. And with DD, it does take us longer to have sex because, well, we're women and quickies aren't always quick. Going down on DD takes a little time unless we are using a dildo or something, but the truth is, we don't want to rush it.
But with our guys, if we can make it happen, I will drop by MM's and catch him out in his shop or their kitchen, which is a favorite place of mine for some reason. We've adopted wearing skirts with no underwear or just a thong, and if MM has a little time I have no problem hiking my skirt up for him when he wants it or when I want it. ❤️ That is when life is so good. ❤️ A couple of times I am about to get into my mini van and this big MM comes up behind me and I'm bent over the front seat with my skirt hiked up and feeling him enter me from behind. ❤️💥 Or with me bent over the back gate of the van and again, skirt up around my waist and him taking me from behind. Or in the kitchen, I will "Red Sparrow" at their counter or kitchen table and I'm the one hiking up my skirt and spreading my legs for him to take me there. 💥💥
And DD? Sometimes she is there to watch and I love it when she sees us "getting ours" and I understand how she feels watching MM fuck me. I get the same satisfaction when DD does the "Red Sparrow" with my Ted at his desk, or our kitchen, or her opening the door of her mini van and leaning back to have Ted take her from the front. I see in her face the same joy I feel when I am fucking Ted or MM and I feel, for lack of a better word, "vindicated" or "appreciated" for having THE right guy and that I'm not the only one who feels lucky fucking this guy. ❤️❤️💥❤️❤️ It's almost like wanting someone else to understand just what it is about that flavor of ice cream that you love and them trying it and liking it too. Like, "YEAH! I know! Good stuff, huh?!"
I think about sex every single day, almost every waking hour and how good it makes me feel and how even better it is with the right people. And that is major for me to use the word "people" because I don't feel guilty about letting myself be with someone other than Ted. I hope it goes on forever, but Ted is the love of my life ❤️❤️❤️ but having DD and MM as part of what I love doing, is special.
In part to answer a question on another thread, when DD and I wanted to include our husbands in our sex life, we felt that there was that possibility that what we had for ourselves, might not be possible IF our husbands either both rejected us as sex partners, or just one of our husbands rejected one of us as a sex partner. I don't think, and neither does DD, that she and I could have continued with our reconnecting if it didn't include both of our husbands. I think about that and it was not such a sure thing.
From my perspective, it NEVER was a question of whether or not I would have sex with MM. Once I got to know him, see how he tolerated and even liked my cousin, DD, and the way he treated other people, and how he is an awesome Dad, there was no question that I would hike my skirt up for him. None. He's a good man and a loving husband, father, and friend, and I am glad we have what we have. ❤️❤️❤️