Dating Enemas

I have wondered how many hetero dates you may have had that you introduced to enemas, either giving or receiving? What was the response?

I always got to know the person 1st so knew they liked enemas.

I have wondered how many hetero dates you may have had that you introduced to enemas, either giving or receiving? What was the response?

Do you mean introduced to enemas BEFORE OR AFTER having had sex with them at some point in time?

I bring up enemas to every woman I date, I'd say about 1/3 have tried the enemas

Let me see if I have this picture correctly. You're having drinks when your date asks you. "Have you ever had an enema? Or is it, do you like enemas?" I don't claim to know what will play in Sobrigan but in my neck of the woods, that question won't play. No way, Jose!

I dunno how anyone else feels about this, but my thinking is that outright asking would be a great way to end a first date with a total dud! (If, by chance, she/he says, "Why yes! Let's go to my place and share a few bags!", then I'd be forced to reconsider!) Nah! As I think about it, anyone who would agree to take a total stranger home for an evening of enema play probably is some sort of psycho!

If anyone here thinks the above is a verbose way of saying that question is one of the dumbest I've ever heard,,,YOU'RE RIGHT!

There might just be a few steps between a generic heterosexual date and an enema proposition! In my mind it would need to include a time period of getting to know someone in a variety of ways and establishing a comfort level BEFORE finding out if enemas were a mutual interest. Having that discussion prematurely very well could put a fast end to a relationship which might otherwise be open to an enema introduction. But then I guess if a strictly enemy relationship is what you are looking for, you might try it as the leading question before ever asking for that first date.

I like that commercial with the guy and girl out on a date when she mentions her constipation. that would be a date for us both to remember because i would take her home and give her enemas and orgasms all night long!

@Enema daddy -

I like that commercial with the guy and girl out on a date when she mentions her constipation. that would be a date for us both to remember because i would take her home and give her enemas and orgasms all night long!

Yeah, well commercials today are as tasteless and ill-mannered as that question which led this thread! Any day now I expect to see a Fleet enema or a tampon actually used on the screen in a commercial.

Unless we met via an enema forum online I would never mention it.

I’ve had a number of girlfriends who I didn’t even see half naked until several dates in. Can’t imagine jumping straight into “enema” after asking her what she wants to drink.

@enema daddy Again, I don't know what first dates are like in your neck of neck of the woods but in mine, a girl wouldn't be talking about her bowel habits on the first date. In fact, I doubt if I would be on a first date if I were constipated.

I’m more direct no I don’t ask on the first date but I do leave my German latex bag in the shower with 10 ft of silicone tubing attached with the inline pump and flow meter. You either like enemas or you don’t ! I don’t have time to waste if you see me as a perv that’s fine move on. Best to be up front the equipment is there either accept it or don’t......next please. I had a lady in a Leeds group who has a shower door company come over and look at a piece of trim that keeps the steam in the steam in I was making tea for us. She went up stairs in my master bed to look at the trim in the shower when she came back down to the kitchen for tea she could cut glass with her nipples. We talk a lot at the group and set beside each other at the meetings and yes I asked her out and we are going to dinner. Neither of us have brought it up but I think I know where this is going.

Not having dated in a long, long time I am not sure how I would approach the subject of enemas. I do like to flirt and I have tried to introduce the subject by inserting "the word" in the conversation. I will ask how they are feeling and if they say something like they have the sniffles or something I will say, "you know what grandma would say is the best thing for that"? I have had mixed results but it has never ended a friendship.

I had few dates in high school and while I may have fantasized about giving an enema I'm sure even using the word would end a date pretty quickly. The thought was always there though.

Oh for God sakes! leave the syringe on the bathroom vanity and hope your date needs to use the John. If she has anything to say she will either pretend she didn't see it or she will ask about it. It's not all that difficult. If she asks about it you can fein embarrassment and take it from there. Who knows! If she is compassionate she might offer or ask if you need help.

I introduced my boyfriend/husband to enemas the end of the first semester in college when he forgot we had a dinner date and then came to my room to sleep with (fuck) me. I told him he couldn't sleep (have sex) with me unless I gave him an enema first.

I had my way with him.

I posted the full event elsewhere here.

I had no idea what an enema was or that one could enjoy or desire one in a sexual way. Until my boyfriend, eventual husband and sub, told me he enjoyed taking them.

I don't remember how the first discussions actually went. I do remember a few times sitting on the toilet, lid down, watching him take enemas in the tub. His physical reaction was pretty obvious. 😉 .

After getting comfortable with his taking we moved to him taking during sex.

The rest is old history.

When I was in college I began taking a monthly enema for my PMS. If any guy I had dated had brought up either enemas or what I did for my period the date would have ended then and there. There is bold and then there is BOLD.

I introduced my boyfriend/husband to enemas the end of the first semester....came to my room to sleep with (fuck) me. I told him he couldn't sleep (have sex) with me unless I gave him an enema first.

I had my way with him.

Haha boys so easy to bend and manipulate.

I am sure he would have agreed to just about anything you said if your nude body and sex was the prize.

Two kids and decades later despite not being the body it once was it still works on my husband.

Not much experience here with hetero dates but the few flexible guys I've met from contacts here on Z.B. worked out well both giving and receiving. It seems Birds of a Feather ..... Well you know.

I feel quite sure I could have introduced my last G.F, into the enema scene. She was quite receptive while we dated. She readily allowed my to penetrate her anally. She showed me just the right way to perform oral on her. If only we could have lasted a few more weeks.....

I think If I had left a bag or bulb out for her to find it would have been game on.

Never had any date with anyone who was into kink. But then, I rarely ever met anyone into other hobbies or interests I have. I once asked a date if he was into spanking, and he said he had never thought about it.

@sundaybrunch I realize that no two people are the same, but personally I cannot imagine a man going through life never having thought about spanking a woman's bottom. Either that or he just can't take a hint!

I'm 68 doing enemas since age 15. I never mentioned it to a girlfriend until my late 20's but as I recall I don't think anyone outright rejected the idea, though some were more cool than others. My last partner was my second ex wife who discussed all my kinks with me extensively by phone for several weeks by phone after meeting on a dating site before meeting in person. She was pretty enthusiastic about all my kinks and had no trouble sharing them including enemas. We were both switches and everal times she surprised me by subjecting me without warning to a delightful and intense evening as her sub using all my kinks on me at once. I've written several times about it here which basically involved dressing me in rubber and sneakers and making me hold large enemas for as long as she wanted me to be submissive and give each other orgasms. We both loved it.

After several weeks of being married and giving me enemas and other kinks, she revealed that her most secret sexual desire was for her husband to give her sexual enemas, which she could never convince herself to reveal to her late husband before me. Obviously I was delighted to hear it, and we traded many delightful sexual enemas. We unfortunately divorced for nonsexual reasons several years later. I've been enjoying occasional enemas since then.

Eric

In addition to post #17 here

https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=1063372

One other memorable time in college, my boyfriend (now husband) and I stayed as long as we could before the school closed the dorms down after finals were over in contrast to everyone else who wanted to leave as soon as their last final was over. This often gave us two extra days alone at school. We were both excited to have the time alone and we were taking showers getting ready for bed. I set the hot water on full blast to steam up the bathroom for about 15 minutes before we got in to make it warmer in there. Between the steam and sound of the shower, we didn't hear one of my suite mates come in to the bathroom because she wondered who was in there. What she saw was the two of us in the shower with my boyfriend standing in front of me while I was on my knees holding his balls in one hand, holding the enema nozzle in his ass with my other hand and his dick in my mouth. It was a surprising situation, but we laughed it off and no one ever mentioned it again.

@sundaybrunch I realize that no two people are the same, but personally I cannot imagine a man going through life never having thought about spanking a woman's bottom. Either that or he just can't take a hint!

Interesting. I have multiple kinks or fetishes but have never had any interest in spanking or being spanked. If I ever met a woman interested in spanking one way or the other I'd probably at least let her try it especially if she mixed it with enemas. However, from the very first girlfriend I ever saw naked in college, I personally can't imagine a man getting through life never having inserted at least a finger into a woman's bottom and her returning the favor. I clearly remember thinking from the very first woman I made love with that I also wanted to play in her anus.

Eric

One other memorable time in college my boyfriend (now husband) and I stayed as long as we could before the school closed the dorms down after finals were over in contrast to everyone else who wanted to leave as soon as their last final was over. This often gave us two extra days alone at school. We were both excited to have the time alone and we were taking showers getting ready for bed. I set the hot water on full blast to steam up the bathroom for about 15 minutes before we got in to make it warmer in there. Between the steam and sound of the shower, we didn't hear one of my suite mates come in to the bathroom because she wondered who was in there. What she saw was the two of us in the shower with my boyfriend standing in front of me while I was on my knees holding his balls in one hand, holding the enema nozzle in his ass with my other hand and his dick in my mouth. It was a surprising situation, but we laughed it off and no one ever mentioned it again.

I'm honestly glad that you not only had the interest but also the personality to tell your boyfriends you wanted to give them sexual enemas as early as you did in college. And then made them do it. I wish I had done the same but when the cojones were passed out, you benefitted from a much bigger portion than I did. Good for you. I didn't even have my first sex with a woman until age 20 in sophomore year. That's a fun and cute story above. I would have guessed it wouldn't have fazed you in the slightest, and you'd have had an attitude something like "if you had to see me naked, I'm glad you got to see me and my lover having sex the way we like it."

In addition to all the informative and enjoyable posts I've read of yours about your kinks and other topics, quite seriously the most impressive thing about you for me is your long term extremely successful marriage and family life. Now I love my children very deeply and they are clearly the best thing I ever produced in this life, but after two divorces, it's clear I wasn't blessed with the kind of emotional maturity and ability to love and commit long term the way you have with your family. I am truly envious and am always happy to read about you all. All your kinks or fetishes are just even more icing on the cake.

Eric

Never had any date with anyone who was into kink. But then, I rarely ever met anyone into other hobbies or interests I have. I once asked a date if he was into spanking, and he said he had never thought about it.

I never have either. I'm always the one introducing my kinks to a new partner. However, it will normally take several days to weeks to months for me to finally explain that I'd love it if she'd dress me in a rubber catsuit and sneakers, tie me up (or down), give me a large enema and have sex with me! But it's worked several times over the years, with very gratifying results.

Eric

As mentioned elsewhere when my 1st wife learned of my love of enemas, she thought it perverted and the thought of me taking a enema actually made her retch! Okay, so when that marriage when kaput, and I started dated, I made sure to make it clear to the next gal I became serous with that I got off on enemas. Turns out she was a bit anal as well, so for next few years things worked out well enema-wise. After her, I did the same with the next, and that too was good.

Never on a first date. I posted before about my pre-marital experiences with my wife. I did have a brief mention about the subject with another girlfriend who had an "upset stomach". She was not receptive to the idea and I did not continue the conversation any further. Another former girlfriend was studying to be a nurse and had given enemas to patients but we never discussed having any activity together. I always wondered if she would have done it!

My girlfriend an I became good friends in Junior High, and she had been to my house a few times. Our douche/enema bag always hung in the shower, as was the norm in the 50’s and 60’s, and she knew it was there. After school one afternoon at my house, she was being a bit cranky, so I asked, if she was sick. She replied, “no, I got my period at school today.” I replied, “ oh, is there any thing that will help.” She said, “I need to talk to your sister.” I told her, “I think she’s in the bathroom.” She got up and said, “I’ll be back in a few minutes,” and went to the bathroom. And hour later, she reappear with my sister, an I could tell right away, she felt much better. I didn’t ask any questions about what happen, as we worked on our home work together, got a snack, and walked her home.

That evening, after we went to bed, I asked my sister, what she’d done to make my girlfriend feel better. She told me, “she needed a couple of enemas for her period cramps plus I used the douche nozzle and moved it back an forth as I twisted it. She really got off on that, so I told her you were real good at doing that for me.” She asked, “you let your brother give you enemas?” My sister replied, “sure, I taught him how to work the douche nozzle. You need to let him give you enemas when you need them, you won’t be sorry.” My girlfriend told my sister, “I’ll think about it, I sure don’t like my mom’s enemas, if your brother gives an enema anything like you, I think he’s going to be busy for a week every month.” My sister replied, “give him a try next time, as I said, you won’t be sorry.” At that, my girlfriend asked, “how long has he been giving you enemas?” My sister replied, “a couple of years now. We started not long after our grandmother taught us personal hygiene.” My girlfriend said, “so you’re parents know your doing enemas?” My sister replied, “they know we do our own enemas an I douche, but giving to each other, I don’t think so.” At that, my sister told me, “don’t say anything to her, let her ask you.”

I never said anything to my girlfriend about my conversation with my sister, and a month or two later, she asked me if I wouldn’t mind giving her enemas for period cramps. I said, “sure, as long as you return the favor.” She replied, “sure, as long as you use the douche nozzle on me.” I laughed and said, “my sister talks to much.” At that, my girlfriend laughed and said, “girls will be girls.”