Does small penis make you more vulnerable to being submissive?

“It's not how deep you fish, it's how well you wiggle your worm.”

For me it makes me very submissive. When I’m soft I measure 1” long and 3/4” girth, my foreskin overhangs about 3/4” over my head and my balls are tight. I love having a tiny penis but I’m also embarrassed by it because I don’t measure up to the other men my age. If someone humiliated me about my tiny penis I get very submissive and into a sub space that all I wanna do is worship their big cock and let them use me however they please. To be honest I prefer my penis soft over hard and that’s mainly because I also suffer from mild ED.

Anything that feels childish tends to make you feel submissive (like a child). Small penis fits that category.

As I became older with the onset of diabetes and the usage of pharmaceuticals my penis started shrinking. It is currently two inches soft, and barely three inches if I can get it soft. It's a sad state for a person who was very sexually active.

I am not ready to give up sex, I decided to become submissive, so for me a small penis equaled submission.

I don't think there can be a direct relationship between the small size of the penis and the possible predisposition to submission. Certainly, a very small size can create problems of insecurity due more than anything else to the fact that one thinks of female sexuality as limited only to penetration, not bearing in mind that, easily, a woman can be satisfied much more, using tongue and fingers in imaginative ways.

Personally, I have noticed that many girls love to play and get very excited with my penis when it is not excited and flaccid (about 6 or 7 cm). In erection it is normal, but with my 15 cm I am certainly not super-gifted.

It was interesting to read some comments regarding what I call the "turtle head effect" and which, at least for me, occurs when I swim in the sea... hahahaha sometimes I seem to see a baby's cock.

YES!

@agracier I definitely cannot at my age be as hard as when I was in my 20s and my width has thus decreased.

I definitely cannot at my age be as hard as when I was in my 20's and my width has thus decreased.

@Pecan_nutjob then you have to find other ways in which to give the pleasure needed or desired to your partner. My sub sometimes does is satisfying with this method.

I have a grower (blood penis) so in a medical setting i have 2 possibilities.

1. penis is due to anxiety and nervousness very small and i am very embarrassed

2. or if i dont want that i have to get an erection while the nurse or female doc examines me, but this is also not optimal

hahaha so yes if your penis is small when its unerected, to have much more sorrows than people who have a "shower" meat penis

@MissStress Oh, I can do penetration and all that. What I'm pointing to is that when I was young, I was really thick (circumference 15cm at the widest point) and this has lessened.

I certainly agree. It however turns me on very much when my Queen mocks it's size. I get off by showing it to her. She does a wonderful job with the humiliation aspect of it.

Fitting this into my own particular wiring, i parse this out quite a bit. i make a distinction between "penis" and "cock." To me, all males have a penis, but not all males have a 'cock.' The difference is in how he sees and uses it. To me, a penis is both and eliminatory organ and a sexual organ. To me a "cock" is about penetrating, inseminating, impregnating... and all those words have varied and even infinite depth and meaning given human individuality and variety. i also see "cock" as being both a psychological organ as well as physical. i have a penis, but i don't have a "cock." I experience my penis more like an overgrown clitoris, so while i may have a larger than average penis, i don't even have a 'cock,' let alone a "small" one.

On the receiving end, both the physical size and psychological size of a Mans cock factor in to their effects on me. A large physical cock is very powerful for me when getting penetrated and fucked, overwhelming in a good way. But it definitely gets smaller and less effective if the mans internal cock is small. Vice versa, i've had better sex with Men who have a big psychological and a small physical cock.

For me, it's more about the size of a Mans inner/psychological cock than it is about His physical cock. No amount of physical size can compensate for a small internal/psychological cock. i'll take a Man with a large psychological/internal cock over a man with (only) a large physical/external cock any day. The Man with a big internal/psychological cock is the one Who can keep me 'barefoot and pregnant.'

I would tell you but first I would need to experience life with a small penis 😄

It used too, and I not only was very small when I could be erect it was 3". And I struggled then, also as I continuously prematurely ejaculated. But my friend would guide my mouth to her ample breasts and I would suckle as I do now, then she would help me guide my mouth to a very wet vagina. I knew what to do, and yes performing this would induce ejaculation. We're getting along fine