Naked Night

Naked night seems to be evolving a bit. As so many people are doing right now, I am working from home. I am trying to stay healthy as I am in the high risk group. My husband and I generally shop early on Saturday or Sunday mornings. He likes to watch the "scenery" in the grocery store as I walk along in front of him and we point out ordinary items that could be used in kinky ways. We talk about the week and it is a time together that we enjoy!

Because of the COVID-19 situation, we don't think it is a good idea for me to go out. I could send him to the store with a list, but that is just no fun and I don't like him to have to go by himself. So we decided this past Thursday night to do naked shopping (online)! It was the first time we have used the order online and pick-up feature at the local Kroger. I powered up the laptop and we snuggled naked under the sheets. We went through the list of groceries clicking on this or that, and wondering if anything we put in the cart would actually be available. The store shelves here are still pretty bare of some items apparently. I would occasionally let my right hand wander down under the sheets and I would lightly tease him and fondle him. I would also lean over and let my breast rub against his cheek. He seemed to be very excited by the shopping trip! I never knew he liked online shopping so much. I think we will start doing our holiday shopping this way as well 😃

Our order was ready this afternoon and we were able to pick up our items. It was very different from our usual weekend experience. We will be doing more naked shopping in the coming week. We are going to work out some other things that we can do naked. None of it is really about the nakedness - it is so much more about the trust that I have to be vulnerable with him. Maybe this week we can do naked storytime!

I would occasionally let my right hand wander down under the sheets and I would lightly tease him and fondle him. I would also lean over and let my breast rub against his cheek.

So, he could actually concentrate on shopping?

I'm impressed.

So, he could actually concentrate on shopping?

I'm impressed.

Highly doubtful @Cedar , highly doubtful! 😉

I really doubt she wants her partner to concentrate on any shopping. 😈

Why was there a sheet anyway?

I am not sure if any local stores by me do the online shopping with the purchaser able to pick up his/her order. They typically deliver and charge for delivery, but I do love the concept of naked shopping, though focus on the task might be the issue.

@Sexy_Librarian. I just found this post this evening. I very much enjoyed reading it. Congratulations on the changes you have made, which I’m sure were challenging. Enjoy and thank you so much for sharing your journey.

Why was there a sheet anyway?

It's okay, @Dahiana. It was probably a bit chilly. It could just be the modesty level waxes and wanes.

I enjoy being naked all day whenever the kids go to their grandparents. My wife isn't interested in joining me so it is solo naked "night" for me.

I am not sure if any local stores by me do the online shopping with the purchaser able to pick up his/her order. They typically deliver and charge for delivery, but I do love the concept of naked shopping, though focus on the task might be the issue.

It all depends on the task @anng! All depends on the task! 😉

@Sexy_Librarian, I hope you will soon regale us with more adventurous tales of Naked Night.

I love that you have done this. It is exciting to hear how some couples evolve sexually the way you have. Kudos!

Naked night on Thursday night has slowly turned into naked EVERY night for a number of reasons. 1) Because there are no children in the house any more and we have the freedom to do what we want. 2) It is summer, hot, and humid. I find that I sleep much better when I am naked. 3. It turns my husband on having me naked. Even on nights when I am too tired to do anything except roll over and go to sleep, I know my nakedness is at work. I know that he is sneaking peaks at my body -- or just openly staring at my body (which he thinks is beautiful even though I no longer have the body that he married 30 plus years ago). I know that he is admiring my feet and legs and ass and breasts.

The air from the ceiling fan feels nice on my nakedness. The sheets feel lovely against my bare skin (sheet snob here - don't expect me to sleep on anything with less than a 1000 thread count! I also have a fuzzy blanket that he will drape over me as I fall asleep, and I always move it around just so to expose the most desirable parts. I like this teasing, and I don't think he minds it at all.

Some afternoons he texts me to tell me to be naked when he gets home. I always comply. He is in charge of me after all. He knows what is best for me.

I started working back at my office this last week or so and the change is not easy. I have to wear actual clothes, not shorts and a tee shirt like I have been doing for the last four months. So being out of my clothes when I get home just feels good. But it feels so much better knowing that he is looking. Touching. Nibbling on me as I drift off to sleep. Craving me.

I am almost always available to him. I am his for the taking, but on nights when I am just too tired, he just looks and fantasizes. I usually wake before he does in the mornings, and I will throw my naked leg over him. He will stir, but usually won't wake until I reach out and stroke him. If I can get him to wake up enough he gets a lovely treat before work. He won't typically shower on those mornings, because he wants to take the scent of me to work with him. I love knowing that I am able to turn him even when I am not physically present. I love that he has to "adjust his pants" at work.

I wish I had lived the previous years of my life with this growing lack of inhibition. I still have a long way to go on this journey, but I am getting more relaxed and more able to embrace my physical self, and acknowledge that I have desires (there was a time when I could not even do that). Reading what others on this site have written has helped a great deal with that.

Reading what others on this site have written has helped a great deal with that.

It is also something special about being able to come here and read about the thoughts of those you love when they think about you. It really is like being able to read someones mind.

So being out of my clothes when I get home just feels good. But it feels so much better knowing that he is looking. Touching. Nibbling on me as I drift off to sleep. Craving me.

He won't typically shower on those mornings, because he wants to take the scent of me to work with him. I love knowing that I am able to turn him even when I am not physically present. I love that he has to "adjust his pants" at work.

That is some pretty powerful stuff to put and keep a smile on your face.

This was an excellent post, @Sexy_Librarian.

I wish I had lived the previous years of my life with this growing lack of inhibition. I still have a long way to go on this journey, but I am getting more relaxed and more able to embrace my physical self, and acknowledge that I have desires (there was a time when I could not even do that). Reading what others on this site have written has helped a great deal with that.

@Sexy_Librarian, I will venture to say, you are EXACTLY where you are suppose to be, at EXACTLY the right time along your journey. You should have no regrets! The journey is the adventure and your's is a lovely one!

That was a beautiful post. What a lucky and blessed man your hubby is.

@Sexy_Librarian I very much enjoyed your post and would love to hear more from you. Please continue to keep posting. 🌹

I wish I had lived the previous years of my life with this growing lack of inhibition. I still have a long way to go on this journey, but I am getting more relaxed and more able to embrace my physical self, and acknowledge that I have desires (there was a time when I could not even do that). Reading what others on this site have written has helped a great deal with that.

My Mom felt the same way and when she really got into it she finally quit wishing she had started earlier and just went for it. I'm glad my husband and I are getting into it more and more but having kids really does make things a little complicated at times. Now we are stealing little moments here and there and quickies are something we are perfecting. It adds a little more excitement in "getting away" with something and it helps us to let go and be ourselves.

I think you and your husband will rock the "naked night every night" and never look back. ?

Some afternoons he texts me to tell me to be naked when he gets home. I always comply. He is in charge of me after all. He knows what is best for me.........

........,. I am almost always available to him. I am his for the taking, but on nights when I am just too tired, he just looks and fantasizes. I usually wake before he does in the mornings, and I will throw my naked leg over him. He will stir, but usually won't wake until I reach out and stroke him. If I can get him to wake up enough he gets a lovely treat before work. He won't typically shower on those mornings, because he wants to take the scent of me to work with him. I love knowing that I am able to turn him even when I am not physically present. I love that he has to "adjust his pants" at work.

Oh my!! What a lucky man!!

I really enjoyed your post @Sexy_Librarian! I look forward to following along on your journey.

@Sexy_Librarian

. . . I wish I had lived the previous years of my life with this growing lack of inhibition. I still have a long way to go on this journey, but I am getting more relaxed and more able to embrace my physical self, and acknowledge that I have desires (there was a time when I could not even do that). Reading what others on this site have written has helped a great deal with that.

I, and I suspect many other women, could live with regrets and wishing one had allowed herself the freedom from many inhibitions which held us back. Please know this is a journey for all of us and what matters most is that we are allowing ourselves to take steps on it now as we travel. It sounds like your husband very much appreciates you and your willingness to travel life (including whatever degree of kink is there) with him. ?

Just from my wife's ( @Dahiana ) and my own experience it is hard to find time when the kids are around. They always seem to know when "mommy and daddy" want some time alone and try their best to see that this is delayed. I've been lucky to have a wife who is pushy, nosy, straight to the point, and isn't afraid to call me out if I am too "dark". I am glad that she is such a pain in the ass because we are actually trying out some of my kink (enemas) and not put it off for later. But again the kids at home are a major factor in being able to do what we want when we want.

There's a pattern developing when I pounce on her while she is unloading the car after shopping and when the kids are inside. It's quick and fast and no frills but it is fun and we just do it. Naked night? I wish. Not with the kids around.

I liked reading your story but I think you are getting to where you need to be when you are supposed to be. I wouldn't be surprised if you start telling your husband that he should get naked by the time you get home. 😉

I'm looking forward to reading more about you and your husband.

@Dahiana and @Silent

Just from my wife's ( @Dahiana ) and my own experience it is hard to find time when the kids are around. They always seem to know when "mommy and daddy" want some time alone and try their best to see that this is delayed. . . the kids at home are a major factor in being able to do what we want when we want. . . Naked night? I wish. Not with the kids around.

The issue with kids reminds me of my own growing up years. Sunday afternoons were reserved for “nap time”. At the time I hated naps (that has definitely changed!) but we kids absolutely knew you must not disturb mom and dad’s nap time. The alleged reason was because dad had worked hard all week and was tired and needed his rest. I suspect now that was not the only thing dad (and mom)needed. What they clearly needed, I realize as an adult now, was time away from 3 kids with no disturbances! As we got older we were allowed to NOT have to take a nap, but woe be to ANY child who disturbed that sacred “nap” time!

I suspect now that was not the only thing dad (and mom)needed. What they clearly needed, I realize as an adult now, was time away from 3 kids with no disturbances! As we got older we were allowed to NOT have to take a nap, but woe be to ANY child who disturbed that sacred “nap” time!

Just from my wife's ( @Dahiana ) and my own experience it is hard to find time when the kids are around. They always seem to know when "mommy and daddy" want some time alone and try their best to see that this is delayed.

I remember those days. With two children 28 month apart there was never time for alone time. When there was, you had to be ever so quiet so the kids would not wake up. Later when they were teens it was just as nerve wracking, because then they suspected what you were doing. The kids even knew there was a candle that we would burn sometimes when we were being romantic. They told me later when they were in their 20s that they always knew what we were doing when they could smell the candle!

I'm glad my husband and I are getting into it more and more but having kids really does make things a little complicated at times. Now we are stealing little moments here and there and quickies are something we are perfecting.

I am so glad you are carving out time for yourselves! So important to find that time to be adults! We devote so much time being "parents" that we (I) forgot how to be an adult who could feel and want and need things for myself. I am glad to be learning that again!

Tonight we are starting naked night early. Maybe this is evolving into naked afternoon, with naked dinner to follow. With any luck, I will be dessert!

I am so glad you are carving out time for yourselves! So important to find that time to be adults! We devote so much time being "parents" that we (I) forgot how to be an adult who could feel and want and need things for myself. I am glad to be learning that again!

@Sexy_Librarian, it's a beautiful thing! Thank you for sharing with us along your journey!

Tonight we are starting naked night early. Maybe this is evolving into naked afternoon, with naked dinner to follow. With any luck, I will be dessert!

😄

Sunday afternoons were reserved for “nap time”. At the time I hated naps (that has definitely changed!) but we kids absolutely knew you must not disturb mom and dad’s nap time.

That is funny. My parents had 9 kids in a tiny house and we never heard or saw them being intimate although I did see them coming out after a shower together one time. Having all those kids they must have screwed like bunnies but we never knew it.

@Sexy_Librarian

I remember those days, don't ask how many children were in my house , but let's say too many? anyway one night we had the house to ourselves , youngest was spending the night with grandma , older ones not home till later hot damn! Finally have some fun time, we did and apparently we didn't hear them come home... They were sitting on the front porch shooting the shit , when we left the bedroom found them there , asked why outside, in unison, YOU ARE SO LOUD! ? My reply was well how the hell did you think you all got here!

Your nest is empty, you may not ever use the crib again ,but the playpen is open for business!! Have fun, get kinky , and keep sharing your wonderful adventures with us here.

That is funny. . . Having all those kids they must have screwed like bunnies but we never knew it.

@Moppys_jalopy Even after I understood the mechanics of “screwing”, probably in my preteen years, I found the concept rather strange, a bit gross and I figured the only reason for having sex was when a couple wanted to become pregnant. I therefore figured out that my parents must have been forced to have sex 4 times in their lives since there was me, my two siblings and I knew that mom had had 1 miscarriage. Remarkable considering my bedroom was right across the hall from theirs!

Even after I understood the mechanics of “screwing”, probably in my preteen years, I found the concept rather strange, a bit gross and I figured the only reason for having sex was when a couple wanted to become pregnant.....!

@anng... have you found the concept more appealing now that you have grown up? Those of us of a certain age were taught to be discrete about such matters. My daughter’s not so much.... and now that I have three grandchildren old enough to vote.... I think I know what they are thinking....

I love hearing people’s stories like this one. I know of people who were always shedding their clothes as kids, sometimes taking everything off in public, like a store, or walking down the street naked, when too young to know this wasn’t usual. Some even carried this into young school years, like pre-school, or even kindergarten. But, some of those people have grown up to be much more reserved, not becoming nudists, and you’d never guess how free they used to be about their body. Some of those I grew up with who were like this, didn’t necessarily become promiscuous in their teen years, or young adulthood. In fact, that may have been the stage in life where they became more self-conscious about their body. I’ve always thought that was quite unfortunate, like losing the wonderful innocence they had before, (even if it was likely a relief to their parents!)

I grew up in a family where we weren’t nudists, but my parents, sister, and me never were concerned about undressing or bathing in front of each other. So, I never thought it was a big deal being nude in front of others, but I did realize modesty was best practiced until knowing people better. In college I was careful, at first, but soon we all accepted seeing each other around the residence halls in various states of undress. It still was years longer until I began really exploring social nudism, probably because, although I lived where there weren’t many restrictions on nudity, there also were not many opportunities to be nude with others. When I visited areas with nude beaches, or nudist camps/resorts, I then began taking part in that. And, this led, a few years later, to becoming an artist’s model, when I lived in a city with a thriving figurative art scene.

I’ve learned, from families who’ve raised their kids as nudists, that in many of those cases the kids are so much better adjusted as teens, than most of their friends and classmates. They are not so full of angst when it comes to dating, and not so wound up about sex, either. Particularly for the girls, this puts them at a real advantage over most of their boyfriends, they’re more in control because it isn’t such a big deal to see the guy undressed, if it comes to that point in a relationship, or friendship. This sure would be an improvement for a lot of families out there.

Most of these nude activities haven’t been connected with anything very sexual, although I’ve also been involved with swingers clubs. For those who’ve found greater body acceptance in a sexual way, that’s terrific. I also hope they’ll look at other opportunities to be free without clothes.

@anng... have you found the concept more appealing now that you have grown up? ...

@srg_rik

YES I think I get it now! And it does have a definite appeal! How else would I explain the time I spend here at Zity?