Butt Plug won't stay in

I've ordered dozens of plugs over the years and my experience is that unless you can see them in front of you, it is very difficult to know which models you will find to be what you are looking for. It is convenient and usually somewhat cheaper to buy on-line, but it will result in a lot of bad buys.

I recently found a good shop in Brussels with a wide range of plugs on display. This makes it so much easier to make a good choice if you can take a good long look at them before purchasing. Been very happy with all my purchases there.

Having read all of the posts in this thread, I agree with most of what has been written. Several years ago I bought two Doc Johnson plugs, not knowing which would work best. The medium plug will not stay in on its own, but I have been able to keep it in by putting on an old pair of my wife's panties, pulling the back into my butt crack like a thong, and making sure the edges of the panties completely cover the base of the plug.

The large plug gave me fits going in but stayed in. The flange, however, was very uncomfortable and I never wore it for long. I apparently need to work on stretching since now it will not go in at all.

The discussion on Ben Gay is further proof to me that I have a high threshold of pain since it only tingles a little when put in my ass, and gets my attention but is tolerable when put on my junk.

@EnemaNewbie

I want a butt plug that stays in but is not comfortable. A comfortable Butt Plug wouldn't be much of a punishment.

OK, now I understand what do you want. I would suggest you make one such plug by yourself: take a large silicone plug, like Doc Johnson Super Big End, end trim it at the widest part with a sharp knife, like a quarter of an inch deep round and around. The surface will be rough since there's no way to cut silicone smoothly. If you don't trim it too much it will still have good bulb/neck ratio and will stay in well, but with the rough part right at your squeezing sphincter. Since silicone is smooth enough it won't hurt you or scratch you, but you will certainly feel it every second you have it in! Been there, done that 😉

Have fun!

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I did read most of this article and it reflects alot of what I have observed, experienced and been telling people for years. This is certainly worth reading for anyone new or even those that think they are experienced.

I have never had a problem with my large nJoy slipping out. The narrow neck and handle make sure it stays put, no matter what I'm doing.

https://www.amazon.com/njoy-E22225-NJOY-Large-Pure/dp/B00FEKPMDQ

I find that wearing a very tight panty girdle works.

…might try wearing a crotch rope

Bottom line is if you can't keep a plug in your using the wrong plug. Experiment with different sizes and shapes until you find one the will stay in. Most times the width and length of the neck is the most important feature that determines if it will stay in.