Hi Guys. Been a lurker here, but really want to add to this. I'm small - my soft dick is 6.5cm (about 2.5 inches) and when I'm fully erect it's 12cm (a bit over 4.5 inches). My balls hang lower than my dick - well, when I'm soft I don't really 'hang' at all.
Growing up, I was really self conscious - I knew from seeing over guys in the shower at the pool, from porn, and later from reading stuff online that I wasn't just worried unnecessarily - I read all those studies that said, 'the average penis is about 6 inches' - I knew I was well 'below average'.
It doesn't help that I'm 6'1" tall, so when I'm naked it looks out-of-proportion and really tiny.
When I started having sex in my early 20s (I'm gay and have only had sex with men), I started getting the occasional comment. I'd meet some guy, go back to his or my place, he'd undo my jeans, pull down my boxers and he'd say, 'oh... I thought you'd be bigger'. I've heard that loads....... 'I thought you'd be bigger'. Sometimes a guy would spend ages holding my dick against his, masturbating us both - but I'd know what he was really doing was comparing us... admiring his own much bigger schlong next to my little one.
At the same time, I got loads of great oral sex. Most men can deep-throat my little willy easily and I love getting sucked. And I'm good at fucking too - I can go balls-deep fast and hard without hurting a guy, and I know how to hit a man's G-spot.
More recently, I've realised that I got a fetish side to me - and I've got into being submissive, being exposed, bondage and serving a master. My small dick has been a big part of some role play. For example, I met up with this dominant guy a few weeks ago, who said he was into verbal humiliation. He tied me up and stripped me - and when he saw how small I was, all his attention was on my dick - letting me know how tiny it was. It was a massive turn-on and I've realised that I 'own' my smallness and it's part of my sex play these days.
I'm pretty proud to be small now - I put 'small dick' on my dating profiles.