When performing a vaginal exam, which part is the most exciting?

I enjoy all aspects of the vaginal examination but I think my favourite part is inspecting the clitoris, retracting the clitoral hood and seeing the little pink bud exposed in all its glory is always thrilling. I also like to use a Collins speculum which affords a beautifully unrestricted view of the urethral opening.

I really enjoyed reading all of the descriptions from the medical professionals here. I get tired of hearing that trite 'the body is all the same to me, I just care about your health.' explanation from medical providers. It's great to know that you like looking at my pussy and get a thrill from doing so. Now I will watch my provider and see which parts he seems to like most.

Some providers, you can tell, really don't care. Others do things just a bit more slowly, and they keep their eyes on the pussy.

I personally like when the provider spreads my lips and exposes me to the cool air. I know they can see my clit hood, inner lips, pee hole and my vaginal opening that's about to be thrust into with fingers and tools. There's one doctor that I had when I was pregnant who would pull up on my outer lips so that my clit would pop out of the hood. He would hold it like that while he asked "have you been having any issues down here?". It took maybe 4 seconds, but I loved feeling his breath on my clit and knowing that he could see my little bud when he asked. I'm positive my pussy twitched when he asked.

Let's face it, a gyno exam is a sexual encounter. It's much nicer when everyone admits it.

I really enjoy all of the preparation and anticipation (both in me and my "patient"): having her get undressed in front of me, putting on the gown, laying out the instruments, gloves, lube, etc., positioning her on the table, putting up the stirrups. I like to take a lot of time in the prep. I think it builds the anticipation in both of us. Then I raise her arms over her head and begin examining her breasts, first over the gown, and then slowly I unwrap the gown at the top so that I can reach under it to massage her breasts and nipples, which obviously already are firming up into hard peaks.

Then I slowly slide my hands down her abdomen, palpitating it, and then I place one hand on her inner thigh and slowly spread it outwards and gently lift her foot into the stirrup. Then I do the same with her other thigh and foot. Then I slowly slide her gown up to her waist, and usually my "patients" are already glistening wet by that time as I grasp each labia lip with my finger and thumb and spread them wide so that I can see her aroused clit standing at attention for me. That's what I love the most!

...Having the speculum inside of me. I love the cold metal, and feeling the cold air in the room rushing inside of me when my doctor spreads me open. It's intense lying there, stretched wide open, with a speculum locked in place. I can't move away, or close my legs... I have to just lie there and submit

Pretty much my favorite part of administering the exam. That, and how others have mentioned, the bi-manual and recto-vaginal exam are intimate and exciting as well!

For me it is totally different if it's in real life or play.

In real life the point I appreciate most is when I am finished and the doctor says everything is alright.

In play ist is clearly the speculum when it is put in place. The feeling of it going in, turned and finally opened ist the very best part for me.

The instructing to undress, to lay down, to submit, to become exposed and totally on show

Margo911 sounds perfect. I’d like to watch you do all of that to one of our patients

In real life I always enjoy the feeling of the speculum being inserted and opened.

In play life I enjoy the rectal vaginal exam as I know I will be thoroughly examined....

In the recto-vaginal examination, at least the way I perform it, there is a brief moment where my index finger is almost inserted in the vagina to where I need it for the exam, but just before I've begun the insertion of my middle finger into the rectum, that is my absolute favorite part. Typically, I perform the recto-vaginal last, after the pap and the bi-manual, so by this point in the exam I've become well acquainted with my patient's vagina and my index finger is revisiting familiar territory, as it were. But since I haven't yet examined the rectum at all, there's a wonderful moment of anticipation as I'm about to discover what my middle finger will encounter. Will my patient be able to accept my insertion with ease? With difficulty? Will she tighten up or relax once I have both fingers inside her for the exam? What emotion might I catch flashing across her face as I add the rectal finger?

I notice that younger or less experienced patients also tend to share something of this moment of anticipation (I can sometimes even feel it manifest in a quick tightening against my vaginal finger), while I don't tend to see this in older or more experienced patients. Probably that just comes down to comfort and familiarity with the procedure of the recto-vaginal over the course of a number of pelvic exams. But in both cases, I hope that they're also enjoying going beyond the two insertions (speculum and two fingers for the bi-manual) that we've already experienced together in the exam up to that point, and that they get something out of the different sensation of having simultaneous vaginal and rectal insertions.

A strong second place moment in the exam is adjusting the Graves speculum by increasing the opening vertically, rather than just by separating the tips of the bills wider. I love watching how it changes both my internal view and presses against the external anatomy in a different way.

I enjoy feeling the speculum as it is opening. I always wish it would open more... wider... maybe even a little too wide....

I think the most exciting part of the exam is initially, when the patient is positioned and spreads her legs. Yo first see the labia and hair (or lack thereof, lol). Then, first touching the labia to do a very thorough external assessment. Then, the speculum exam comes, which seems a bit anticlimatic. The internal exam, slipping ones fingers into the vagina, is certainly the most intimate part of the exam. Ones well lubricated fingers slide into the warm and smoothness of the vagina. Finally, it is also very exciting to do a rectal vaginal exam. I like to do a bit of rimming with my finger on the external anus, before gradually slipping my finger into the anus.