Female seduction

Once you get me going, we will have to time of your life.

@medfedcouple If only EVERYONE approached sex with that concept. Really well said!

That, my dear, is seduction - the enticement of a person to have sexual intercourse or a sex act. It also goes both ways, one way to get a woman to seduce you is to first seduce her. . . Making your partner feel wanted makes them want to want you.

I too was raised in a home and in an era where a well behaved lady did not act like a siren seductress, so I am (and likely always will be) very easily seduced though the signals I send out may be subtle. However, the guy who takes the time in getting to know me and my signals and wants to satisfy me will very likely reap rewards. You are right @gwhap . . . It works best as a two way relationship!

Just the way you worded your question OP seems a bit feather ruffling for me to read.

Some women( myself included) did not feel confident enough to ask for what they wanted when they were younger,getting older has been great for me and my confidence and when I want William in anyway he sure knows it.

If you are having problems getting what you want from women then maybe look at yourself and make changes.

Good luck to you.

Peace,

Caz

If you are having problems getting what you want from women then maybe look at yourself and make changes.

Now it may be time to look at yourself in the mirror and see if there is anything that may need improvement that would make you worthy of what you desire.

You know it isn't - but you could use some lessons in communication yourself.

what do you - bring to the party? Are you just - expecting them to do all the work while you and they bask in your glory?

Wish I could "LIKE" these posts more than once!!!!

(I think Susie said that on another thread so I won't take credit for being original - just that it applies here for me!). Credit to Bridgette, Caz, Lora C, Ms Lila!!! Different words - same message.

Like every man, every woman is different. I’ve had amazing sexual experiences with women, one in particular, who never initiated the intimacy. Meaning they never seduced me. Once I realized I had to be the initiator, it was all good. I’ve also been with more aggressive, seductive, women. Some of those experiences were unforgettable but others just did not work. As others here have said, the chemistry matters. And you can’t expect a woman to be or do something you want or you experienced with another woman. It don’t work like that.

How does one know if a female is interested or wants to explore. She is 60 blonde with nice eyes. She has a great smile and for her age a killer body. We are friends but I have no clue and to make it worse I am on the shy side. Would never cause trouble just curios and pos may be in wrong place.

Many men are also the shy and quiet type and not likely to initiate anything sexual for fear of offending or being rebuffed or doing something wrong. This type of personality trait/character is not reserved for ladies only.

Yup! That's me. Time and time again I blew it, missed the opportunity..... I always admired guys who could turn a conversation with a gal into something that would sexually light their fire..

Yup! That's me. Time and time again I blew it, missed the opportunity..... I always admired guys who could turn a conversation with a gal into something that would sexually light their fire..

I have a friend who, honestly looks older than I do by far, half bald, unshaven, not really nicely dressed. But still, when we go somewhere, he somehow always manages to get people engaged in conversations and has ladies much younger than himself, laughing and talking with him. There are places where I've been going or years and the staff knows me and is polite and all, but if I take him along, they get into giggling/laughing conversations with him very quickly. I've seen him do so here in Belgium and Spain as well in his watered down version of Spanish.

For the life of me I don't know how he does it. And it's landed him quite a number of consecutive girlfriends over the years too, all younger than him by a significant margin.

It is fun to be around him when he pulls it off yet again and also depressing, because I know i will never ever be able to do the same on my own lonesome self.

Not my wife! She jumped into my bed VERY soon after our 1st date! Many years later I found that she KNEW she would marry after the 1st date! ( And would not take no for an answer) 48 years together & she is still HOT!

@agracier said, "... because I know i will never ever be able to do the same on my own lonesome self."

Don't you like yourself? Aren't you worth knowing?

Don't you like yourself? Aren't you worth knowing?

Ha ha ... I get on pretty with myself and apparently when comparing with others I have quite a number of friends with some 4 or 5 nice looking ladies whom I go on dates or outings with. But I've known them all for some 45 years now and they know me and all is well enough.

However making new friends, especially apparently effortlessly on the fly is beyond me.

Ha ha ... I get on pretty with myself and apparently when comparing with others I have quite a number of friends with some 4 or 5 nice looking ladies whom I go on dates or outings with. But I've known them all for some 45 years now and they know me and all is well enough.

However making new friends, especially apparently effortlessly on the fly is beyond me.

@agracier ... I hope that answer will satisfy @Dahiana ... aka ... MeatAxe. 😉 😁

To answer the question "Is the art of a female seducing her man dead? Seems like all the women I meet don't know how, or are too prudish to try and seduce me. Most of them can't even ask for sex let alone try seducing."

I think most females I might consider could seduce me simply by being willing to speak about sex and touching me. Touch is everything and not necessarily sexually.

I remember losing a couple girls when I was a young teen because my mother's words were still imprinted on my brain. "Don't touch a girl here, here or there." That's where they WANT you to touch them, dumbass teenager.

My first date after getting a car at 16 years old: We went to her fathers lakeside camp and she sent plenty of signals I was too dumb to pick up. She wanted to go swimming so she tossed me a pair of swim trunks to put on in the guest room while she changed in the girls bunk room. (she had 5 sisters) They were way too small and she stopped by the door after she got ready and asked if I needed help putting them on. My "mother" replied, no. Strike 1. On the dock she sat on top of the boat house with her wide open legs at my eye level with me standing about a foot from her. Her beautiful pussy hair was sticking out both sides and she was not hiding her lovely crotch from me but rather showing it to me. "mother" kept my hands at my side when I should have leaned right in played with her bush. Strike 2. At the drive-in movie that night she kept taking my arm off her shoulders and putting my hand on her crotch. "mother" kept pulling it away. Strike 3, and I was out. She never went out with me again.

When I was 19 and in the army the girls at a church youth meeting were all excited about some girl who was coming back later from summer vacation. As the group was breaking up the "new" girl asked me if I was going back to the fort. I said yes and she offered me a ride with her father who was coming to pick her up. I ended up dating her but without my own car it was difficult. Her father, the colonel, let me drive them in his car to church telling me to be sure to return the MP's salute going through the gate. I would go to her house evenings and her father would drag her mother off to bed early so we could be alone to "watch TV". We would end up laying on the sofa dry fucking or more accurately her dry fucking me. She knew exactly how to find my hard-on with her pussy bone and how to rub it for the best results. By the time I walked the three miles back to my barracks my pants were dry. When I finally got my car from home, the first time she got in beside me she had me unzipped and in her lovely hand before we got off her street toward the gate. We found a place to park and after she beat it down so she couldn't get it up she shoved my face into her delicious pussy and held it there until my little boy was ready for another round. I asked her why she so liked making me come and she replied that she enjoyed watching my face as I came and being able to do that to me made her feel powerful. BTW she turned 16 after we met. She owned me for a year and a half none of which I regret. So some young girls certainly knew how to seduce a guy even 60 years ago.

Roscoe:

mother's words were still imprinted on my brain. "Don't touch a girl here, here or there." That's where they WANT you to touch them, dumbass teenager.

Reading about your mother's words made me laugh, thanks and all so true. Got to wonder if that (my mother's words) created the hesitation I had as well, though I don't actually remember her telling me. I do remember her telling my older sister all sort of things to avoid, though.

Female seducing male seems to be the only legal way of fulfilling the urge to merge with todays sexual harassment laws. I don't know how a guy would dare touch a girl, even just on the shoulder for fear of being charged with something that could send him to prison. Guys don't seem to be quite as likely to file a legal complaint if a girl touches them so it looks like girls have to start things today. I suppose teenagers don't spend a lot of time worrying about such things, I didn't when I was one. When I was in Georgia with the colonel's daughter, pussy eating was a crime that could get me years in the Atlanta state prison but I/we did it anyway. Of course impregnating the colonel's daughter would have been even worse so my dick was never going to get close to her vertical smile but we never heard of a girl giving birth to a 5 pound tongue. She wanted me to take her over to a motel in South Carolina where we both would have been of the age of consent but I didn't have the balls to do it. All I could think of if we spent the night in a motel room how I wouldn't be able to keep my dick away from her hungry bearded clam.

It just seems like our legal system today is putting up one hell of a barrier to natural heing and sheing.

When I was in Georgia with the colonel's daughter, pussy eating was a crime that could get me years in the Atlanta state prison but I/we did it anyway.

I don't ever remember my male cohorts back in the early 1960's mentioning pussy eating. One time, when I had the desire to sniff around my young wife's pussy back then and she pushed me away saying I was getting perverted...

I have a friend who, honestly looks older than I do by far, half bald, unshaven, not really nicely dressed. But still, when we go somewhere, he somehow always manages to get people engaged in conversations and has ladies much younger than himself, laughing and talking with him. There are places where I've been going or years and the staff knows me and is polite and all, but if I take him along, they get into giggling/laughing conversations with him very quickly. I've seen him do so here in Belgium and Spain as well in his watered down version of Spanish.

I have a friend exactly like that. 10 minutes after meeting him all guys are his buddies and all the girls want to sleep with him. He worked for a grocery chain and was their traveling produce guy. He had a girlfriend in every store. To this day I am amazed at his prowess.

I was so shy in high school I don't think I had more than 2 dates in high school. Now that I think back, trying to get a nozzle in each of them might have contributed to it. There are plenty of females out there that are very good in the art of seduction. Just open your eyes.

Reddevil:

I don't ever remember my male cohorts back in the early 1960's mentioning pussy eating. One time, when I had the desire to sniff around my young wife's pussy back then and she pushed me away saying I was getting perverted...

I was in HS in the 50s and the guys knew about it but most wouldn't do it or even let a girl go down on them. So the attitude against oral sex was prevalent. I didn't agree with them and given the chance I would have but my luck with girls at that time was about like Moppys. I turned to building dragsters because after you race one it's still there the next day for you enjoy again.

Here in NH we had a lot of Canucks at that time so maybe that's why we knew about it. The old saying was "the French are strange people, they fight with their feet and fuck with their face" and we all heard that many times.

I don't know how my wife and I managed to have 2 kids because she could never make up her mind whether sex, oral or not, was a sin or maybe it was OK. She loved it when I got her warmed up but after we were done she had a way of making me feel guilty.

The first time I actually got my face in a pussy was with the colonel's daughter and she put it there. I had a 53 Chrysler that was big enough so I could squat on the floor in front of her in the passenger seat. That was a position I dearly loved but she was the one who initiated it. She was only 15 when we met. How did a 15 year old girl know so much back then? I had zilch in school for sex ed but she must have been taking some class at Richmond HS in Augusta because she used me like a test subject for the latest thing she learned and I loved it. I would have let her do nearly anything she wanted to me. Eating her was a weekly ritual after church even during her period. However she wouldn't return the favor.

Female seduction aside, discussion about eating pussy struck a chord. In the late 60's/early 70's, I worked construction with a 50 year old guy who was always talking about "eating out". Being a tad ignorant, I eventually figured it out. Some of my male friends talked about it although few had enjoyed the pleasure. None would turn down a blow job, but turnabout wasn't likely.

I dated a gal who was quite forward and wore sexy tops that highlighted her boobs, especially when the headlights were on bright. She led the way to exploration that I never turned down. Her dad occasionally caught us in almost compromising situations. The bottom line is that I loved the taste and smell of her female juices and parts. She loved the attention and the relationship prospered for a few years. She later found a "rich" dude and moved on.

I don't know if she compared notes with her friends, but I did with some of mine as well as Charlie at work. Needless to say, I never lost the desire to reciprocate with gals who appreciated those other sensations during an encounter. As aging began to take it's toll, I discovered that some manual and oral manipulation can provide some wonderfully satisfying orgasms or ejaculation, and can be multiplied with a bit of extra effort.

Some Enemassage can certainly be a great prelude as well. The Bottom Line is that the bottom is a wonderful erogenous zone, and some other adventurous manipulations make those interactions heavenly! Watch "Screaming Anal Enema Massage" and see what I mean.