Rectal temperatures | Men being submissive during a…

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Have you noticed how men get very submissive during a rectal temp taking?

At least this is my experience with my BF.

I notice he's not eating well and he seems a bit tired. "What's wrong, baby?“ I ask as I walk up to him and push his hair out of his forehead," Let me feel you." I press my hand against his forehead and whether he feels hot or not I say “You feel a little warm, honey. Go to bed, I need to take your temperature."

He will argue that he feels fine but I insist that we really need to have him checked. So after a bit of protests he goes and sits down on the bed. I head for the bathroom and retrieve the things I need, the glass thermometer (I prefer Geratherm), a bottle of baby oil and some tissues. He takes off his pants and I instruct him to lay down on his tummy. He does so, reluctantly. I sit down next to him and as he looks nervously over his shoulder, he sees me shaking down the thermometer. He doesn't like to have his fever measured. At this point he is protesting and saying that he doesn't want me to take it "the baby way". He even tears up a little at the sight of the rather big thermometer. I pat his bottom and explain him that it's the most accurate way and that it's not gonna hurt. I push his shirt up a little and tell him to lift his middle so I can pull his undies down a little, only to his thighs.

Then I dip the tip of my finger inside the baby oil and carefully spread his cheeks with my other hand until I can see his quivering little hole. I lube him on the outside and then gently press the tip of my finger inside his anus. He tenses up at this and I have to explain that I'm just applying a bit of oil so it won't hurt when I put the fever thermometer inside. He is so tight back there and so hot. It wouldn't surprise me if he did have a fever. Once he is well oiled, I remove my finger and grab the thermometer. I give it a few more shakes and then spread his cheeks again. "Just relax, baby and hold still for me." I press the metal tip against his hole and gently push the thermometer inside. He whimpers and whines as I do this. "I don't like it", he protests. I still manage to put it in its place. "I know, honey, it will just take a few minutes ok?". I hold the thermometer in place so he won't push it out and my free hand rubs his back and his cheeks soothingly.

And suddenly he's gone completely still. No protests, no whining, and no squirming anymore. He just lays there very still and quiet and lets me do what I have to do. He's become completely submissive. Its so unlike him that I actually become worried and I use my free hand to feel his forehead once again. It does feel a little warm and his cheeks look a little flushed. Maybe its because he is a little embarrased, or maybe he does actually have a bit of a fever. We're about to know.

I take a look at the thermometer that sticks out from his bottom and I can see the mercury line rising. "Two more minutes, sweetheart." I say. I keep rubbing his back and praising him for being so good and letting me do this.

After three minutes I ask him to breathe in deeply as I take the thermometer out. As soon as he feels its out, he rolls on his back. I hold the thermometer against the light. 100,8 *F.

"Oh sweetie, you do have a bit of a fever." I tell him. “Let me clean you up." I put the thermometer aside and grab a tissue. Since he is on his back, I hold his ankles and lift his legs up in the air and push them slightly towards his chest. I carefully wipe his bum and then pull his undies up.

He gets into his PJs and into bed. I leave the thermometer on the nightstand, knowing I will have to check his temp in a few hours again. If he still has a fever before bedtime I will probably have to give him a suppository.

If you like, I can tell you about that one later.

beebe

Very enjoyable story. I found myself daydreaming it was all happening to me. For me, I become instantly submissive when I find myself in a situation where my wife is playing with my ass. It could be anything. Rectal temps, enemas, prostate massages, butt plugs, fingers, or her just spreading my ass checks and massaging my anus. Anything I may have been thinking about up to that moment is forgotten and I do whatever she has in mind. I happily go to a special place, for my submission is reciprocal to her wishing to please me. She enjoys what she is doing as much as I. Arttemp mentioned submission as ”therapeutic.” I absolutely agree. Men and woman have their hands full in this world. Between work and just navigating everyday life, a brief moment of pure submission in any sexual form not only brings partners closer, it also makes life more enjoyable.

OverRainbow

For me it’s not about being submissive. I have always preferred the rectal temperature method and still do now.

Many times I have requested rectal measurements and the majority of the times those requests were honored. So again for me it’s not really being submissive. When the procedure is done the only thing is being compliant with the nuances of the individual taking the temperature such as how to position myself or if I am asked to remove my pants or lower my underwear.

I will say for me it’s more complying and making it easier for the procedure to be done.

Some may interpret that ( complying) as being submissive. That’s ok.

Passivetemp

Interesting post. This was indeed the case for me, be it a temperature at home or at the pediatrician's office. There were always butterflies once I knew this was ahead, but I accepted without a fuss. I would grow quiet as I was instructed to turn onto my tummy and then even more so once the thermometer was inserted.

rigid58

I guess all men have different reasons for being submissive, In my situation I am the owner of a company and like today I was hit with a multitude of decisions, about a variety of circumstances, its 1;30 pm and I am just getting to have my second cup of coffee for the day. When my wife was well and I would come home from a day like today and she would want to attend to me, I would always protest that I did not want to have her ministrations forced on me, she would continue until I would accept the attention (give in) the protests were my way I guess to retain my dominant position but underneath I was willing to give in because it relieved a great deal of stress, and I really enjoyed it. For me by giving in and accepting someone else making decisions for me was a relief and usually very pleasant, as was all of the attention that came with it.

Brbr

If you are submitting to a rectal temperature, whether it is a man or a woman, I think the operative word is submitting. It is a visceral experience to take someone's temperature as well as submitting to it. Allowing another person take your rectal temperature when there are other ways of doing it is saying something about the trust between those two people. That being said, medically there is no more accurate and reliable method than rectally.

JJM

I’m not sure that submission, which implies being passive, is an apt term, regardless of gender. Unless you’re being forcefully held down, against your will, you are best off lying still , while the thermometer is registering. Even an oral temperature would be handled that way. Doing acrobatics, might cause problems.

ruthiney

My normally talkative husband ggets VERY quiet when I Vaseline mom's old thermometer!

redbag1914

I have a married guy that I play with on occasion and I usually start out by taking a nice shower with him soaping his nice little butt up getting him ready. Than I lead him into the bedroom make him lay on the bed on his betlly telling I am going to give him a nice massage but I have to take his rectal temp first he get's real submissive as i get the glass therometer out wipe it down with alchol and than dip it in the jar of vaseline I proceed to put a big glob of vaseline on my finger and separate his cheeks and apply the vaseline to his quivering rectum i rum his hole and get him to relax as I slide my finger in deep making sure he is ready for the glass rod I slowly start pushing the rod up his tight little hole as he moans with pleasure than I hold his cheeks together for a few minutes than pull it out and tell him I think he needs a nice warm enema and proceed with that watching him push his ass up in the air for the nozzle to slide in nice and easy as I push it all the way in he moans and tells me how weird but good it feels than I release the clamp and listen to him start to beg to shut it off. It's a great scene and get's us both off and than we get up pour us a good drink and relax.

MarcNY

I think we all tend to get a bit submissive when we have to turn over for the ole rt. It goes with the territory

1970sboy

I'm a bit of a phenomenologist – please forgive the philosophical tone here, if you're looking for something more erotic.

After having observed my responses to:

RT / enemas (Precisely this dynamic of the active male turning passive quiet, and receptive during penetration, his attention totally focused on the voluptuousness of losing control and being TOUCHED down there)

spanking/discipline

anesthetic “knock-out” stuff

wrestling holds

Hypnosis

Looking at the matter abstractly,

I think the dynamic I have to deal with is a fetishization of TONIC IMMOBILITY. Both my parents were keen on being able to put me in a position in which my personality was “out of the room,” so that dissociation was all too common for me as a kid. That is erotic for me now, putting someone else in that state. Which is a hell of a thing to have to write about, as most people find that degree of loss of control profoundly creepy. Still, we google what we google, and it's better to have the thing out front, discussed, and understood, rather than causing pain and confusion, denial and obsession. But again, it's a shitty thing to have, and to have to try to understand.

-1970's boy.

Badboypatient

At first I always resisted verbally and physically by not wanting to cooperate but then once pushed and held down, and felt it slipping in, I was afraid to move. The only way I could rebel was squeezing my anus and pushing out with my anus which was uncontrollable, ( a natural reaction?) that I couldnt help doing.

Bucket

Laying there waiting for it to happen, not being able to see because I'm face down. Then I hear her popping the lid off the jar of vaseline and I know it won't be long before I feel my cheeks being parted and we all know what happens next. I bury my face in the pillow and try to stay quiet, depending on how long it was kept in

Badboypatient

1970sboy THats a very deep and sensible assessment. Rings true for me. Thank you for that insight- I agree. It is interesting to speculate on and hear the opinions of others. Thank you again. I know I have that very stunned, overwhelmed and concentrating on the feeling and being in a rare state of mind.

gabistillgetsit

My husband also gets very quiet whenever I take his rectal temperature. I guess that men can be submissive, like I am!

Browser

Yes, they can. I am looking for a woman in Massachusetts that likes taking rectal temps, etc.

agracier

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My husband also gets very quiet whenever I take his rectal temperature. I guess that men can be submissive, like I am!

Maybe being quiet isn't so much an indication of being submissive, but more an indication that he is enjoying the situation and retreating into his inner mind and private fantasies and imagining them in his imagination.

Vicki V

@gabistillgetsit My husband also gets very quiet whenever I take his rectal temperature.

@ruthiney My normally talkative husband ggets VERY quiet when I Vaseline mom's old thermometer!

Yours too!! I’ve hardly ever heard a word from my husband. He’s had to be really ill for me to take a rectal, but he gets quiet alright. Beforehand, though, he’ll lie there and argue that he’ll be OK. Yeah, right. I’ve been the family “nurse“ for nearly 40 years, and I pretty much know if there's a need to use the Vaseline. Lol.

gabistillgetsit

Come to think of it, who really wants to talk during a rectal temp? I know that my brothers, sisters, and I did not say anything.

JJM

I think that the term “submissive,” needs to be clarified. Rectal temps. aren't gender-specific. You're either willing to have it taken rectally, or you're being forced into it…i.e., psychiatric hospital patients before scanners came along. I don't imagine that anyone on a rectal temp. forum, would oppose having a significant other sliding a lubed thermometer into their butthole.

Mullanphy

I doubt I've ever had my temperature checked rectally. After careful consideration, I am convinced, however, that if confronted as described, I'd request some gentle in/out teasing. Just to soften the blow - ya' know?

bratwurst

In other animals there is often a conflict resolution when one assumes a ‘submissive’ position to the dominant. We do that too: nodding the head, bowing, kneeling, then on the knees, placing head on the floor. How low can you go, submitting? By exposing yourself to someone and presenting your ass for penetration! Maybe one is quiet from the humiliation. Or an inferior isn't supposed to speak unless spoken to.