Anyone prefer solo enemas?

@reddevil

Sounds a bit like me, though the vast majority of my enemas were solo - since I took so many over the years..

Same here, I had taken quite a few solo enemas through my 20's, 30's, 40's… It wasn't until my later 40's that I had mustered the courage to even discuss with anyone the possibility of having them give me an enema. And when I first did, it was through the internet.

One thing with partners; my needs never seemed to match their interests as much as I would have liked. I did enjoy them, so definitely no regrets -

I kinda feel that way sometimes with my female friend. I have given her enemas a few times, several actually, but her interest in receiving has waned to just occasional/now and then. I am totally okay with that, I don't feel that “a giver should be a receiver," my main interest is being the receiver anyway. She is a good sport and truly doesn't seem to mind giving me one as often as I need or would just like one. If I sit on the toilet long enough while she's around, she will sometimes ask me if I need one.

Key word though that it's usually just one. She knows that I will have an erection, and that play time more preferable to her will likely follow.

but always some frustration as I was left wanting something more or different than what they were doing…

I can sort of relate to that too in terms of my female friend, although she does give a pretty good enema for a relatively noob enema person…

However my male friend whom I have visited several times (but not too recently) more “gets it” and is definitely more into the whole enema thing. When we get together it's enemas, me receiving them, and more than just one. I get a very good cleanout and I'm free to be naked, have an erection, and masturbate when I am ready.

I feel kinda more at ease in some senses with my male friend, in that I don't have to have on my conscience that he might get hurt wondering “does he like that enema bag better than me?” I don't get to see him as often as I do my young female friend, so enemas from him right now would be preferable than solo in about any situation that I had whether needing or just wanting a few.

For 65 ysars

I only do solo enemas. They are warm, relaxing, and gentle. I like solo because I can make all the decisions about solutions, equipment, position, etc. Every enema I receive is exactly to my liking!!

I've been giving to myself for about 60 years now so I'm quite comfortable with solo enemas. I can control the solutions, temperature and flow to my liking. It would be nice to develop an enema partner but seems unlikely at this point.

Enemas are very erotic and sexual for me. I started giving myself enemas at age 13 and have never stopped- now age 65. My enemas have been solo except for just a handful of times when I played with a partner- both males. Enemas with partners who are into enemas as much as you are is not only exciting sexually but there is great interest in sharing how each other got started with enemas and what they like about them. I like to talk about enemas almost as much as getting and giving them.

Now after decades of practice and giving myself enemas I have become quite good at giving myself enemas that ultimately result in a very intense orgasm as a grand finale. I can manipulate my body and tease it through a series of enemas and then I finally loose all control as I tip over into orgasm. From there my body takes me on a roller coaster ride. My entire body shakes uncontrollably as the waves of pleasure ripple through body.

So do I prefer solo enemas? Well that is tough call. I would never turn down an opportunity to share enemas with a partner, but I must say that my solo enema sessions have risen to such an intense level it's hard to choose between the two. So for me whether I am solo or with a partner and enemas are involved, it doesn't get much better than that.

@ericmacson Not preferable except I do enjoy the complete control I have over the enema so I can get exactly what I want that day,

Yes, I can related, as I mentioned -

One thing with partners; my needs never seemed to fully match their interests as much as I would have liked

Having said this, I'm happy to read that some do find exactly what they are looking for. I wonder if it's a case of my being just too fussy..

My mom introduced me to the little red bulb long ago. Since then, the majority of my fillings have been solo, over 60 years worth. I've been with some nurses on and off in the past which I really really enjoyed. I enjoyed them being in control telling me what position, what solution and how long to hold it. Plus if I needed a good slap on the cheeks, they were there to help. They have all been women. Unfortunately, my wife does not participate so I take whatever I can.

Yes, my enema is a very private thing, although I do discuss with my retired RN neighbour, sort of reality check, although I would never actually ask for one from her. Nor have I ever had any desire to give anyone else an enema. My lovely wife is absolutely sanguine about this, is happy for me to have time in the bathroom and appreciates the benefits this brings to both of us. Everything, toilet, bidet, nozzles etc are cleaned and sanitised when I have finished and the bathroom given a good spray of air freshener.

However going for a colonic is a completely different matter. My beloved colon hydrotherapist makes my treatment a very special event. She prepares the room with candles and incense. She provides a freshly laundered gown to wear and a warm fluffy blanket to go over. She lubes and pops in the doo-daa (SN speculum enhancement nozzle) while I kneel on the bed. Then, having turned over onto my back and got me settled she controls the water inflow flow and herbal implants, holds my hand if I need help with a cramp, massages my belly and then allows me to release. She is a very spiritual person and it really shows. She is never stingy with her time, continuing the treatment until she is satisfied with the results. And she provides a running commentary of what is coming through her viewing tube!! Sadly since COVID she has stopped working and I miss her soooo much.

So the difference between home enema and professionally administered colonic irrigation? It is all in the P word. There is absolutely nothing sexual, but yes she knows all about my “likes”and these days the loo room door is left open and we continue to chat while I do final release on the toilet.

My enemas are private, i don't think i will ever like to share, i don't want people to hear and smell my releases.

All my enemas are solo since I lost my long-time professional enema nurse. Solo isn’t as bad as I had thought.

I only do solo enemas. They are warm, relaxing, and gentle. I like solo because I can make all the decisions

I only give so mine are never solo but I think there can be a very erotic aspect to the procedure which you can't get from solo. The anticipation and the blush on the cheeks as the procedure starts is always a big turn on and things being done like some wand also can't be beat.

I do solo enemas now but when my wife was still alive we enjoyed enemas together and pretty much the same interest in them,we played often. Now and then I get people both men and lady’s that want to play off the websites. It’s hard to find people into the fetish like you are. Also finding real people I like to meet publicly for coffee and talk as well as observing your hygiene and head space if you will. People I have got together with usually have quite a bit of equipment like myself which is a common bond in my mind.

Like most here my enemas are private and solo. I take the time and prep to my liking and get to enjoy for as long as I wish. However, years back I did once meet with an experienced giver that taught me a bit about enemas. Either way its always a fun and pleasurable experience. Enjoy!

Actually when you mention foreplay enemas, there was a time when we did that about every 6th or 7th time we had sex, which put it the most frequent enema use I ever had. When I realized that, and wondered if it was too often. I told him I don't mind the foreplay enemas occasionally, but next time it was HIS turn to be on the business end!!

He agreed that fair was fair and fairness HAS To be a part of a healthy relationship

Since then, he has avoided the whole subject of foreplay enemas completely! I can't even bring up the subject. He finds a way to dodge it every time!

He is a willing participant in the annual cleanse that we do between Christmas and New Years every year, but THAT'S all oral laxatives.

Great topic - my situation is way different than most documented here. Let me start from stating that almost all enemas taken from age 14 to 32 were solo. Once married my late husband did enjoy an enema on occasion but both he and I were fairly private about it. It was ok for the ‘other’ to be around but not necessarily giving to one another. After his passing I met my current female partner, we have been together for over 20 years. For the most part the only time we help each other with enemas is when using a colon tube but not all that often even with that. I have on occasion given enemas to a few friends and a gay male couple we get together with. Even in an enema party situation most enemas are self administered. Everyone's different.

I do enjoy solo enemas as I have no trouble taking them by myself. It really turns me on when my wife gives me a 10-inch nozzle up my ass or a 20-in colon tube. I like someone to watch me take the enema as it really turns me on. Go figure…

I love having "me-time" when I can immerse myself reading a scary mystery, listening to a favorite symphony or jazz piece, watching a Hitchcock movie for the fourth time and spotting something new. This helped me get through all those stay at home months of the pandemic. Creating for myself an oasis of the mind.

"Honey, I am feeling like I need to take an enema. I'm tied up and bloated, and I need to clear my head." It's been a busy stressful week. My husband, who's watching a Seahawks game on a rainy Sunday afternoon, knows I want to be alone for a while. He gets it. Mostly I'll give myself a good cleanse without the "trimmings," although those pesky sensations can sometimes get the best of me.

On the other hand, there are occasions when I've been physically ill or emotionally down when my husband is my "me-time" oasis. He's the best nurse/caregiver when I need a friend, a lover. He's a reluctant receiver, but if I ever ask him to skip the third quarter of the Seahawks game because I'm in bed and feeling like I need an enema and some TLC, he's always there for me. And if there are "trimmings" to be experienced after, what better TLC than that? p>

I fully agree with you. I prefer total privacy, however couple of times I shared this intimate moment with my very close girlfriend.

I'm another one with Debgurl and Azdiane in that most of my enemas are solo. Certainly there are times when my husband and I want to play, but for the most part I really enjoy the solitude and those moments that are just between me and some quantity of warm soapy water. Everything has to be ratcheted down a notch meaning calming music, slow administration, and a mindset where there is not another worry in the world. A lighted candle seems to add to the feeling of well-being, too. I don't want to be hurried or rushed, but rather to just savor the experience.

I do preferences solo enemas. I have been giving myself enema for 6 years and have learned alot about retention and water temperature as well and the pressure in which it comes out of the nozzle. I like it fast and I enjoy it to fill me quickly. I do not ever want my partner to perform an enema on me because of how vulnerable I feel while cleaning out. The smell and color of the water is a little gross. The feeling of filling up to empty is extremely exciting and I enjoy waiting to be taken care of until later in the day..

Solo or with a friend. They both have their good points. In recent decades I have been strictly solo. I love Vicky's use of the phrase “me time”. There is much to be said for being in control of how gentle or difficult you want the particular enema to be. You are the boss!

I usually do solo enemas but I prefer receiving from a partner. There's something really nice about being taken care of that way and having someone make sure you get the maximum benefit. Even if that means taking several enemas in a row.

“I really enjoy the solitude and those moments that are just between me and some quantity of warm soapy water … slow administration, and a mindset where there is not another worry in the world. I don't want to be hurried or rushed, but rather to just savor the experience.”

Emom is sooo on top of this! Taking an enema as she so aptly describes is an oasis of the mind.

I have no problems giving myself a regular enema. When it comes to the 10-in nozzle or a 20-in colon tube it's nice to have a little assistance from my wife to get it up there. And she does get it up there. My wife will be going away up north in 2 weeks with her girlfriend for lunch and meet another college friend. You can bet that I will be giving myself a nice big enema while she is gone. I just got a boner thinking about it. Go figure

My dad showed me how to give myself enemas when I was very young. From then on, I was free to have an enema when ever I “needed” one. Sometimes I did need one and sometimes I wanted one. I didn't think much about how lucky I was. Then puberty hit and the nozzle sliding over my prostate gave me an immediate erection and I began to include that wonderful act of masturbation to the enemas. I had been masturbating for a long time and had never connected the two before. From then on I “needed” an enema a lot more often. My wife was never interested in even talking about enemas so I've been solo all my life. The few I've had in hospitals have been uncomfortable so I have no desire to share. And besides, I like to watch the old man in the mirror enjoying his enema and masturbation, and I couldn't do that with someone else.

Well said, fellow Texan!

My husband had not had an enema until after we were married and after a bit of “feminine persuasion “ I talked him into giving me one, and eventually he let me give him one. I enjoyed the extra level of intimacy while giving and getting an enema but he never accepted the enema as a recreational activity. It seemed he just wanted it to be over so we could get back to fucking. So after a few rounds I was back to mostly solo.

I enjoy my solo enemas and “me time”, with or without masturbation. I like taking my time and doing it like I want. I remember when my girls were young and in school, I worked part-time and had mornings off. I had the house to myself, sometimes sharing my time with only my red bag. Now the girls have families of their own and when hubby takes off to play golf, or whatever, the red bag is again my best friend.

While i really like to give enemas to my dear or play partners, as a constipation treatment, or as some S/M joy involving bondage, or both at the same time. I am very uncomfortable about taking enemas from someone.

There was the situation when i had serious hand injury and get constipated very badly. So my dear persuade me to get an enema.

There was her chance to get revenge for all sadistic things i've done to her. But she was extremely gentle. A little discouragingly gentle.

It was not bad. Even a pleasurable. Yet is was nightmare of vulnerability and shame for me.

From that time i become more of okayish about taking enemas. And take them when i need. But only solo. When nobody knows.

Surprisingly i sometimes fantasizing about getting rough sadistic huge enema being fully restrained, gagged and blindfolded.