Male anal sex

Havent done this as a bottom yet but want to try I have topped a few times

I was in my mid sixties the first time I got fucked in my arse by a man. Its probably only in the last 10 years or so that I'd even consider it.

I didn’t respond then but on my way out the door in the mob of non socially distancing people, he was next to me and grabbed my hand and put a napkin with a phone number in it...

Do you still have the napkin or his number, @TXh2e ?

Ah, it’s amazing how things change over the years. Years ago, I was divorced and single, living the good life in Southern California. I belonged to several singles clubs and women and easy sex was never a problem. There was always something to do, a dance or a party or a hot tub to share with fun people. Then my employer gave the news that I was to be transferred to the wilds of northeast Pennsylvania. Not a terrible place but years behind the times with no singles clubs and a xenophobic population.

After a year here, I got married to a lady who was in the same boat, transferred from Atlanta and finding the area so depressing that her first winter here, she cried. So we happened to meet on a blind date and discovering that we both felt the same about Scranton, Pa, we had a feeling of commonality and before long we got married. And that is when I discovered the other meaning of Vanilla as in vanilla sex. Fast forward some thirty years and I am retired from AT&T and my health takes a downhill path with a spinal stress fracture, diabetes, hypertension, cardiac issues and then as a final insult, due to health problems and medications I developed ED, or Erectile Disfunction. Erections and orgasms became a thing of the past. The only thing that still gave a thrill was my asshole and I discovered the thrill of a warm dildo up my butt. And of course at this same time, my wife lost all desire for sex of any kind.

My saving grace was discovering this site and finding that there were lots of guys out there who loved anything concerning ass play. I had a couple meetings with a man in a neighboring town with who me I discovered how nice it was to hold another mans penis and get a real thrill from it. I ruled out anal sex because he was really big, much bigger than anything I had ever pushed up my butt. And now we have this damned virus and the thought of close contact with another man is frankly frightening. The big thing I want to pass along is DON’T put it off. Grab those chances when you can!!

@Bobbyc, My first wife was quite sexually vanilla and actually a 'whiner' about most sexual activity. Not fun!

I have to try this, ideally from a pretty ts like Eric Mason said "... accepting a penis from a preop trans woman if I found her to be attractive..." but I think I would do this with anyone now if opportunity comes along.

After many years of being an anal whore and slut to the pleasures of object and dildo insertion, I'm about ready to try a cock. Simply out of curiosity!

What the hell, why not? You better be big and long! I'll fuck your ass as well. I have a fairly decent size penis and know how to use it!

In my teens and twenties I was repulsed by the very idea of male homosexuality, especially anal intercourse between men. As I grew older, matured and became good friends with some gay men, it started to not seem not quite so odd to me.

Then in my late thirties, during one night of drinking with a gay couple I know, came the now or never moment to experience gay sex as a threesome. I blew one of the guys as a warmup so-to-speak, and then we went to the bedroom for more debauchery. There I received my one and only anal fucking of my life. It definitely was a night to remember! Having my waist held tight as a hard cock was being thrust inside of me was one of the best sexual experiences I have ever had!

I have to admit that I did sometimes feel some unnecessary guilt and shame come over me from time to time for a few years about that night, but that eventually went by the wayside. I consider myself lucky to have gotten to experience that in such a safe setting.

Those two guys are still together, and are still my friends. Sometimes I shoot them a text that says, “Hey! Remember that one night?”

My only regret now is that I only did it that one time.

I consider myself lucky to have gotten to experience that in such a safe setting.

Those two guys are still together, and are still my friends. Sometimes I shoot them a text that says, “Hey! Remember that one night?”

My only regret now is that I only did it that one time.

why didn’t you do it again if you enjoyed it?

@gwhap, I spent/wasted a few years fighting with myself over whether I should have participated or not. By the time I came to grips with it, I was in a motorcycle accident that left me as a paraplegic. The only major sexual organ on me that’s still functioning is my brain. There are a few things I can do, but it’s just not the same. I could probably make a gay necrophiliac pretty happy though! ?

TXh2e, what a hot and fantastic story! Would love to have that same experience!

...I'm about ready to try a cock. Simply out of curiosity!

What the hell, why not? You better be big and long!...

@Like_it_deep I guess I just lost the Texas Primary. ?

I love anal penetration and internal massage but it must be done by a woman and that has never changed.

Never thought about it until I hit my late 30s, which coincided with my first attempts at solo anal play. I was molested by a neighbor kid back when I was 7 (no actual sex happened but the attempt was made) and I think that kinda “planted the seed” subconsciously, because when I started looking at porn, all I wanted to see was anal sex (Hetero) and women’s asses and assholes.

Still, I was always straight and the idea of homosexual intimacy of any kind made me retch.

Then about 10 years ago I stumbled upon trans-porn (I know that trans-women are really women, but seeing a cock and balls where a vagina should be was enough of a trigger) and that combined with making peace with the suppressed memory of my molestation just opened the floodgates.

Now this doesn’t mean that I started finding men attractive by ANY stretch of the imagination. I have no interest in them physically, I still cringe at the idea of kissing one and sucking his cock, and I certainly don’t want to top a man. Hell, I need an erection to fuck someone and a man’s body doesn’t turn me on! I need WIDE hips, NARROW waist, creamy soft feminine skin, NARROW shoulders, a WOMAN’S body for that.

HOWEVER, I can’t stop thinking about what it would feel like to bottom. To have a man’s (or trans woman’s) hands on my hips as he/she pounds my upturned ass....if I ever get divorced...

I have no interest in them physically, I still cringe at the idea of kissing one and sucking his cock...

HOWEVER, I can’t stop thinking about what it would feel like to bottom. To have a man’s (or trans woman’s) hands on my hips as he/she pounds my upturned ass

@ShadoLord I'm with you. Relationship wise, guys don't turn me on at all. I don't get a hardon when I'm looking at guys bodies. However, the idea of a strong dominant alpha guy using my mouth and ass for the pleasure his big dick is a huge turn on for me. I kinda like it when they "force" me to do it since it takes away some of the guilt about doing it myself. I guess I enjoy feeling like the girl in that situation. Dressing up girly gets me into the mood. I also get very anally horny when I've been in chastity for a while. Makes me really need to be fucked.

I've been fucked by guys and girls with strapons and guys are way better at it. Anyone who is curious should just try it. Forget about silly labels and just enjoy yourself.

I let my wife peg me once. It was her idea actually, but once the reality of the situation hit her, she became much less enthusiastic about it and the experience was very underwhelming for the both of us.

The reality of it for her was that she actually wasn’t going to get any physical pleasure out of wearing a strap on, (it did have a vaginal stimulator attachment but she said it didn’t feel like anything) so when she started fucking my ass with it, she had this bored look on her face.

She also wasn’t used to the mechanics of fucking; establishing and maintaining a pace, adjusting depth, etc.

Therefore, it was slow and awkward. Disappointing for her (no physical pleasure for her), disappointing for me (no enthusiasm on her part)

I am very anal oriented, but I don't like the idea of being with a guy guy. Now the Asian tranny's would be another story. I COULD DO THAT !!

Love anal play with my wife. No interest in male to male sex or with a shemale at all.

I don’t think or fantasize about being with a male. Whereas I constantly do about women.

But I’ll admit, if a woman who I was really interested in or in love with said “I want to watch a guy fuck you”, I might consider it. And if the choice is between fucking a man or kissing a man, I’d choose fucking.

But I’ll admit, if a woman who I was really interested in or in love with said “I want to watch a guy fuck you”, I might consider it. And if the choice is between fucking a man or kissing a man, I’d choose fucking.

nope!

I have many friends who enjoy each other. I think the important thing is the relationship. If both men, or man and woman, or both women respect each other and try to give the other pleasure - who cares about who has penis or vagina or rectum? The relationship is the important thing!

Being afflicted with non-treatable ED has left me wanting to try anal sex...as a bottom. I have no other way to enjoy sex! But now, I love the feeling of being plugged.......and, fucking myself with my dildo, but this lacks any real compassion and body contact. I’ve always been straight but now would even consider being pegged, but my wife won’t consider it. I can’t leave my wife of 40+ years (she’s a retired RN) as I need her help, at times, with my various health issues (See my profile). I’ve met a number of other decent men here on Zity who have similar issues with ED and just want some occasional intimacy and going “anally” is about the only option left to them. Receiving a nice butt fucking would be great once in a while!

I’d love to hear from other men who have found a solution to this issue.

I was straight till my wife started using a dildo enema nozzle on me to get my hole stretchy open because of the large BM I have. I found having that done to me awoke my anal feelings. Around 50 I got my first real penis inserted and loved it.

How has your attitude toward M2M anal sex changed as you have gotten older? How did that come about?

As I have gotten older I have acquired more regular male sex partners than I had before. I think as wives and girlfriends get older, some lose their sex drive for different reasons and the male is left with the option of possible no sex life or another female or male. In my case, though I prefer females, if one is not available, usually my male friends are more than willing to get together for some playtime and regularly calling me because their wife or GF has been uncooperative. LOL. I love sex and try to not only find ways to enhance it for myself but also for those I am with. And they seem to keep coming back for more or new ones just approaching me on occasion. My favorite though is MFM. I will always enjoy those!!!!

Well, the only people to penetrate my ass sexually are me and my wife. She enjoys using toys etc anally but really loves what my cock does with her open anal wetness. Max level orgasms!

Myself, after many years of enjoying toys, objects, hands etc, well I'm about ready to find out what a real cock would feel like, preferably by someone who knows how to fuck an ass like I know how to fuck my wife's.

Maybe some day with a guy.

I see many men discovering their interest in bi activities later in life. I was lucky in that I realized it when I was in my mid-40's and still in good shape to be sexually active. While I do not find men physically attractive attractive in a romantic way, as my bi is all about penis play, my partners have to be in decent shape and look nice; as I have to be for them.

Those of us who love taking enemas - aren't we by nature anally submissive... We take it so well - our enema bags giving it to us up the rear. I've said how I thought the enema bag as a red devil out to get me. At first I began desiring a woman to use a strap-on on me. From there it was only a matter of time till thoughts of a a real man. It's not about finding a man attractive, it's simply me being anally submissive.

Those of us who love taking enemas - aren't we by nature anally submissive... We take it so well - our enema bags giving it to us up the rear. I've said how I thought the enema bag as a red devil out to get me. At first I began desiring a woman to use a strap-on on me. From there it was only a matter of time till thoughts of a a real man. It's not about finding a man attractive, it's simply me being anally submissive.

NO NO NO NO NO

Those men are NOT necessarily submissive and neither are many women who like it vaginally or up the ass.

I certainly am not submissive when I take enemas or have you fuck my asshole or vagina. I just like it.

I assure you I am not in the least bit submissive in those situations. In fact, you'll see my dominance because chances are, I am going to run the whole show---and I know you will love it.

On the other side of the coin, my husband will tell me to fist him or fuck him in the ass. That doesn't sound submissive to me at all. It is one partner demanding the other to do something they enjoy.

The whole submissive/not submissive argument/descriptions are full of shit because dominance and submission is all a matter of intent.

@SwitchableSusie: Always enjoy getting your thoughts on things!

As long as it is a dildo by a female . I was raped by a guy when I was 6 so that has turned my male to male off and even looking at pics if they are not female I don't look at them . I enjoy anal penetration as long as it is slow soft and gentle tell I get ready to orgasm then things can get a little rough .