Male anal sex

For years--probably 50 years--I would not even let myself imagine have anal sex with another man. Now I can not only imagine it, but have experienced it with pleasure and mutual respect. Without labeling your sexual orientation--labels are irrelevant--how has your attitude toward M2M anal sex changed as you have gotten older? How did that come about?

For years--probably 50 years--I would not even let myself imagine have anal sex with another man. Now I can not only imagine it, but have experienced it with pleasure and mutual respect. Without labeling your sexual orientation--labels are irrelevant--how has your attitude toward M2M anal sex changed as you have gotten older? How did that come about?

Not much. I'm still too straight as an arrow to seriously consider any M2M sexuality, even giving enemas to each other. While being extremely anally oriented, the theoretical thought of what a real live penis would feel like in my ass compared to a plug or balloon, while interesting, isn't enough to overcome my lack of attraction to anyone male. The only thing I could conceive of, and this is still only theory, is accepting a penis from a preop trans woman if I found her to be attractive. I've had two threesomes MFM in life and a couple of sex/date offers from gay men, but was not interested in any of it.

Eric

I was the same as you. I started inserting things in my ass in my teens and graduated to using everything I could find. I had many offers for M2M sex but never pursued it until a few years ago. I love it now. It is so much better than any dildo I have ever used. I love being fucked and with the right guy I love having a guy empty his load in my ass.

My brother did it to me when we were about 13 yrs old. It felt OK to good, the best was when he ejaculated into me, and still later after he pulled out, with me feeling full of his cum! 49 years later, yes I would welcome it to happen again! Happily married but put a hard cock an inch from my mouth I would suck it in a NY minute! Really would want it to start as me sucking but ending with him face fucking me ans swallowing! 40 years ago I did try to give a drunk friend a blow job, he was too drunk to get hard, and stopped me was not into M2M sex.

After years of solo play with enemas, fingers and butt plugs I am ready to try fisting, pegging and penile penetration.

As far as I can back with my memory, I think that I would have always entertained the idea of man to man sex if it was not for the stigma that this had in Southern Italy at the time. For this raeson, while playing even as a male teenager I sort of tried to convince myself that growing as a real adult I would have learned to love sex with a woman.

Useless to say that now, some decades later, I have never had any sex with a woman (though I have been sleeping in bed with one some times) but have learned instead to accept myself for what I am and what I can give to another person. And do you know what? After accepting myself I learned to actually like what I had become. I could have easily become one of those men who marry a woman for the unhappiness of both, many men still do in places where respect for people of all sexual orientation is not granted.

Instead I painfully went through becoming an adult in a more complete way, with a sense or responsibility for being in a relationship with another person, and giving what I can give in terms of affection without pretending. Still life is something in which we always have to learn a lot, but still this is quite amazing, considering the starting point!

The times I have been penetrated by a penis turned out to be the most pleasurable and the most memorable. My male anal sex 'experiments' began about ten years ago (age sixty seven) when I separated and began living on my own without a partner. The period ended when I moved in with my childhood sweetheart. Now sex is with masturbation equipment/aids and according individual frequencies, desires, at home. she uses a large vibrator, and I use lube, this great website, and internet porn. It is a very good situation.

My attitude has never changed. I can not understand how a man would want to touch another man. Not to piss anyone off or anything, you do you. It isn't like I dislike gay people I just don't get it.

@James3333 said

My attitude has never changed. I can not understand how a man would want to touch another man. Not to piss anyone off or anything, you do you. It isn't like I dislike gay people I just don't get it.

As a heteroflexible/bisexual person, I do NOT feel the same as you do and I CAN see why some men would want to have homosexual relations with another man.

However, I must say that I applaud you for your honesty and candor, which is something very frequently lacking because people are coerced into being politically correct here.

James333 said:

My attitude has never changed. I can not understand how a man would want to touch another man. Not to piss anyone off or anything, you do you. It isn't like I dislike gay people I just don't get it.

And then Susie said:

I do not feel the same as you do and I can see why some men would want another man.

However, I applaud you for your honesty and candor, which is something very frequently lacking here.

I expressed essentially the same opinion before, but I'm in complete agreement with James here. I don't want to touch another man, and though I have had a theoretical interest in what a real penis would feel like in my ass, I'll never do it because of lack of attraction to men. But I've had a few gay male friends, still do and they are great people. Like James, for me the chemistry is just missing, so I just don't (or can't) get it.

OTOH, I can easily see why a woman would want another woman, but my perspective on that is probably colored by my own strong attraction to women. To each their own - have at it, be good and loving to your spouse or partner and try to bring as much excitement and joy to as many lives as possible.

Eric

OTOH, I can easily see why a woman would want another woman, but my perspective on that is probably colored by my own strong attraction to women. To each their own - have at it, be good and loving to your spouse or partner and try to bring as much excitement and joy to as many lives as possible.

Eric

Of course you can! 😁 Look at all the guys who love lesbian porno--and I do too. So does my younger daughter, despite never expressing or demonstrating any desire to have sexual relations with another woman to me.

Quite simply, those of us in good shape have beautiful bodies and are just magnificent to watch playing with each other's bodies.

Of course you can! 😁 Look at all the guys who love lesbian porno--and I do too. So does my younger daughter, despite never expressing or demonstrating any desire to have sexual relations with another woman.

Quite simply, those of us in good shape have beautiful bodies and are just magnificent to watch playing with each other's bodies.

Agreed. I love watching certain types of lesbian porn also, especially when they satisfy my kinks and show them giving enemas to each other, restrained, and/or dressed in a lot of rubber and sneakers. Very entertaining and arousing.

Eric

Quite simply, those of us in good shape have beautiful bodies and are just magnificent to watch playing with each other's bodies.

I have an anal fetish and enjoy watching lesbian ass play. The girls are (usually) beautiful and in impeccable shape. Don't pay a lot attention to their tits - but LOVE their butts and pussies!

You can be an anal erotic male and never want to have sex with a man and as far as labels go you would be heterosexual. You can be an anal erotic male and be attracted to women and very open or attracted to males. I fall into this category and I would call myself bisexual. I think I have always been bisexual but did not allow myself to really embrace those desires until later in life.

My anal eroticism was always there and I started playing with enemas at age 13. After getting married at age 30, I slowly started acquiring anal sex toys. The first ones were made for anal penetration but did not resemble a penis. After a few years I got my first dildo and then many followed from that first one. My wife would use a strap-on and fuck me with one of my dildos and I loved it- any anal penetration and stimulation was intensely erotic for me, but I was still a long way from having sex with a guy. But as the years rolled by those latent urges of my bisexuality were bubbling to the top and I finally got up the courage to try it. When I did get fucked, it was amazing actually exceeding my expectations and I look forward to more occasions when I can do it again.

Everybody's sexuality will traverse a path throughout their life. For many it does not vary and remains constant from an early age, but for some it evolves and blossoms into multiple branches that may not have been apparent at an early age. I am glad I have allowed myself to grow and explore my sexuality over the course of my lifetime.

James3333

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My attitude has never changed. I can not understand how a man would want to touch another man. Not to piss anyone off or anything, you do you. It isn't like I dislike gay people I just don't get it.

I Understand, and am not attracted to other men, BUT again put a BIG HARD COCK an inch from my mouth and........!

I would worship his cock, and be more than willing to pleasure him ( and me) by sucking him dry, then sucking him hard again to have him take me anally! Oh with both of us submissive to my wife, and me submissive to him, and both of us being cheered on by my wife!

I am definitely more open to the idea as I get older. Certainly not interested in any sort of "romantic" relationship, but more receptive to the idea of being on the receiving end of things once or twice or maybe even occasionally, if it was a good experience and an enema was involved.

For guys out there considering anal sex with another guy, get a move on. Time's a-wasting.

For me it was quite a journey, from the tight-assed, conservative Christian belief system of my early adulthood, thinking it unthinkable to expose my whole body to anyone except a physician, to my acknowledgement of myself as sexual being.

It was after two nothing hetero relationships that I came around in my early 30s to the whole idea of mansex, and the basic notion of the anus of another male as a receptacle for a penis. Though throughout my teenage years and my 20s I'd been besieged with uncontrollable thoughts and images of all this. It was only with a few trips to a nude beach that I came face to face with it. A few of these trips, involving ogling or being ogled, brought me around to this entire thought and, especially, feeling. I was able to erase from my mind the image of myself as a "faggot" or "queer," or breaking any god's law, and simply being able to enjoy the natural rhythm of the motion; of shooting my banana's crème into another guy's fudge factory.

The entire earthy sensation, mainly within the limits of condoms. It was only many experiences later that I came around to the idea of another male being the do-er, rather than the do-ee. This provided some conflict for me through the remainder of my life, and it finally took a male virgin to liberate me from all this.

But through all of the above, I finally felt a faith in my basic manhood which I never felt before.

For guys out there considering anal sex with another guy, get a move on. Time's a-wasting.

Just curious. Why is time a-wasting? Any specific circumstances now or just general principles?

Eric

I’ve been active with men for the past five years. And I love it. I’m sorry I didn’t start anal sex years before. I could have enjoyed all of the pleasures when I was younger and had more chances.

My attitude toward m2m anal sex has not changed much over the years. I always assumed that I might enjoy it. Now I know that I actually do like it.

Just curious. Why is time a-wasting? Any specific circumstances now or just general principles?

Eric

I think we need to realize every tick of the clock we don't fulfill a desire is a missed opportunity. Everything from anal sex to taking that amazing trip to somewhere on the planet- don't think that someday it will just happen.

You need to be proactive in crossing things off your bucket list before your age catches up with you.

I have enjoyed anal sex for most of my life and can’t imagine not enjoying it. No regrets.

Don't think my attitude has never changes about this - would love to receive, but no interest in giving when it comes to M2M.

I have always leaned towards anal, but never attempted m2m sex. Now that I am older...72..and in a loveless and sexless marriage, I am beginning to view m2m sex as a substitute to physical love, something nonexistent in my marriage. Divorce..?

Frankly, in my poor physical shape, I need her help. So she plans to travel out of state to visit with friends during which time, I plan to spend as much time as possible with a penis up my butt or in my mouth. Anyone in NE Pennsylvania feel like contributing to my education?

Always used toys and things in my ass but didn’t try anal sex with a man until I was in my sixties. I love it. I know that it was age and lack of sex from my wife that made me try it but I love it now.

I am extremely anal oriented; but, have never been involved in M2M sex. I simply have never been attracted to men so have never consider M2M sex. That said, I have always fantasized about sex with a TS. Some of my favorite porn involves guys sucking off a TS, swallowing their loads and then being fucked by them. I would love to try it; but, I know that is a fantasy and not my reality. Also, as mentioned in another thread, I have a good friend that is gay. He's been making "pitches" to me for over a year although I've told him I have no interest. What I haven't told him is I'm considering asking him to accompany me on a week's vacation. If I do that, there's no question what will happen. My only problem with that is if I don't like it and don't want to have an entire week of M2M sex, what his response will be. I'm still seriously thinking about it; but, I'm thinking of an alternate plan as well. We live several hundred miles apart. I could just as easily drive to his area, get a motel room for the night, and have him visit me there. If it turns out to be something I enjoy, I can then invite him to join me on my vacation. If I don't enjoy it, he'll never know I'm planning a vacation alone. BTW, I'm in my mid 70s and he is in his early 50s. From our conversations, I know he is a top and since I can't get an erection I'd be a bottom. Seems as though that would work out just fine.

Peesalot... I am like you. I have ED from prostate cancer/radiation and have always been VERY anally oriented. Been straight all my life and have had no attraction to men, but now I almost crave being butt fucked. I love my buttplug and dildo. The meds I took have given me some really sensitive boobs (42-D), too. The problem is finding someone who is discrete and disease free. I have many male friends, all straight, I think.... If I could only get my wife to peg me....

Peesalot... I am like you. I have ED from prostate cancer/radiation and have always been VERY anally oriented. Been straight all my life and have had no attraction to men, but now I almost crave being butt fucked. I love my buttplug and dildo. The problem is finding someone who is discrete and disease free. If I could only get my wife to peg me....

TM48, I agree if I could interest my wife in pegging me I wouldn't consider meeting up with this friend. I play regularly with my anal toys. In fact in about 45 minutes I'm heading to the bathroom for 3 or 4 enemas and then some toy time. But, I simply want someone else involved. It does get lonely. I've asked my wife to join me and use my toys on me; but, she's not interested. I refuse to beg and I refuse to make her feel badly about not wanting to participate. We all have different likes and need to respect those of our spouses. If anyone were to suggest I demand her participation, I'd ask if the flip side is permissible. The flip side would be her insisting I completely forget about sex in any manner. Of course it isn't; so, in this area we just do what we can to satisfy ourselves. In my case, I know my friend is disease free and I'm certain he would be discreet. My bigger issue is going behind my wife's back. I'm not sure I can do that without feeling guilty beyond belief. I've never cheated on her in 38 years or on my ex in the 17 years we were together.

I had my first M2M anal sex experience 18 years ago at 31, back when I had a waste line and abs. Lol. A bi/gay guy hit on me at the closing of a predominantly straight club one night. But as he left, he leaned close and whispered, “I will keep anything that happens entirely between us”. I smiled and said I was flattered, (which I actually was). I didn’t respond then but on my way out the door in the mob of non socially distancing people, he was next to me and grabbed my hand and put a napkin with a phone number in it. Evidently to the bold go the spoils, as I sat and thought on it that night. I picked up the phone, a day later, my voice cracking occasionally and called the number, Stephen answered. We talked, and I asked him if he was sincere about the level of discretion that he mentioned? He assured me he was and I agreed, with much nervousness, to come over to his place that night, where he assured me that we would have complete privacy.

I showed up, two stiff drinks later with a bottle of Grey Goose, and a lot of apprehension! He put me at ease quite easy as he was, not straight, but not effeminate. He told me he was a top, and then smirked at me bemused when he deduced that I didn’t know what the hell that was! He asked my fantasy and I told him I would like to receive anal as long as it wasn’t too excruciating. He said he could make it feel amazing. ( I had taken two 3 qt enemas before that afternoon just in case) The look on his face and the absolute confidence in his voice led me to believe he was telling the absolute truth... I flipped a switch in my mind and away we went. He went down on me for a few minutes( which to find out most tops don’t do) and then he asked me to please him... He was half or 3/4 hard already and huge, but I thought I’d try. “Here Is the worst head you’ve probably ever had” as I took him in my mouth. He enjoyed it, and he was rock hard and immense... I’m starting to have trepidation as the only thing I’ve had inside me prior were enema nozzles, and girlfriends fingers and one small is vibrator from a Dutch girl in an exchange program.

So he took charge, which I liked, and asked me to lay on my side. He spooned in behind but stared working Vaseline into me. I’m loving this and his fingers are thick so I am already panting a little. He then took out his thick 8 inches, ( I know/ ruined for life the first time out) and slowly pushed against the opening. It took a couple of minutes, and finally he said push out like a BM, and he shoved forward and got his German sized nazi helmet head in me... Wooof! It took the breath out but he was experienced, and didn’t budge it an inch, just let me pant and get used to it. He was just moving his hands and telling me how good I was doing. After I got used to it, he played the game, an inch at a time. He would almost pull all out but, on the in stroke, he’d go deeper, eliciting a number of gasps from me. Finally when I felt literally like his cock was in my stomach, I felt his hips flush flat against mine. He left it all the way in for a minute or so and then proceeded to the slow in and out phase. I was in heaven! Completely full inside, with no pain but only pleasure that’s mounting by the minute.

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We’ve had a number of drinks together to soften the nerves, but it’s had the effect of giving my friend the ability to fuck me as long as he wants, which he proceeds to do! 35 mins and two writhing, frothing anal orgasms on my part. I hav never an same sex experience could feel this good. I made a friend, but could never have Emotional or physical attraction to him.. totally doesn’t mean I didn’t LOVE the sex between us, I did. But couldn’t be in anything other than a physical relationship with a guy. I know that herse people that disagree on this sit, but I’m 49-50 and my opputunities are fading into the sunset. I’m not going to feel bad about them,,,