Taking the strap

I have two ladies i service with enemas and with spankings they ask for.

I certainly enjoy spanking their bare bottoms, and because I’m also going to give them a series of enemas each, I take my time fingering their butt holes, inspecting their clits and labia and getting them as wet and horny as possible.

If I haven’t made them cum with my efforts, I make them openly masturbate as I film them.

I’m a lucky guy.

My mother used her oval oak hair brush to raise three boys. pretty much by herself. When I was 14 my mom remarried. She turned over discipline to my step dad. As an Electrical Contractor. He had big calloused hands. When you got a bare bottom spanking, just using his hands made uyour ass bright red and hurting If you were really .naughty he would take his strap down off his office wall. You would go to him in the basement where you would take all your chothes off and bend over his high stool he used for special projects he was working on.Then he would strap your naughty bare bottom till it was bright red and welted. Then you were told to go upstairs and stand in a corner in the living room so anyone who comes over for a visit will see just how naughty you were. . I tried my best to be a good boy. That strap really hurt.

My mother used her oval oak hair brush to raise three boys. pretty much by herself. When I was 14 my mom remarried. She turned over discipline to my step dad. As an Electrical Contractor. He had big calloused hands. When you got a bare bottom spanking, just using his hands made uyour ass bright red and hurting If you were really .naughty he would take his strap down off his office wall. You would go to him in the basement where you would take all your chothes off and bend over his high stool he used for special projects he was working on.Then he would strap your naughty bare bottom till it was bright red and welted. Then you were told to go upstairs and stand in a corner in the living room so anyone who comes over for a visit will see just how naughty you were. . I tried my best to be a good boy. That strap really hurt.

Wow, you had a really strict upbringing, DST! Was that typical of how kids in general were brought up then? How did it compare with the way your friends and acquaintances were punished?

From a very young age, my parents (mostly my father) taught my sisters and me that, when the final decision had been made to administer discipline, we were expected/required to "take" (accept) our punishment properly!

My dad may have said something like, "Go and wait for me in my workshop. You're gonna _GET_ the strap, young man/lady." But, when he arrived in the workshop to tan our hides, he almost always said something like, "Okay, young man/lady. It's time to accept your punishment(s). Get naked, get over the sawhorse, and _TAKE_ the strap like a man/woman!"

My dad never said "Take it like a man" or anything like that while spanking me. He used to say things like "Maybe this will teach you to behave yourself in future".

He used to say things like "Maybe this will teach you to behave yourself in future".

I really have to wonder what kind of things that were done by children were so heinous and depraved that they warranted such abusive physical punishment. What can young children do that is so wrong?

In reading about such punishment here I haven't really read much about the specifics they were handed out for. One has to wonder what causes some parents to overreact in this abusive manner.

In reading about such punishment here I haven't really read much about the specifics they were handed out for. One has to wonder what causes some parents to overreact in this abusive manner.

They probably learned it from their parents, or they have taken a literal interpretation from the bible.

Whoever spares the rod hates their children (Proverbs 13:24a); If you punish (children) with the rod, they will not die (Proverbs 23:13b); A rod and a reprimand impart wisdom (Proverbs 29:15a).

For some, these are verses that have become “proof-text” for their own use and support of corporal punishment. For others, they are reason enough to dismiss the bible’s teaching, altogether.

@agracier

Spanking was par for the course in the 1970s. Nobody said it was abuse then, so why do people call it abuse now? On the other hand, if it really IS abuse, why didn't people call it abuse then? Which view is the absolute truth?

I was brought up in the 50’s and my parents did not use spanking as a form of discipline. We got timeouts, loss of privileges or extra chores. Spanking wasn’t necessarily the “norm” back then.

Societal norms change over time. We don’t put people in pillories anymore nor do we do public floggings and whippings - at least in most countries. Those punishments were once the norm, now they are considered abusive and cruel. Things change!

Spanking was par for the course in the 1970s. Nobody said it was abuse then, so why do people call it abuse now? On the other hand, if it really IS abuse, why didn't people call it abuse then? Which view is the absolute truth?

My parents never used physical punishments. And my father came from the Deep South of the US where, one would have thought, spankings and wuppings were the traditional means of raising kids. And I am talking about the 1950s and 60s.

Not to be dramatic about things in the past, but there were horrid socially accepted practices in the past that people already knew were wrong and unjust back then, but which they still continued doing or allowed to happen.

Never remember it being called a strap . But I did get the belt . Dad never spanked use. Mom did use his belt. She would tell you to pull your pants and underwear down and pop that naked butt back of your legs 3 to 5 times in a roll

Mother allways inserted soap before a punishment corner time after spanking my mother used hand when i was small as got older went to her woden hair brush or wooden kitchen spoon as got to teens used tawse after corner time still holding soapin bottom get enema flush out bad behaviour

Societal norms change over time. We don’t put people in pillories anymore nor do we do public floggings and whippings - at least in most countries. Those punishments were once the norm, now they are considered abusive and cruel. Things change!

Why couldn't those things have changed 60 years ago?

I bought a two-tailed tawse a couple years ago because I liked the way they look and their history. I couldn't imagine they were much more painful than any other kind of strap. Boy! was I wrong! Not only does it smart like Hell across the hands (where I understand they were mostly used) or across the butt. I don't know why it should hurt so much more but it seems to. I'd love to hear from anyone who has first hand recipient experience with a tawse.

Why couldn't those things have changed 60 years ago?

They could have, but they didn't for everyone. My parents didn't spank some 65 years ago. Sometimes change takes time - there are an ad nauseam number of examples:

Judicial corporal punishment (JCP) include caning, bastinado, birching, whipping, or strapping. The practice was once commonplace in many countries, but over time it has been abolished in most countries.

It also took a long time for women to be allowed to vote, or black people allowed to ride in the front of a bus....etc., etc., etc.

Why couldn't those things have changed 60 years ago?

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Judicial corporal punishment (JCP) include caning, bastinado, birching, whipping, or strapping. The practice was once commonplace in many countries, but over time it has been abolished in most countries.

It also took a long time for women to be allowed to vote, or black people allowed to ride in the front of a bus....etc., etc., etc.

Sometimes it takes a horrid, bloody war for things to change - just think of slavery. Some things are so obviously in need of change, yet still (often minority) parts of society oppose the change for any number of pig-head, obstinate reasons that defy all reason and rationality.

My dad would usually just say, it's time for the belt, or he would simply say, "that's it, take off your pants and underwear." I usually knew when I was going to get my regular spanking, but if I managed to piss him off, the instructions to take off my pants and underwear always sent a chill down my spine.

The strap at my schools in Scotland was referred to as “the belt”. At Primary School how often it was used or if, was determined on which teacher you had that year.

The belt was a leather custom made implement, the Lochgelly tawse, but we never gave it that Sunday name. It was always administered on the hands, with your hands raised and crossed one above the other. Some belted side on, just the palms, others face on up the fingers, palm and wrist.

At Secondary school you rotated around subjects. Some teachers preferred the slipper on the trousers or skirt. Slippering was a lesser punishment, often administered to a whole class. One swat for each mark wrong in a test for example.

Some teachers were renowned for corporal punishment others were known not to use it. When you got your timetable at Secondary you thought risk factor. With some teachers there was no doubt that you were going to get hit at some point.

My headmaster at Primary school had a display cabinet on the wall with the weapon of choice for each school age on display behind glass. There were different weights, lengths and number of tongs.

The headmaster and deputy heads used the heaviest belts available.

One of my teachers at Primary belted for getting the lowest score in a weekly spelling test. The most common reason for belting at Primary was for not walking to class side by side in a straight line. Every day we would hear boys taken out of line being belted for that in the stairwell.

Girls always got belted in private, usually in a teacher’s office, once I remember hearing the screams. Boys got belted in front of the class as a deterrent to others.

When I got a spanking it was across my mother's lap with my pants and underpants pulled down to my ankles and she used the back of her large wooden hairbrush until I was about 8 or 9 and got too big to fit across her lap. After that she would hold me face down over the edge of her bed with pants and underpants pulled down to my ankles and she used a wide leather belt doubled over to wallop my bare bottom until it was red and sore and I was crying hard. She never referred to it as "taking the strap". She just called it a spanking.

Growing up in the UK, it tended to be the cane that we got and not the strap. My parents had a cane which lived in the cupboard under the stairs, I only remember it coming out a few times and my mother destroyed when I was about 12, I guess she felt it wasn't needed any more!! At school discipline was the cane, though I know it's no longer allowed! We had a gym teacher who used his running shoe on bare backsides, thankfully, I managed to avoid that one!!

Growing up in the UK, it tended to be the cane that we got and not the strap.

In Scotland the strap/belt was way more common than the cane.

I’m a Dom and use a Canadian Prison Strap for punishment. The woman must go get the strap present it to me kiss it than assume the position I put her in.

In my cildhood home, it was "get the strap." And it was very much gotten a lot!

I posted back on #39 regarding a neighbor family where the razor strop was laid over the toilet tank in their bathroom. There was one boy and 3 girls all within range of my older sister and I. It wasn't that uncommon for us to hear the screaming and crying when one of them was being punished. Their apartment was across the breezeway from ours. In the aftermath, we were often made aware that one of the kids "got the strap".

In a story I posted years ago, I recall one instance where the older boy spied on his sister while she got an enema. When dad got home, Sonny was wailed on with the strap, and then given an extreme enema by mom. We could hear him getting admonished to never peek at his sisters in the bathroom. The girls were quick to share the events with us later.

My teasing of my sisters at enema time, diminished significantly afterward. I didn't get strapped, but a big soapy enema was pretty common.

I was told I “would be getting a spanking” or “getting the slipper”. There was a teacher who sometimes would say “do you want to take a thrashing?” as a threat, which he often carried out.

Severe punishment for children is a no. They may not even understand why. Consensual sexual spanking is a whole different thing. But unless agreed by both partners, strapping is not in my vocabulary for anyone

Toshe, I totally agree that such severe punishment is over the line. While I remember mom taking a flexible branch off of a particular tree/bush to use as a tool for spanking, the threat was adequate to alter behavior. When the neighbor kids were subjected to the strap, or razor strop, mom and grandma always commented that the punishment was outrageous. In some respects, I suspect that those girls were scared to death to somehow offend their dad. Their mom was obviously complicit, or at least scared also of her husband.

My family moved across town once a house was found that could be shared with my grandparents. It happens that the same family moved as well. Once I got to high school, one of the girls was in my same grade, and was in a couple of my classes. She was a pretty gal and I reminded her that we had lived adjacent to each other as kids. She seemed horrified that I remembered her and her family. She was very shy and well behaved and always gazed toward the floor. Her demeanor was such that I believed she was scared to interact with others, especially us guys.

In hindsight, I always believed that she was subjected to "the strap" as was all too common years before. I knew that enemas were also very common in her house as well as ours. Her sister and I had many discussions, and a few escapades, that involved playing doctor and nurse or mom and dad. I hope that she eventually found a mate and happiness!

Sse4fun, just have to send you a big hug on your ending, " I hope that she eventually found a mate and happiness!"

What a nice thing to say.

Linda

Thanks Linda! As I've aged and reflected on many issues of the past, I can't help but recall many of those circumstances and events that shaped my personality and behaviors. While I consider myself quite "normal", I've reconciled some of those unique traits that have brought me to this point in life. As we all recognize, we share some common desires and inclinations and have found fetishes and paraphilias that others may not indulge in, but are certainly an aspect of their own upbringing and interests.

In my childhood, corporal punishment including whipping, strapping, bare bummed spanking, and beatings, seemed to be quite common. The phrase "taken to the woodshed" was also used often. I'm glad that I wasn't subjected to some of those horrors, although I sometimes believed those soapy enemas and mouth soapings were as bad as things could get.

For those who may now enjoy some degree of physical punishment, have fun, be cautious, but don't subject your kids to these extremes!

BTW...I absolutely love those enemas...go figure!

@Becky440 -- I'm honored to have started the thread in which, as a new member you've made your first post:

"In my cildhood home, it was "get the strap." And it was very much gotten a lot!"

I look forward to seeing more posts from you and welcome.

Tom