When performing a vaginal exam, which part is the most exciting?

What part of the vaginal exam do you enjoy doing the most, and why?

Difficult one to answer as I really enjoy the speculum examination but also the internal examination. The internal I feel is the more intimate as it involves placing fingers inside the vagina but using a speculum has it's own attraction due to the woman having a metal instrument placed inside.

I enjoy performing the internal bimanual exam the most. It is a more intimate exam than the speculum exam in my opinion. The speculum exam is more clinical, using a metal or plastic instrument to insert into the vagina to hold it open for a visual inspection of the internal structures and to obtain samples. Very clinical. The bimanual exam involves not only inserting fingers into a woman's vagina, but actually feeling and manipulating the cervix, uterus and ovaries. Very personal indeed.

The rectovaginal exam is equally intimate.

Difficult one to answer as I really enjoy the speculum examination but also the internal examination. The internal I feel is the more intimate as it involves placing fingers inside the vagina but using a speculum has it's own attraction due to the woman having a metal instrument placed inside.

And how many women have you examined? Have you had a lot of experience?

My ex use to enjoy the bi manual exam and the speculum parts and he said I was always the most vulnerable when I had the metal speculum opened to its max inside me.

I always enjoy inserting and opening the speculum in a patient’s vagina. I love being able to look into a vagina and seeing the cervix at the end of the speculum. Being able to actually look into and see the interior of a woman’s vagina is an uncommon view that most don’t see about that woman. I’m guessing, but I don’t think most husbands or partners even have seen what their woman’s vagina, let alone cervix look like. I also like the speculum opening the vagina part because the speculum is prying her open and the instrument makes her look captive and vulnerable with it inside her cavity.

I think my favorite part is getting her positioned and that initial moment when her legs are first spread and I click the exam light on and her crotch is in the spotlight.

I enjoy all of it, immensely, but that first sight never fails to get my heart pumping.

Aberrent,

Your profile taught me how to spell the word "pique" correctly, as I have apparently been spelling it wrong for years! 😜 In reference to the question, I am on the receiving end of the exam, but my favorite part is a tie between the moment of initial insertion for the bimanual, and after a graves speculum is inserted and the bills are opened... there is another adjustment on the handle to slide up vertically and open me wider.... that sensation is one of my favorites.

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Also what reggind said is definitely one of my favorites also.

I enjoy the whole process, from the changing to a gown, to "scheduling " the next appointment. I would say that the most enjoyment is the facial expressions as I progress through the procedure, the snap of the gloves, the sounds of the instruments, the insertion and opening of the speculum. The sound of the squirt of lube on the glove before the start of the recto-vaginal exam. I quite enjoy the whole process.

It's always nice too when you positioning her legs and her lips part just a bit and you get your first view of her.

The bimanual exam the fingers in nice and deep and then the pressure on the lower abdomen feels great to

To me

As the administering Doctor, I enjoy the points that have let to the examination of her vagina. Everything from having her disrobe, answer the personal questions, allow me to palpate her abdomen, all while she knows very well what is coming next...''Go ahead and slide aLL the way to the edge of the table, put your feet in the stirrups and let your knees fall open please''

This play is just as much mental as it is physical. Both the patient and Doctor on the same exact sheet of music is the magic. I truly love performing methodical physical examinations on female patients.

I enjoy the recto-vaginal exam which is my most favorite!

I exam itself is great all the way around; the visual inspection with just the tips of the fingers, followed up by the speculum exam; the bimanual and then the recto vaginal exam. But the best part is the psychological part at the beginning, when the patient is still dressed and seated on the table for the interview, knowing full well what is coming. I love to ask all the personal questions and let the excitement, anxiety build. The body language and the nervous anxiety from the patient, who knows full well that she is about to receive her instructions to get undressed and will then have to place her feet in the stirrups and slide down the table...

...Having the speculum inside of me. I love the cold metal, and feeling the cold air in the room rushing inside of me when my doctor spreads me open. It's intense lying there, stretched wide open, with a speculum locked in place. I can't move away, or close my legs... I have to just lie there and submit to having a dirty old man look inside my pussy.

When I examine my girlfriend, I love how she blushes when I spread her open.

Love @NotJuliet 's description of blushing away when spread open.

Are you talking about legs being spread open or labia?

I also love the facial expression of the patient when her private areas are being examined, especially if she moves her arms to cover her face or places them over her head and moans in pleasure.

Have to agree with Reggind, the moment when I first have my patient in position and open to me. I do of course enjoy the speculum and rectovaginal exam as well.

When I'm examined by my favorite doctor every part of my gynecology examination is like being in heaven. I'm a lucky lady! I have my own private clinic. I like to add a bit of teasing also. My doctor loves me and me him!

When i do exam, i like to discover the cervix. That's very intense for me

I would have to say that the bimanual and the rectovaginal are my favorites. I think it is probably due to the intimacy of my fingers being in places that most of society consider very private.

1. "Please slide to the end of the table and let your legs fall apart"

2. recto-vaginal for same reasons as @CincyMetroEGiver

3. parting the labia for the first time with a new patient.

For me, the top three parts would be 1) When the patient scoots down the table, watching her hips shimmy down. The anticipation and the awkward way in trying to position herself without falling off. 2) The visual exam of the anus during the external exam. Parting the buttocks to get it into view. and finally, 3) The recto-vaginal exam.

When you open the lips the first time. do you slightly push them up and apart to pop out the clitoris.

This would be the most exciting part of the exam.

Next, when you pull out the speculum and white stuff comes out with it.

Reggind, that is my absolutely favorite part of the whole thing. I don't know if it's the vulnerability or the trust it takes to be in that position, especially if the doctor is unknown to you. But mostly, it's the idea that you are exposing your "privates" to someone. One of my docs was a cute, young guy who came from California and was interested in my having a hobby farm at the time. He would kind of drag the exam out, looking back at me all spread open and asking me questions about the farm, while he washed his hands and put on gloves. And then after removing the spec, he would just stand there and talk for a minute before he reached for the lube. He was very nonchalant about it, and being in my position, waiting for his next move, was a total turn on.

Agree with others, having labia spread for the first time is thrilling. Also when the speculum is first opened I love the feeling of being spread and the feeling of ultimate internal exposure. I love how it hurts at first and then gradually feels good as I stretch to accommodate it.

I agree with the visual first...taking time to see everything.... giving the patient time to think she is laying there exposed and being looked at. The next would be slowly parting the lips...to see deep inside.... Letting her feel that cool air touching her as she is spread open. A lot of this is a mind game..making her wait... the touching inside will all come in do time.