As a gay man, do you deliberately seek out gay doctors ?

As a coincidence my doctor is a gay man and it's great for me because he understands lgbt health issues and doesn't judge or shame me for my sexuality and he can tell me how to have sex in safer ways that are peculiar to bi trans men.

As an out, mature gay man, I don't intentionally out a gay doctor, however I only seek male doctors as I am just more comfortable discussing the more personal and intimate details of health with a man. Similarly, I am only comfortable with another man seeing me partially or completely undressed.

The only time I sought out a gay doctor was for urology. Having difficulty bottoming for so long made me wonder if something was wrong. I felt more comfortable talking to a gay man about gay sex. He also helped with my phimosis, which is slight. He helped me manipulate my foreskin and showed me different areas to stretch.

Having difficulty bottoming for so long made me wonder if something was wrong. I felt more comfortable talking to a gay man about gay sex.

I'm curious - did the doc help with that? Were there any tests or anything?

When looking for a chiropractor several years ago I was specifically looking for a gay man mostly as part of an unrealistic fantasy of him offering "special treatments". not surprisingly, that was not the case but he is a good chiropractor.