Dating Enemas

I have two sisters, one older and one younger. All of us got enemas, but my younger sister was really into getting them. I can remember when my older sister came home from college for the holidays and left her folding syringe in the bathroom. By that age I knew what a douche was and knew that my older sister's syringe was not for enemas. Still, if I think about either of my sisters talking to my girlfriend about enemas it seems pretty farfetched. Not impossible, but certainly unlikely. I do remember however from college that girls would talk about douching because it was during that era when almost all women douched. I did hear of more than one instance of a college girl being introduced to douching by her room mates, a prime example being my wife.

As of yet, none. I hope to rectify this situation in the future with my current flame

I very mistakenly thought my 1st marriage would turn out to be something since while we were engaged she mentioned she had a problem with constipation and that the doctor told the mother to give her an enema every night for a week! The way my future wife told me of this and of her mother going out an buying an enema bag just for her.... So I figured my future wife was very amenable to enemas - boy was I ever wrong as I mentioned in a post below.

I was very shy back in the day and really didn't date. I think that was my hottest wet dream though. To go out on a date and get a nozzle in. I sure had a lot of fantasies about girls in my class and a date with the bag. Boy I wish I had that as a do over!

I was very shy when came to approaching and chatting up gals as a young man. It was like there was some sort of guilt lurking about in me; perhaps that I got sexual pleasure in giving myself enemas played a part in making me feel unworthy..

Back in the day, I was a fairly shy teenager that in no way had the balls to ask any of my girlfriends to either give or receive an enema. I was lucky to get a little action in the back seat of my car. Only after I had been married did I bring up the subject.

This guy who I dated in my mid 20s mentioned enemas two times while we were together. I nearly died when I heard him say that word. I was caught so off guard that I had to completely ignore him and pretend like I never even heard him say that word. He was a fun guy though. He liked anal sex and we used to have it pretty regularly. He even used to keep a bottle of KY on the table next to his bed. Fun times ?

I recently started dating a nurse practnicioner in her 50s, so I think I'm just going to ask her what her take on enemas is. That way I can back off if needed or then jump into it sort of speak. Any suggestions would be appreciated. We seem to be seeing eye to eye on most every issue, just hoping we click .

You may find like I did with my partner that she’s well versed in enemas but not interested in bringing the work home. I know another RN that’s kinky but not interested in enemas for the same reason.

Should have added that she works at an emergency clinic so I doubt enemas are part of the routine. She works 3 ea 12 hr shifts which is a very sweet deal, esp for me!

I can honestly say, "I've never dated an enema."

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Justme3, Let us know how the discussion goes.

Besides the women I met in a now defunct enema chat room - with whom the sharing of enemas was a foregone conclusion - I did manage to share some enemas with three other women, between marriages.

One woman was Hannah, who knew noting of my love of enemas. After a couple of weeks together, I knew Hannah had had some serious bowel problems, including a resection and at one point, she'd had a colostomy, since fixed.

One evening Hannah was not feeling well. Though she did not know of my love for enemas, I suggested an enema would help her problem. She shyly agreed. Figuring it wasn't wise to take her home and break out my 4-qy Klystra bag, with 10' of tubing and a 4' silicone colon tube, I stopped at a drugstore and bought a combination enema kit.

After we got back to my place, as I lubed her anus, with the bag filled with soapsuds hanging from a towel rod as she laid on a beach towel, she asked whether or not she could give me some enemas too. Of course, I agreed. I gave her a couple of strong soapsuds enemas and a nice plain water rinse enema. Unstated was the fact that I knew how to give effective, soothing enemas.

At that point, it was late, so we went to bed.

The next morning, she thanked me for taking care of her bowel problems, adding that she was afraid to ask for the enemas she knew she needed. She also said that it was apparent that I was very familiar with enemas. That opened the door to a good, honest discussion of enemas for each of us. Knowing Hannah would not bet too freaked out by my enema equipment collection, nor my love of enemas, I showed her what I had on hand, which led to her fulfilling (pun intended) her desire to give me some enemas. This led to a fun half year of enema fun and pegging. Alas, we were not meant for each other for the long term, but she and I sure did have some fun!

Ever since my divorce I have introduced my dates to enemas early in the relationship. If they bail, it was not meant to be.

Finally found my wife and she was all in for enema play before we ever got married.

Communication is the key.

Late last week I had an interesting experience regarding an encounter at lunch. I had run to the hardware store and decided to grab a burger while out. As I was eating an attractive lady came in with her mother and sat at the nearest table (COVID distanced) from me. She was turned 45 degrees from me but when she got up to go grab their order as she pivoted on the chair she flashed me, I think, unintentionally. She saw me looking and smiled shyly. A little later she again got up to refill their drinks and flashed me again, slower than the first time. Once she had passed me I got up and went to the beverage dispenser as well. While she was refilling their cups in a low voice I asked if it was a matching set, black and lacy. She turned and looked at me with a slight smile and said “wouldn’t you like to know”. I immediately said yes, that’s why I asked and why I was looking. I asked what she was doing later and would she like to meet somewhere and chat. Long story short, we did meet later, and discovered we had a lot of similar interests. Note that we observed COVID precautions until we had both talked about any symptoms, risk etc.

Yesterday we got together again, and this time the toys came out! She’s no stranger to the world of enemas! I had brought my gear bag with my nozzles, tubes and 4 quart bag and she had her own bag so we had a bunch of fun with enemas until we both were exhausted. And the sex was pretty good, too! We are meeting again this Saturday for more fun and games.

So the point is, don’t be shy to take a peak and take the chance that your comments will fall on interested ears.

First girlfriend, as a teen. She was no stranger to enemas because she got constipated quite often, and her Mom had given them to her till she was 12 or so. She really hated them because her Mom was quite rough with her. Sat her on the toilet, used lots of soap, etc. I can't remember how I brought up the subject, but she told me, "no way," even though she loved anal. One evening, when we were about to go out for a date, she confided in me that she needed to be cleaned out. She knew I wanted to do it, and so we went to her place (parents' bowling nite), and I gave her a couple enemas with the family bag.. Small, but they got her going. The enemas became a fairly regular thing. Wish I had told her I liked them as well, but I was pretty conflicted about my role at the time (I knew I was a Dom by then, but didn't understand that you can be Dom and still enjoy receiving enemas) and never told her. I was 16, I think, & she was 17. Memories!

Late last week I had an interesting experience regarding an encounter at lunch. I had run to the hardware store and decided to grab a burger while out. As I was eating an attractive lady came in with her mother and sat at the nearest table (COVID distanced) from me. She was turned 45 degrees from me but when she got up to go grab their order as she pivoted on the chair she flashed me, I think, unintentionally. She saw me looking and smiled shyly. A little later she again got up to refill their drinks and flashed me again, slower than the first time. Once she had passed me I got up and went to the beverage dispenser as well. While she was refilling their cups in a low voice I asked if it was a matching set, black and lacy. She turned and looked at me with a slight smile and said “wouldn’t you like to know”. I immediately said yes, that’s why I asked and why I was looking. I asked what she was doing later and would she like to meet somewhere and chat. Long story short, we did meet later, and discovered we had a lot of similar interests. Note that we observed COVID precautions until we had both talked about any symptoms, risk etc.

Yesterday we got together again, and this time the toys came out! She’s no stranger to the world of enemas! I had brought my gear bag with my nozzles, tubes and 4 quart bag and she had her own bag so we had a bunch of fun with enemas until we both were exhausted. And the sex was pretty good, too! We are meeting again this Saturday for more fun and games.

So the point is, don’t be shy to take a peak and take the chance that your comments will fall on interested ears.

This is a very hot scenario to me. I am too shy naturally to go that far but as I get older the possibilities get better!

You ARE a LUCKY Gentleman

I would lead the conversation to healthy eating, then to fasting. I would ask them if they ever did an enema fast. if they seemed interested we progressed from there. Also if she liked anal sex that was a good gateway. One girlfriend told me she took an enema before a date. We've been married for 33 wonderful enema filled years. I love her so.

I wouldn't bring it up on the first date but eventually I would find out if she's anally erotic. If she is I bring up enemas. I know what I want and no enemas is a deal breaker for me.

I think if it's the woman who has the enema fetish and wants to introduce enemas to a boyfriend, then it is likely an easy sell. Susie's enema introduction to her now husband is a classic example. Guys are easily cajoled with the offer of sex. Introducing a woman to enemas is a much more delicate proposition and the guy really needs to navigate that conversation carefully.

So ladies, if you are into enemas you shouldn't have too much of a problem getting your boyfriend to try them as part of hot sex date.

I've had some luck in bringing up enemas as part of stimulating the prostate. If I get the chance to stimulate her g-spot, I will mention that men have one too if they aren't familiar with it. Usually she'll start with fingers and toys. Of course, the topic of being clean will come up. So I mention an enema would help with that and the warm water and nozzle are a nice prostate stimulator. That usually leads to questions about enemas. It doesn't always work, but it has several times for me.

Back in college I dated a girl whose mom was an RN. One time when I was complaining about some ailment she volunteered that her mom would tell me "to take two aspirin and sit on the john." I countered with "and suppose that doesn't work?" Her reply was that in her house her mom would insist on giving me an enema. She was the second of four girls and was not bashful about admitting that her mom gave enemas to all of them. At the time I was not enthusiastic about enemas and didn't pursue the discussion.