2and 3/4 inch hard , about 1 inch around , lost in the pubic hair when soft , yes like a litle boys. But it works to have children. Sex is not easy for me, a lot of positions just don't work. Doggie style , I pop out almost every stroke . Missionary position is the one that works best for me. If she is on top, when ever we thrust , I pop out. Then there are pussy farts , when you pop out and push back in fact you push air into the vagina, then when enough is pushed inside it escapes, embarrassing fir the female, but not her fault. That's why I'm a cuckold, some other guy can give her what she needs.