Moving to hiding things more

Thanks Susie for adding to the story. It sounds like your daughters were very mature for their age at the time of this big reveal. They approached your sexual paraphernalia like archeologists examining and noting their findings. Their reactions are very much in keeping with how you have described them in other posts here on zity. Based on their tepid reaction, I would say you really didn't have to keep your sex room locked up and hidden from their curious minds. They seemed to have taken it all in and moved on now knowing a bit more about their parents and their sexuality. Most kids I would imagine would have reacted in a very hysterical way leaving their parents embarrassed and dealing with a very awkward situation.

You and your husband raised two amazing daughters.

Thanks Susie for adding to the story. It sounds like your daughters were very mature for their age at the time of this big reveal. They approached your sexual paraphernalia like archeologists examining and noting their findings. Their reactions are very much in keeping with how you have described them in other posts here on zity. Based on their tepid reaction, I would say you really didn't have to keep your sex room locked up and hidden from their curious minds. They seemed to have taken it all in and moved on now knowing a bit more about their parents and their sexuality. Most kids I would imagine would have reacted in a very hysterical way leaving their parents embarrassed and dealing with a very awkward situation.

You and your husband raised two amazing daughters.

The girls weren't the only people we wanted to keep out of the equipment room. There are service people occasionally in the house, housekeepers, etc. We have a lot to hide from people who would not understand.

I wish my husband and I could take full credit for my daughters, but they were great kids and a pleasure to have as children.

I spent many hours looking for enema gear when mom wasen’t home, she hid it very well because if I found it it would be in my rectum and she knew it! I was beginning to think that she took it with her!

I bought our Ritter 100 exam table two years ago and successfully kept it hidden in my workshop area in our basement, from our oldest grown daughter that was still living with us

How is it even possible that she never saw your equipment? An exam table isn't exactly a small piece of furniture. Are you sure she just never said anything to you?

Some children/people are as curious as can be and essentially little sneaks, poking their nose into everything. Others aren't.

My son never seems to have expressed much interest in looking around the house or looking through my books or other things. I have a gazillion books in several rooms with lots, and seriously lots of erotic material/publications. I had expected some of these to go mysteriously missing for a time and then re-appear elsewhere. But this never happened. He's never taken anything or 'borrowed' books/magazines, never remarked on them. The same for my old medical equipment collection. Some is displayed, some just stored out of sight, but not really hidden.

He is just not a snoopy person or interested in erotica.

Now my sister on the other hand is a pathological snoop. She will go sniffing around everything in house, behind my back or even when i am home. She has rifled through books, piles of magazines while I was typing up something for her, as unconcerned as if it were all hers. I once made the mistake of giving her a key to look after the house when I was on vacation. Never again. She 'borrowed' all kinds of stuff that ended up at my parents house without them knowing where it came from. She never mentioned any of this until I asked and then she acted like all I had was our common property.

So that is just her personality: a snoop who thinks it is her right to do so.

Now that my Dad's Mom is 90 and has macular degeneration, she can no longer see well enough to snoop like she used to.

I consider that a good thing!

I think my wife told the story very well. Nothing embarrasses her. I can't say the same for myself. I was naked except for a leather hood, tied to a chair, being flogged. It was a very compromising position for a girl's father to be seen in. The girls always knew me as a forceful, authoritative and dominating man who always ran the show and got what he wanted, and there I was, naked and being whipped by a woman. I guess it demonstrated the strength that their mother has. Actually, none of the women in our family are to be trifled with--not my mother, my wife's mother or our two daughters.