Did the first person you had intercourse with - Penis In Vagina - know you were a virgin?

For Men and Women:

Did the first person you had Penis In Vagina intercourse with know you were a virgin?

Did they know before or while you were doing it? Did you tell them afterward? Did they ever find out they were your first sex partner?

Yes my husband knew he was my first. I told him just a few days after I started to see him that I was a virgin but I think he was not surprised. I think we started to plan having sex when we had been seeing each other for about 2 weeks and I think it was about 4 or 5 weeks when he gave me my first time. We got a really lovely afternoon in July and I was in his bedroom for the first time and he made it special for me.

I dated a girl where I was the youngest guy she dated on an age differential basis. I didn't find out her actual age until after the first time we had intercourse. She knew I was a virgin and took delight in showing me how it was done.. including putting on a condom she supplied. She was 16 and I was 21.

No he didn’t know it was my first time I was at a party at a friends house we had been drinking He got me in a bedroom It wasn’t memorable really up until then I had just been giving oral I never ever told he was my first But I do remember his name he was 4 years older than me

Yes she did. We were both virgins, we were both 20 years old, and it was our wedding night. But, of course, in 1965 it wasn't all that unusual.

I was 18 and she was 24. I realized she was turned on by getting a younger inexperienced guy, and she quizzed me about being a virgin several time. Looking back I guess she was turned on by hearing that. She was always so ready, so wet and the sounds she made, made me afraid I was hurting her. It seems when I went as deep as possible with her legs up it caused some pain. We had several fuck dates and it was exciting beyond belief. Her pussy was so smooth and wet and her tits were so beautiful with hard nipples, I could not believe my good luck at being able to call her up any time for long fucking.

I was 16, my girlfriend was 18, and we were both virgins. However, I had lied about it and claimed to have experience. I was clumsy, over-anxious, insensitive and generally terrible as a lover. Afterwards, I confessed my falsehood. We worried ourselves sick until her next period, because I had not used a condom. We eventually broke up and she married a real man, six years older than me. Decades later, I got her number from her mother, called her, and apologized for my abominable conduct. She said she had long since forgiven me. Great lady who dodged a bullet.

The first time I had sex was with a prostitute in Japan. I was with a friend and we were so nervous we put a condom on before we arrived at the brothel! I have no idea how old the prostitute was. For some reason I chose the oldest and most matronly—not my type at all. She was probably in her late thirties. She asked me if it was the first time. When I said yes, she laughed loudly and shouted to the other room where my friend was. It was entirely a forgettable experience! I was sixteen.

The first time the opportunity to have intercourse was offered to me I made the mistake of telling her I was a virgin. I don't know if she thought there was some implied commitment or what, but she totally shut me down. We continued dating for a few more months, but things were never the same.

So the next time the opportunity presented itself, I didn't say a word for fear of being denied again. She might have know or suspected it was my first time, but it wasn't because I told her.

Funny, I briefly dated the first girl again a year or so later and told her I had had sex with another person. And we ended up having sex one time. It wasn't very good as she just kind of laid there. In hindsight, I'm now glad my first time was the wild and crazy drunken party sex in a friend's bedroom rather than the boring missionary sex with the other girl.

Yes. She was married, a nurse, 7 years older than my 22, and made a project of seducing me.

She didn't know until afterward, when I told her. But she probably could have guessed, because the feeling of being inside her was so intense that I came very quickly.

We had sex many times in the months that followed, and she was very nurturing... we had wonderful rapport, and she said she felt like she was benefiting from the non-intercourse sex I'd had with other women: each of us knew how to hold and pleasure the other. And after a few times, we found an enchanting rhythm, and premature ejaculation wasn't a problem any longer. ❤️

The first person I had sex with was my college professor. Well, my ex-professor. I just graduated from his class when we decided to start dating. He knew I was a virgin prior to getting down to business. To be 100 percent honest it sucked big hairy donkey balls and not in a good way either.

Mashie

It was the end of my freshman year, classes were over and it was time to leave campus. There was a cute guy I had flirted with so I asked him, or did he ask me, to go over behind the football stadium near the secluded student housing. One thing led to another, we both pulled our pants down and he went at it.

Sorry it happened that way, but it did, no I don't think he thought I was a virgin, just another conquest..

The first guy I had sex with had no idea I was a virgin.

I had been fucking myself with dinner candles (which my mother sometimes noticed were missing and accused me of playing with matches), knockwursts (very smooth, penis sized, nice and warm out of the microwave) and dildos of increasing size since I was about ten years old. I was always putting things inside myself, so by the time I was 17 I was used to penis sized insertions, had countless discussions with my girlfriends about their experiences and had seen a zillion hours of pornos on cable TV and VHS tapes. I knew what sensations I liked and had a pretty good idea of what to do in bed. I even practiced deep throating my dildo to get rid of a gag reflex. My boyfriend at the time (not my husband) was a year older than me and had no idea I was a virgin because we never discussed it and I never told him he was my first sex partner either. I was glad to no longer be a virgin.

Yes, the first person I had PIV sex knew I was a virgin. The second person thought I was; and the third, fourth, fifth .... You might say my virginity was non-binary

Yes, she did, she was much older then me, she was very excited, and I was also, she held my penis and rubbed some of her lava, and pushed in, I didn't get but 2" in her and orgasm, she felt me and orgasm, I felt hot fluid (she was gushing) I thought something happened or I hurt her. I was so scared. She cuddled with me and put one of her nipples in my mouth and we fell asleep.

I do like to say that I am a virgin because I am scared of sex due to Aids or HIV. I would not have sex with anyone unless that person and I have blood work done. I am also a man who does not want kids either so I want to be fix as well. When I have had massages in the passed and if the massage therapist who has never massaged me before goes under my underwear, I freak out because because it makes me think that she is trying to be sneaky and undress me for sex. She doesn't know that but, but I do freak out. Again, I am scared of sex.

@Kermit79 said

I do like to say that I am a virgin because I am scared of sex due to Aids or HIV. I would not have sex with anyone unless that person and I have blood work done. When I have had massages in the passed and if the massage therapist who has never massaged me before goes under my underwear, I freak out because because it makes me think that she is trying to be sneaky and undress me for sex. She doesn't know that but, but I do freak out. Again, I am scared of sex.

Haven't you heard of condoms and safe sex? There isn't any need to be scared of sex for this reason. You cannot eliminate all risk, but it can be minimised by taking sensible precautions.

We all take risks all the time, but we assess them and we take steps to reduce them. You take a risk when you cross the street, but does it stop you? No, of course it doesn't. You check for traffic and then cross, reducing the risk. So by practicing safe sex, you can enjoy yourself while keeping yourself safe.

I am also a man who does not want kids either so I want to be fix as well.

There is such a thing as contraception, and there are many methods. This is the 21st century, and you live in a technologically advanced western country. There is no need to abstain from sex to avoid unwanted pregnancies.

My first one girlfriend knew that I was a virgin. Well, she wasn't, but her earlier experience was rather unpleasant. She was my first true love. I hope that majority of you can compare that first one true feeling when falling in love. It was spring, hormones in rush and we tried that our first time together would be sooner. So one evening nobody home, a cup of tea and we slowly appeared on a sofa. Started from there, ended on a floor. God damn, I did not even get her bra and panties off. Well, she was shy, I was so exited that time that underwear was still on her. This was quickly, I finished, she did not, but we did not have much time being alone that day. So yes, she knew, she did it perfectly, I quickly improved later.

Yes. She was married, a nurse, 7 years older than my 22, and made a project of seducing me.

@intruder Any more details you can add to that story man?

I was close to 11 when I had my first normal vaginal/penis intercourse, and Claudia was a senior in High school. She invited me to go for a ride, and we wound up in the boonies. She had several blankets in the trunk, and invited me to sit while she disrobed herself and then me. She knew I was a virgin, and guided me every step of the way. These are the times a man never forgets.

I was 19 and the 1st person I had sex with was my ex husband Chris. That was clear back in 1997.

The girl who later became my wife did not initially know I was a virgin the first time we did PIV and oral sex as well. She wasn't a virgin though, that I already knew at the time, but for some reason she thought me to be very experienced. I wasn't though, not in real life anyway, but probably from reading and imagining and mentally obsessing about finally having sex with someone.

It wasn't until some 5 years later that an occasion arose when we discussed our past sex lives and she was a bit surprised. Or rather, let's say that was the time she finally believed me. Because she assumed I was being modest on her account or trying to minimize my sexual encounters prior to her.

Near the end of senior year in high school I had PIV sex for first time with my girlfriend. We were both 18, and talked about it before doing it. She knew I was a virgin, and she was eager to be my first. She, on the other hand, had just ended a secret 3 year relationship with a 40 year old man in town, so she seemed experienced to me. Later on I realized that her previous relationship should have landed the man in jail, but there had been no hurt feelings and their relationship had ended on good terms, so it never really bothered either of us at the time.

The night we did it we were both drinking cheep beer at a party. Aside from actually having sex, there was nothing else special or unique about it. We drank, got naked, fucked, got dressed, and returned to the party.

Our relationship lasted a yew more years, but then we drifted apart. Haven’t seen or spoken to her since.

gage said

I was close to 11 when I had my first normal vaginal/penis intercourse, and Claudia was a senior in High school. She invited me to go for a ride, and we wound up in the boonies. She had several blankets in the trunk, and invited me to sit while she disrobed herself and then me. She knew I was a virgin, and guided me every step of the way. These are the times a man never forgets.

You were 11 years old and had intercourse with an 18 year old girl?

Is that what you meant?

@gape said

I was close to 11 when I had my first normal vaginal/penis intercourse, and Claudia was a senior in High school. .....

@SwitchableSusie said

You were 11 years old and had intercourse with an 18 year old girl?

Is that what you meant?

When I first read this, I wasn't sure how old a "senior" would be in the American school system, but it did sound very much older than the poster's age.

@gape - When you say "close" to 11, do you mean you were actually still 10 years of age at the time?

Okay, I will chime in here and skew the bell curve for you all...

I lost my virginity 6 weeks before I turned 34.

Yes, she knew I was a virgin before we had sex and she is 6 years older than me.

And yes I learned a few things that night even though I knew quite abit about sex.

And to answer why I waited so long, I was of the conviction that it should be with someone I really cared about instead of sex for sex sake.

Yes he did, we were each other's first. I was a junior in HS and he was a senior.

The first penis I had in my vagina was after he got me so very hot and I wanted it something fierce. I had always thought about sex and had been masturbating a lot, so something in my vagina was nothing new. I had dreamed about that moment, and I didn't really care if it was true love or not. I just wanted it and he pressed all the right buttons in all the right order. 😈 😜

I doubt if he knew. 😉

Nothing better than the unvarnished truth!!