Does small penis make you more vulnerable to being submissive?

I won't speak for all women but I can tell you that your above statement isn't correct, at least for me. And if I am being honest with you I would say that most of us feel the same way. Small penis' just don't do much if anything for us.

Mashie

@Mashie, I like numbers.

Give me a number. Specifically a number.

How small is small in length and girth?

To me all counts. In my opinion and according to my experience in most cases. There is a natural predisposition to someone who has a large muscular body to be strong. Also having a large penis to be a good lover. Although I personally do not even think so. Because a man with a big penis is full of himself and neglects a woman. But a man with a little one has a predisposition to make a great effort to conquer a woman. Apart from the physical is important the mental state. If Someone is powerful intellectually, in most cases can lead the game. So every little factor in life has an influence on personality. I personally love female sex. But when you ask me for men, I like the small ones, because then I always run the game. And I really enjoy DOM games, and humiliation of small peanuts and they owners. Small ones remind me with a nice big clitoris.

I like numbers.

Give me a number. Specifically a number.

How small is small in length and girth?

According to one study, the average depth of a vagina is about 3.77 inches, which is 9.6 centimeters (cm). Other sources suggest that the average range of size may be about 3 to 7 inches(approximately 7.6–17.7 cm). (https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/321220.php). The vagina's size and depth changes in certain situations. During arousal, more blood flows to the vagina. This causes the vagina to elongate and the cervix, or tip of the uterus, to lift up slightly, allowing more of a penis, finger, or sex toy to fit in the vagina.

From WikiL. Erect penis lengths average from 12 to 16 centimeters (4.7 to 6.3 inches). Erect circumference is around 12 centimeters (4.7 inches) or 1.49 inch diameter.

Perhaps the best gauge of what is considered to be a small penis is given by the threshold used by doctors for when penile augmentation may be considered. "Only men with a flaccid length of less than 4 centimeters [1.6 inches], or a stretched or erect length of less than 7.5 centimeters [3 inches] should be considered candidates for penile lengthening." The article didn't mention 'girth' as a factor for being too small.

I am not a woman so I won't try to derive any conclusions, speculations, or definitions of what size is too small. Maybe some of you gals can use this as a reference for what size you consider small. I suspect it's a different number for most.

I don't have a number for you, as I hadn't measured myself since I was a teenager, but I've had a number of comments from GF's and exes over the years that lead me to believe that my erections were quite substantial when I was still getting them (pretty severe ED now). Relative to this thread, even though I never had any size complaints, plus a number of compliments, I'm a switch with a great fondness for the submissive side, especially when it comes to enemas, bondage and rubber clothes and shoes. It would seem to me that just having an ample or large size package doesn't automatically mean you'll wind up as a pure dominant. By the same token I'd agree with others here in thinking that a smaller physical size doesn't necessarily predispose you to being submissive. Just my 2¢ worth.

Eric

It does. My wife has a Polaroid of my member from when we were married. Today after many years she often compares that photo to what I have now and always smiled and grins and then has me assume my position.

It does. My wife has a Polaroid of my member from when we were married. Today after many years she often compares that photo to what I have now a.

And how does the comparison come out now? Has it grown, has it shrunk, has it remained the same?

I've never heard of a penis fundamentally changing size over the years for any normal reason. But maybe in some instances it does.

Yes i think it certainly does. I knew i had an issue growing up, the other boys were changing but not me. I think that's a big reason i was raised like i was, puberty didn't happen for me till 16. Even then not much changed so i was very self concious about my appearance. As much as it bothered me back then i kinda enjoy the look and feel now, takes me back to growing up Interesting how things change

I am average sized and girth and feel embarrassed around medical professionals whether male or female. I know that is weird but worry. I shave my body sometimes and as luck would have it had to have veins in my legs taken care of and never thought about what it would look like. Was given pills and a salve was spread all the way from my ankle to the groin. As I had to strip from the waste down and told to lay on my back. I closed my eyes and repeated in my mind don’t get hard.

"Does small penis make you more vulnerable to being submissive?"

It can for me. i don't have a particularly small penis, but if a Top/Dom treats it as such, minimizes it in a matter of fact way... like that's how He really sees it, not like He is purposely trying to belittle it. When He manages to get in my head, make me feel like it's not really for penetrating or breeding like His is, then it definitely makes me feel more vulnerable and submissive.

The constant social media attention to size does become tiring. Not everyone looks like a horse! That said, it does become ingrained in most males to evaluate their package when growing up or surrounded by others when in a locker room or sauna. I don't really regard size as relating to being submissive. I feel for me it surely relates to embarrassment and self consciousness. The times when I turtle are generally not when I wish that to happen. When you're two inches or less flaccid, there isn't a lot of tolerance left, that is, you get smaller and it becomes very obvious. I would say at the doctor's I feel rather submissive for sure when he is examining me.

I am a grower, it looks pretty modest until you turn me on ..."stand back I know how big this thing gets" LOL

I have had nurses literaly just put a diaper over the flagpole because they couldn't tape my diaper up over the erection.

The size of your penis has nothing to do with you being more vulnerable to being submissive. Being submissive or Dominant is a decision you make based on how you feel about one or the other. That is a decision you make with your brain.

For most of my life I have been a switch. That is I like being both submissive as well as being dominant. That way I can relate to more people and hopefully they can relate to me as well.

It is unfortunate how much focus has been placed on body fat, muscle size and penis size over the years...and the body shaming that has come with it. In the play room we all have our preferences, but in my opinion, it all comes down to confidence and BDSM experience.

Subs know when they are in the same room with a real Dom. That person exudes confidence and know-how, if you will. By the way, I can't spot a fake Dom in a "New York second" - most are insecure and on power-trips! Getting back to the confident and secure Doms, I have had the pleasure to play with men who did not turn my head because of body type or how they looked, but they were a lot of fun because they knew what they were doing and could stimulate my brain and cock sexually. They had an inherent way of pulling me in with good interpersonal skills and confidence.

I have also played with Doms who were definitely not well endowed, but they exuded confidence and experience in the playroom -- and that is all that mattered. We had fun sessions! The penis size just didn't matter - the only thing that mattered was following orders.

On the other hand, I have roped a number of boys and put them in their place -- and I am certainly not well endowed. We are who we are and should not allow what Hollywood and Madison Ave project as the perfect sized cock or body-type hold us back from growing and exploring different roles in the dungeon or in the public world!

Have fun!

Think of a stallion. When he's done using his penis he doesn't leave it dragging in the dirt, it retracts back up into his abdomen, leaving only the sheath showing. My hubby has one like that, perfectly normal in length and girth when erect, vanishing so nothing but the head is visible when not in use. He's not very sexually submissive, but fortunately I am.

~Diane

Think of a stallion. When he's done using his penis he doesn't leave it dragging in the dirt, it retracts back up into his abdomen, leaving only the sheath showing.

I'm also "a grower not a shower". I have a nice and neat, small and smooth package which when aroused grows into a larger than average cock and balls... I think being at both ends of the spectrum so to speak has something to do with me being switchable and having the ability to enjoy being either submissive or Dominant... 😈

Yes especially if it's really small. If you can't even get it in a crack of an ass

. You will amazed at the number ways women like play and be to be satisfied. For centuries big and small has worked. There are many women who do not orgasm solely through intercourse .

I wouldn't say submissive but I sure won't scare anyone with my device. And what I lacked in size, I made up with technique, Nowadays, I would love to find someone small that is local to have some fun with..let's just say I will make them very happy..

Elaine

I have been told, rubbing a soft micropenis into the Woman's clit is in some ways like lesbians making love. Especially if the male is Feminine

Small penis makes me think that i'm not just vulnerable but pretty bad and disgusted. orrr… something like that.

I for one crave a small penis when I am in my cum slut mood. I love to play and touch a guy with a small penis. I can suck on one and pleasure him while enjoying him in my mouth. I also enjoy sucking on guys who have ed problems I know they appreciate it and that is good enough for me

Does small penis make one more vulnerable to being submissive? Just as much as a small navel, pinky toe, or left earlobe. But not any more so. I don't think anyone, male or female, is vulnerable to being submissive, dominant, or switch. One is or isn't, and tomorrow that might change.

Mine is but 2", but I've never complained.

Interesting question, I have an average size penis about 5,9 inch (15/16 cm), and for me it's very exciting if the Doctor during a play exam says something like “your penis is a bit under average size considering your age, this means that I have to perform a really thorough genital examination to understand if it's all ok”.

In other words the Doctor use this excuse to justify the extremely accurate genital exam and this is very exciting for me 😀

I think they call it small man syndrome. Some guys with small penises are big dickheads.

I believe it does and mine made me more sub, especially to women. I have to try harder to please them, which is fine with me, love eating pussy and ass. Having a small dicklette and being in awe of real cocks made me try cross dressing.

As for my penis, it was kind of small until I was about 12½ years old. It is now quite large, especially when it gets hard. As for it making me more submissive, I do not think it did or does. I have always enjoyed being submissive when I am with other males. As for being submissive when I am with females, it depends on both the female and the reason for being with her. Sometimes I will be submissive to her. Sometimes I will be Dominant with her. Sometimes I will be a switch with her and submit to her for period of time and then make her be submissive to me for a period of time.

I can't speak for all women, but for me, a guy's dick size matters not one iota. If I like a guy, I care more about the man that the dick is attached to than I care about the dick itself. If the guy is a jerk, I'm never going to see his dick anyway, because I'm not going to deal with him at all.

Some guys have dicks that don't work, or work only some of the time. Who cares? The guy has fingers and a tongue. That can make up for it.

My guess is small penis size is more of an issue for men than women.

My guess is small penis size is more of an issue for men than women.

The men need to be paying attention to the ladies responses. We don't just fall for you and your cock. The big brain does matter too.

For those who haven't heard this one.

“Its not the size of the wand, it's the magician behind it.”