Anal training

Ok, I searched for this specific topic before before creating a new thread, so I trust it is ok to start a new chat here.

During lockdown i am trying to train my asshole so it's more flexible and easier for me to be penetrated deep by a dick when we are all allowed out again...

I would be grateful for some tips though - can you stretch the anus so far that incontinence is an issue? How often and what should I be training with?

Thanks in advance all!

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Butt plugs and dildos can help. Start at a size you’re comfortable with and gradually work your way up. Use plenty of lube and take your time.

Thanks so much @ThongNaturist, i have been using a slim vibrator for about 20 mins, 3 times a week for the last month and can feel progress. I guess I'm just worried about becoming too loose. Has that happened to anyone?

Thanks so much @ThongNaturist, i have been using a slim vibrator for about 20 mins, 3 times a week for the last month and can feel progress. I guess I'm just worried about becoming too loose. Has that happened to anyone?

It might feel “open” for a little while but like any muscle if you slowly stretch it will return to its normal size.

@ThongNaturist said:

It might feel “open” for a little while but like any muscle if you slowly stretch it will return to its normal size.

Agree with @ThongNaturist - There's another thread on "Butt Stretching - 3.5 inches and beyond" that was started in 2010 and discusses how you can stretch you anus out - and if you do it slowly over time you won't hurt the muscles and they will return to normal - not become leaky. You might find some good information there as well!

https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=316813;mark=Butt+Stretching

You could also try a good quality inflatable butt plug. Pop it in an out until there's little no no resistance while both clenching and relaxed. Add a pump or two and repeat.

Even with a good sturdy inflatable eventually it will get to the point where it's not solid enough to easily push back in while inflated, at that point move onto solid toys of increasing diameter.

... can you stretch the anus so far that incontinence is an issue?

... I have never heard that incontinence has become a problem in this context.

I know from another form of an anal training: In the case that an effective laxative will do its job you will have to realize your anal training in such a manner that you will be able to avoid any leakage.

During lockdown i am trying to train my asshole so it's more flexible and easier for me to be penetrated deep by a dick when we are all allowed out again...

Given you want to be able to have sex with a man and be penetrated, then I would recommend getting various size dildos and begin practicing to see how each size feels. And when I mean size I would pay more attention to the girth measurement (diameter or circumference) to gauge size. You should be able to start with something that is 1 inch in diameter and have no problem. A good many dildos have 1.5 inch diameters and that might take some practice, but you should be able to take that size with only a few practice sessions. If you can easily handle 1.5 inches, then move up to a 1.75 inch diameter dildo. From there if you get all the way up to a 2 inch diameter dildo, you should be able to handle the vast majority of the men you might have sex with. Also I would stick with dildos that are called "true feel" or "realistic." I would stay away from the "jelly" type of dildos, which are made with chemicals that can be very irritating to your anus and rectum. The best dildos I have found are the ones that have a firm inner core and a soft flexible outer layer. These dildos are the most realistic that I have found and are definitely easier to comfortably insert.

A word about depth or length of the dildo. Choosing dildos that are 6+ inches in length shouldn't be a problem as long as your rectum is clean or been cleared out. By clean I mean giving yourself enemas even when practicing with dildos or before having anal sex. I have found that after I have had several enemas my ass is much more relaxed and able to take my largest dildos.

Many great answers are given. I like to add in regards to stretching to far and loose your "tight" hole, I can take 3 inch diameter or +/- 10 inch in circumference, and believe it or not, when I start my enema's, that little 1/4 inch plastic tube/pipe needs lube the second or third time in. 😃

Of course after playing for about 3 hours I will be a little "open" but I think in about 30 minutes maybe, its as close as it can be.

But start slow, and use lube, lube, lube.

Thank you all so much - I really appreciate you taking the time to answer so fully, I have loads to think about!!

I'm gay and a total bottom, so i have been penetrated a lot (really).

For me there's a psychological side to it. i'm receptive and my anus is my primary sex organ. i actually had what i call a "subtle Dom" who met with me for over a year and "trained" my hole. i didn't realize till later what He was doing, i just thought He was anally obsessed (He was), but i didn't realize that part of that obsession was to open, mold and put His "mark" on my hole. He was slow and patient, so much so that i didn't realize what He was doing till i got there. For me though, when i realized it, i was thrilled and loved Him deeply for putting a part of Himself, molding me, 'marking' me?

After He had accomplished what He wanted, He told me that He had changed my hole to be more of a place to receive a Mans penetration than to retain waste. And it's true. i don't leak and i haven't lost my muscle tone, but when i have to go, i have to make an effort to retain... and i can, but i have to make the effort. On the other hand, it's not hard for me to receive a Man's penetration.

Every time i have to go, i feel a sort of thrill thinking of His "mark" and how He molded me. It does go with my psychology.

Thanks in advance all!

During lockdown I am trying to train my asshole so it's more flexible and easier for me to be penetrated deep by a dick when we are all allowed out again. I would be grateful for some tips though - can you stretch the anus so far that incontinence is an issue? How often and what should I be training with?

Get the book, "Anal Pleasure and Health" by Jack Morin. It will tell you everything you need to know about solo anal training.

Anal training is not a race. Do what works and feels best for your body.

A positive experience in the beginning, enables positive and pleasurable experiences for long long time.

Anal training is not a race. Do what works and feels best for your body.

A positive experience in the beginning, enables positive and pleasurable experiences for long long

Good advice.

My wonderful colon hydrotherapist, also a RN working in a colo-rectal ward in a big hospital has always countenanced pleasure not pain. She has seen too many over exercised sphincters and warned that a mended one was never as strong as the original.

My experience is many years of anal stimulation with progressively larger things. But for seriously anal training I found that getting the biggest thing you can get in comfortably then leaving it in for as long as you can

Maybe this video will be of some help for you.

https://xhamster.com/videos/anal-play-101-an-intro-for-anal-curious-ladies-12709456

Enjoy

Me and my wife joined anal sex since many years. She first started to stretch her anus with different small and large dildos before we tried it real for the first time. After first insertion she meant that it was not nessesary to prepair it before. She felt my penis much easier slip in that all the toys and plugs. So we think its very important to take much time and much lube, but also a big comfort of both, and also a good mood and deep feeling. Let your partner go in a little bit, then pull out. Let him pet or lick your anus and than repeat inserting for a little bit deeper. Wait until you relax yourself, let him lube and pet again until you order him to insert a third time. Take allways the control. After some turns you will be able to let him insert his complete penis, but very very slowly. At least you can absolutely relax and join. A real dick is more sensitive that all plugs and dildos.

Https://de.xhamster.com/videos/marilyn-chambers-guide-to-anal-sex-3215785

Look how easy a real penis slips in, much easier than a anal plug.

There is always discussion on what to use as a lube. Well, I have a new one

That puts all of the rest to shame. If you go to the women's personal items in the supermarket, you might find a small box called QUEEN V. It a replacement for vaginal lube. This stuff is water soluble and is about the slickest stuff I’ve ever felt. I’m sure that the coefficient of friction is in the minus column. A few drops of this stuff and you are ready for action!

Https://de.xhamster.com/videos/marilyn-chambers-guide-to-anal-sex-3215785

Nice demo, I could rim her ass for hours! 😜

Oldie but goldie!I forgot I saw this waaaaay ago.

Tennessee21, check this out, it looks promising: https://www.odiletoys.com/

Adjustable with a turn of the key from 1" to 1.5". On sale for $89 (Pre Order).....a bit pricey, but the first adjustable plug I've ever seen.

Have fun,

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I have been in to anal insertion for many many years. I love the feeling of being stretched. Recently I bought a Giant Ribbed Anal Cone and love it. Due to the small starting size I think this may be good for beginners wanting to stretch a little more. Each rib gives a pleasurable sensation as is pops in and out. You can work it in and out slowly to stretch gently. I will link a product, but you can buy them from several different places. Love mine https://www.extremerestraints.com/giant-ribbed-anal-cone.html

I read the Story Of O and her anal training makes sense. But honestly over the years I don’t think I am any more able to take something large in my ass than I was as a preteen when I fucked myself with my hairbrush handle. And I’ve had a few girlfriends try. I think three fingers is the most my tender little anus has ever taken. One girlfriend tried over and over with her big black buttplug and lots of KY but we couldn’t get it all the way in.

Sorry that I don’t have any good advice.

Check out the anal trainer plugs that silicone nozzles sells. They have a 5 size set that starts off at either .5 inches or .75 inches I forget which and goes up to 2.0 inches. If your just looking to make anal sex easier 2.0 inches is plenty. Stick one in every day before and during your shower. Make sure to post a gallery to show your progress 😈

As far as incontinence, yes it is possible. However you would really have to stretch the anus well beyond 2.0 inches. Probably even more than 4 or 5 inches.

My wife has been fisting my butt for 20 years now at age 65 we still do it about two times a month. We started with small dildos and worked our way up to a fist , I still do my Foley Catheter for fun sometimes all week until I do a good enema getting ready for her fist and arm… It’s nice being retired I can just chill all week, just me and my Foley until my butt is ready…go slow and enjoy. Be safe…… I have been very lucky, no medical problems and my colonoscopy has been good so far….

I haven't had good anal sex in a while but I finger my ass daily in the shower dreaming of a warm dick.