Anyone prefer solo enemas?

I have been giving myself enemas for pleasure and sometimes pleasure/pain since my early teens. I have only given one to a reluctant but curious college boyfriend and received one time from a guy I was showing off my double balloon catheter (a story for another day). In both cases, I found I did not really enjoy sharing something so intimate and naughty. Wondering if anyone else felt this way?

Given that I have never given to nor received from another, by default my preference is solo. With that said, I remain hopeful that one day I’ll be able to share the pleasure while, on the other hand, I can relate to your reservation about sharing something that I’ve taken so much solo pleasure in for years.

. Wondering if anyone else felt this way?

With the right person it can be the most rewarding, intimate, sexual experience. My partner share everything from filling the bag to letting it all out. With sexual stimulation and orgasms in between…

Solo enemas are amazing. I enjoy them as self-care. It's a break from being concerned about anyone or anything else.

I got my ex-wife to give me one once and it didn't do anything special for me. I got the feeling that no-one else likes to give me enemas as much as I do. I don't want to mix up any sort of social anxiety with my fun.

I appreciate you starting up this thread. A lot of people on here put a lot of value on enema play as part of an interpersonal relationship. Some of them seem all too happy to horn in wherever they feel like just to go on and on about it - even on this thread. It seems like they want to invalidate others. I find it boring.

I always have.

My enemas are solo.

YES I DO prefer that over having someone else do it.

Have gotten a VERY FEW foreplay enemas from my husband.

EVERY functional enema I have ever taken since the age of 12 have been completely self administered.

Before that, from the time I started getting 2-qt bag enemas I have done the insertion and valve opening by myself.

I received my first enema from my mother when I was 5 or 6 years old. Since then the majority of my enemas have been self administered. I have on occasion found some gorgeous ladies to assist. They too were into enemas. Unfortunately they were into it for financial gain but I still thoroughly enjoyed my time with them. From the clear silicone bag to the JBL sit on, we had some fantastic times. One of the ladies was REALLY into anal sex. We had some wonderful time

To me, sharing enemas with @sirensong is the only way I like to have enemas. I want and need her to be involved in some way - laying out the enema bag with the nozzle of HER choice, undressing me, watching me, inserting the nozzle, or fully administering. @LisaK , I like doing foreplay enemas with Sirensong ….. the sex afterward is wonderful! I'm so sorry that you don't have that experience more often with your husband - have you invited him?

I too self-administer nearly all the time but can say with certainty that enemas given in a role play scenario revolving around discipline, the process can be simply incredibly exciting. From the volume administered to the agonizing retention time he/she requires the recipient to endure, the building anticipation makes it an orgasm of the ages! The usual fullness feeling is the same but giving up control of your bowels to someone who is delightfully stern (as one scenario) is just delicious! In person administrators are, of course, more exciting but even phone sex dommes can exact such torments in most exquisite ways. The rest of the time, solos have the advantage of being able to be done impromptu as the opportunity allows, leaving the scenario to the imagination. But, like pizza, there's no such thing as a bad enema!

I've always liked sharing, but my circumstances have often dictated solo. Since my focus is giving, sharing is pretty much necessary if I'm doing that.

I have been giving myself enemas for pleasure and sometimes pleasure/pain since my early teens. I have only given one to a reluctant but curious college boyfriend and received one time from a guy I was showing off my double balloon catheter (a story for another day). In both cases, I found I did not really enjoy sharing something so intimate and naughty. Wondering if anyone else felt this way?

@play7399, As far as NOT liking to share, I can see how this might happen (ex thought my kinks were “evil and perverted”), but I hope that you find a true partner who fits perfectly into all your “kinks.” That can be difficult, I know, but still…the benefits are great, if other things “fit,” and you have a truly good relationship. I've read a lot from posters here whose lives have been made complete because they and their partners “fit.”

My enema experiences have all been solo thus far! If I knew a discreet drug free clean individual either male or female close by, I would be open to share the experience!

I have been a solo enema taker since the age of twelve. I tried to get my wife to enjoy enemas, but she did not. However, she did not argue with my taking enemas solo. I find that I actually like that. I still get excited when I pull my bag from the back of the bathroom door and go through the ritual of warming filtered water, adding Bonner's peppermint soap to the water, and filling the bag with that solution. I can fanaticize that someone else is lubricating my anus, sliding my colon tube into my rectum, and opening the stopcock to allow the flood of soapy water to enter my intestines.

As far as preference goes, I must say that sharing is by far the best. Being able to relax and enjoy the sensations of an enema, while someone else is taking care of business, is certainly a heavenly thing. I have done thousands of enemas “solo”. It was the best option when younger or having nobody else in a position to be of assistance.

I've had many enemas with assistance from various persons. Those in an intimate or sexual setting have always been wonderful. Those in a clinical or medical setting were also very comfortable and effective. I've also been privileged to receive enemas, coupled with massage, in a therapeutic setting that were also wonderful, but neither intended or likely to include a “happy ending”. The point is, I really love enemas and will be satisfied in most situations.

In a couple of instances, those enemas and massage were arranged by a wonderful friend here on Zity. The agreement and understanding were discussed in advance, and adhered to. While I admit that my toes curled and involuntary reactions were in high gear, the arrangements were mutually beneficial and respectful of each others desired results. The biggest challenge is finding therapeutic enemas and massage within the usual day spas and clinics.

I have posted before about platonic arrangements. The sensual/sexual undertones can be managed but are undeniable. Many seek a mentor, or someone to practice with, but romance or romantic commitment are not feasible. I say, let's enjoy our enemas and massage for what they accomplish therapeutically. For those who desire a LTR or romantic fling, best wishes in finding all that you desire. Back in the “Golden Years”, it seems that our moms, grandmas, and neighbors could provide such services amongst themselves. Maybe I was oblivious to other intentions or arrangements.

I always prefer it when my wife gives me a nice big enema with a big ass nozzle. A fat 10-in nozzle preferred but I still have no problem giving the same to myself when she is not around.

When I was driving semi back in the seventies and eighties, I spent three nights a week away from home in a motel. You can bet that I took a lot of enemas during the night that satisfied my sexual desire. I smoked a little weed along the way to slow down the time. I gave myself multiple enemas at the motel and a lot of masturbation was done. Those years were the best of my life is I could do and take multiple enemas when no one is around. I jerked off multiple times during the night at the motel. I never got the required sleep as I always had a nozzle and water up my ass during my down time. Best years of my life. Go figure…

@Cannot_get_enough when i relocated to California i was in temporary housing for 6 weeks…. and it was just like your road trip… lots of enemas, a huge vibrating butt plug, and cum everywhere. 😃 It was the most amazing 6 weeks …. and when i used to travel for work it was the same thing…. lots of enemas and lots of jerking off … nothing like the privacy of your own hotel room for some really good enemas.

Pretty much solo…for 60 yrs….but going to my local colon therapist, who offers enemas series….found that a caring giver is really nice….but at $100…..not economically satisfying.

Would love not to be solo reciever….. 😃

For most of my life I have been a solo player when it comes to enemas. Occasionally, hubby will be involved when we're having a “play date” and/or one of us seriously needs an enema and has asked the other for help. Otherwise, most all of my enemas are enjoyed alone. I consider it my time and my indulgence into something that soothes me, delights me and thrills me all at the same time. Hubby's presence isn't always needed for my enema time to be fulfilling…in more ways than one!

Have fun and play safe!

Deb

I'm in agreement, debgurl. My hub and I do very often involve enemas in our couple sex, but there is something precious about that one-on-one me-on-me time, just me with my bag and my solo enema routine. Despite a very satisfactory couple sex relationship there is a lust that is best satisfied by me alone with me with a belly full of water.

I am mostly solo

I have had a partner every now and then

The encounters more that just pleasurable, the sharing was awesome

I hope i can share again some day, but until then it will be solo

I am almost completely flying solo on enemas but would much prefer to have a partner to give and take the enemas. By only having myself, the ability to relax is completely gone. And sharing would be lovely.

There are a number of issues to consider for successful enedates.

Do you have similar interests?

Are you both having the same goals?

Do you really wish to please each other?

Do they solo and have own equipment?

Will you have sex?

Have you met before casually and both feel positive energy?

What concerns do each have?

There may be others. But having both of your thoughts out in the open does build a relationship. Feeling mutually energetic is a key element. Good Luck!

Things may be about to change for me… I recently admitted to my (equally sexually charged) sister that I have enjoyed getting enemas for as long as I can remember. We both got a lot of them from mom but never together and usually never discussed. I'll be visiting her in a few months and it's currently unclear exactly how far things will go but I am anticipating a good time.

I’ve been solo since about age 11. After 60+ years I don’t think that will change. I have gone from occasional enemas to daily enemas and now back to at least one nice session a week. I’ve ventured through the gamut of solutions, water temps, nozzles, colon tubes and volumes clear to 7 qts , but now really comfy with 2 to 4 qts. I really would like to explore what some of those nozzles from SiliconeNozzles.com. Maybe someday soon.

Enemas were always combined with some solo playtime but that has dwindled with age a bit and just thoroughly enjoy the entire enema experience from prep to that light feeling after the session is over and I’m all emptied out.

It has all been good!

You make do with what/who is available.

I enjoy solo, partly because I haven’t found someone with the same kink. I like to keep this passion secret, so it’s solo.

I do enjoy enemas for years ago and mostly i gave myself solo (only few times given my GF). Few times i also reciened an enema under dominant's supervision online.

Aside from my mother and sometimes my aunt while I was a kid, I have had enemas given to me by both female and a male. I have thoroughly enjoyed the enemas given to me by other people as an adult. I have also given myself numerous solo enemas as an adult over the years.

I will admit that there are times that, although my female friend will give me an enema pretty much anytime I need or ask, I actually sometimes do prefer to do it solo.

Solo is great when I really just need an enema. When I haven't been ‘going’ well for a while, and when I really need to sit and take my time, after and between enemas.

When I have solo enemas, I never feel any rush to finish up on the toilet. I feel free to do multiple enemas when I feel like I need to do more than one, instead of feeling like my female friend might feel slighted if too much time is spent on me getting enemas rather than moving on to “other” things to do naked with each other.

When what I need is one or two (or more) enemas to just help things out, I often do prefer solo. And I will usually add a little “me time” masturbation to those also, always makes taking an enema even better.

@edwasss I have had enemas given to me by both female and a male. I have thoroughly enjoyed the enemas given to me by other people as an adult. I have also given myself numerous solo enemas as an adult over the years.

Sounds a bit like me, though the vast majority of my enemas were solo - since I took so many over the years.. One thing with partners; my needs never seemed to fully match their interests as much as I would have liked. I did enjoy them, that's for sure, so definitely no regrets - but always left with some frustration, or wishing for something more.. Such is life, as they say…

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Not preferable except I do enjoy the complete control I have over the enema so I can get exactly what I want that day, but for excitement and satisfaction the best is always having a deeply trusted Domme IRL giving it to me like my last two exes, both experts, with me as their deeply submissive very vocal enema sub, making use she hears and sees everything she's doing to me to increase both our satisfactions. Not knowing exactly how far she'll push my volume, distention, retention and humiliating tasks that day, and providing her with her listening to her beloved moans, groans, complaining and begging from me is just the very best enema there is. And occasionally she likes to switch and enjoy me "paying her back" with our consensually intense enemas she begs me to give her to heighten her orgasms. Heaven both ways.

Eric

I'm solo except on very rare occasions. I enjoy the time alone and the good feelings of a warm soapy enema series. Sometimes a series doesn't happen due to time constraints but a single bag is still so good.